Without you, I doubt I’d have any relationship with any of the kids….and definitely not the relationship we have with all of them. I know it’s not always been easy…and I know I’ve had to hold you back a time or two …and I know you’ve had your heart broken more than once by their actions, but in true ‘mother’ form, you’ve believed, you’ve loved and you waited them out and because of that we’ve got the best relationship we’ve ever had with all of the kids. I love that about you. -143
PS – Today is all day sex….. I’d love to finish up with a par 3 or better… but as the last weekend of Sexuary I really hope to make it go out with a bang.
My spouse Jackie is an incredible woman! I debated whether or not to post this note I sent to her or not, it's kind of personal, but then I realized this part of her is part of what makes her such a great partner. There are 2 very different personalities. I see black and white, she sees shades of gray. I'm roar like the lion, with the lightening strike of Thor, and she's kind, loving, and giving, in my view almost to a fault at times. But the balance of the 2 has created a relationship that has lasted over 15 years and is honestly better today then it was 15 years ago. Part of that is that she is subservient, not my slave, but wants to serve and make me happy. It's part of what makes her complete and happy. My acknowledgement of that keeps her wanting to give more. My acceptance of that is not only a gift to me, but a gift to her.
I think so many subservient people get abused because of their personalities and that's a shame. Instead of shining and growing, they are left to coward or be upset because once again they were taken advantage of. Instead of becoming who they truly are, they are forever wondering how they wind up in relationships like they do, unappreciated, an never satisfied in life. Often times these same people are in abusive relationships because the abuser mistaken subservient for weak and easy. It's truly sad.
ONTO THE PS!!!! Today was all day sex!!! WOO HOO! I know you're thinking I'm joking right? Well our day starts at breakfast, and then the day really began! Back in bed we went and honestly except for a late lunch around 2 and then ice cream about 7 when we ended, we were in bed the entire day. We cranked the music on the bluetooth speaker and went at it.
We would play then rest....sometimes 15 minutes...sometimes 45....but we were together all day in bed.
Read that again, we were in bed together for almost 10 hours enjoying each others company in every kinky way. Ok there were 2 showers in there too.
Now for those who haven't read about a Par 3, there are 3 holes. so you have to hit every hole on the course to get a Par 3. Remember anal play is a rarity for me, so to get a Par 3, Jackie has to give that up too.
Ok what I've got to say is WOW!!!! That woman jumped in with all her efforts to make this a day to remember forever! Not only did we start out with anal, but several times through out the day we went back there. Her blow job was incredible, and our already good sex was like a new dimension of sex for the entire day.
While choking is something we've played with, we took it up a notch when I brought my robe belt to bed and used it on her. She then put it in her mouth and liked having it there as a bite, something else new for us.
At the end of the day I did get my Par 3 with 2 extra holes for bonuses.
Look we get it, if you've read this years blog you realized we've had to change plans more times than not. LIFE SUCKS THE JOY OUT OF GETTING THERE!!! If you don't make it a serious priority in your relationship, sex can all but disappear. We know so many couples that couldn't tell you the last time they had sex, or it's one of those only on a very rare occasion. Life, grudges, lack of communication, one person not realizing that sex is something the other wants or doesn't understand that it is really THAT important to the other person in the relationship and won't make the effort to go there. Relationships take effort. Sex in a relationship takes even more effort. And great sex, well let's just say not many are willing to put forth that much effort....so the sex they do have is routine and often times one sided where one of the 2 are 'satisfied' and the other just fakes it to be done and over with it.
Nobody deserves any of that!!! Hence Sexuary. You've still got a couple of days, MAKE SOMETHING HAPPEN!!! Be different today. Try something you've always wanted to. Talk to your significant other. Be the aggression. Be the subservient one. Talk. Make time and make it stick, no excuses. Find that second wind and be there for your significant other. Whatever it takes quit making excuses and do something!!! It's hard, we get it, trust me after 26 days we understand just how hard, and we raise 4 kids, so we really do understand. It's why Sexuary was so important to us 13-14 years ago when we started, and why we continue to this day supporting Sexuary.