Tuesday, February 23, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Sounds

   

So Monday came around and I had kind of thrown out my back helping Jackie with some gardening on Sunday.  She almost put back the draw for the day and draw again, but she decided that playing with sounds would be easy on the back. 

Now I have gotten an added interest in my penis lately.  I've been purchased several metal rings to try and wear, and played with some catheters and such.  For those that don't know, sounds are generally metal rods that you insert into the urethra. They can be inserted in both male or female urethras, but you generally see men using them.

Now my thought had been I would masturbate while Jackie used them on me, sliding the different sized sounds in through the top of my penis.  Jackie wasn't comfortable with that so we switched roles.  I have a set that goes from 'no big deal' to 'no fucking way' in size.  Truth be told, I can get the first 8 sizes in me (each sound has 2 ends, and each end is a different size).   So before we played I cleaned all the sounds with alcohol.  Last thing you need is to get in infection from a dirty toy in your urethra.

Then both Jackie and I lubed up and we started.  She started slowly masturbating me as I started inserting the smallest sound in me.  Masturbation feels so much different with a sound in.  I would leave it in for a bit...slide it up and down...then I'd go up a size and start all over again.  

With a little more effort after we done with the sounds I finished nicely.  It was a great way to finish and not hurt my back anymore. Win/win!

Dane

Sexuary 2021 - Biting, sucking and a Good Hard Fuck

 

 

Way back in the first year we blogged about our Sexuary, we picked autovampirism as one of our kinks to try.  It's one of those things we don't wait a year to try, as Jackie really likes it.  Maybe that's why she reads so many vampire/werewolf romantic stories, she wants to be the one bitten and taken. 

So tonight I drew "biting, sucking and a good hard fuck".  So as soon as we got into the bedroom I spun Jackie around and pinned her up against the wall and started biting on her neck and back.  Feeling her shutter with each bite and kiss.  

We often talk about sex in places other than your bed.  And maybe you wind up in your bed, but why not start someplace else? In my case up against the wall, it definitely riles Jackie up and gets her in a good place quickly. 

When I was done with the biting and sucking on her back, I spun her around and started all over again on her neck and breast. Finally I spun her over to the bed where I bent her over and took care of the rest of the days task.  

A couple of bite marks or hickeys are not always a bad thing, especially if you're all working from home, and/or they are in inconspicuous places. They can be fun and a great reminder of a good nights fun. 

Dane 

Saturday, February 20, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Rope Play

So rope is something that Jackie and I got into during Texas Kink Fest 2018.  We've since found groups like Austin Rope Slingers and websites like Crash Restraint that have kept us going since then.  For Christmas this year I even got a mannequin so I can rope without Jackie (though it's definitely not the same as roping a real person).  

Today I drew that we were to play with rope.  Nothing specific, just rope.  So I decided to put a small harness on Jackie and then tying her legs up and her hands to her legs.  So I put a new harness on Jackie, one we hadn't done before, but I had seen.  It didn't tie her arms up at all, but did secure her breast. I do this often, I look at Shibari pictures, and ones I think I'm capable of doing, or capable of figuring out how to do it, then I save them into a folder for later scrutiny.  I enjoy figuring out how the ropes lay and what knots go where.  I've actually figured out some pretty complicated knots over time.  

I recently wrote the following for a magazine to describe roping, I hope you'll appreciate roping a bit more: 

When I rope with Jackie, my world narrows to this little space we’re in. Her breath, her heartbeat, her littlest twitch, or nod of her head are all caught by my senses. Getting her to ‘her place’ is my goal every time. That place subs go when they let the ropes hold them tight, secure, and they know they are in the safest place on earth, and all they must do is be in the moment. The joy is knowing I’ve met those needs, kept her safe and brought her back.  The world around us doesn’t exist for that short time. People can come and go, but I only hear her breath, I only see her body as she melts into my ropes. It’s a huge lift to my soul to know I’ve taken her to the most peaceful place on earth…and that she trust me enough to do that.  -Dane/56/4 years roping

Then the after math is just as important for me.  When I self rope I love the feeling of rope on my body, but the rope marks it leaves when I'm done is sometimes even better.  That bite that reminds you for hours is some of the best parts. You rub your leg or sides and can just float back into that zone. It's an awesome feeling. 

We hope our blog has given you some ideas of what to bring into your bedroom and make a change to your sex life. We do this blog so people know it's ok to WANT to do other things in the bedroom then what you're doing, and lastly we want you to know how to do some of this safely, or how to go about learning about what you want to learn about. If you have an idea for us email us or send us a comment. 

Dane

Resources for Jute rope, it's what I use to tie Jackie, myself, and my mannequin with and I love these 2 vendors:

MyNawashi  - https://www.etsy.com/listing/250064748/pink-shibari-rope-bondage-kit?ref=related-4

Rope Bound Kitten - https://ropeboundkitten.net/


 



Sexuary 2021 - Sensations


 If you've read through our blog you know this is a favorite for Jackie and I.  It's taking things in your house, and/or that you've collected and use them on your blindfolded partner.  The sensation of heat, cold, hard, soft, wet, dry, pain, and pleasure all in one session. In preparation  I put a couple of towels on the bed and pulled out all the supplies I'd use tonight.

So I started the night by really working Jackie up, kissing and rubbing all over her.  One of the best aphrodisiacs out there is touch...and lots of it. After I got Jackie all wound up I put a blindfold on her and put cuffs on her after I moved her to the middle of the bed. 

Her favorite cover was tossed over her and I gently pulled it down to her feet.  The softness of this blanket can send chills down your body.  It was the first of the sensations. 

Next came fire.  As I lit one of my fire sticks I then gently rolled it over Jackies body over and over again.  I whip it around some areas, running it back and forth. I walked to the other side of the bed when Jackie "ouched...something bit me on the ankle." I looked down and one of the towels had an alcohol burn running by her leg.  I quickly put out the fire on the towel.  Just goes to show you when play with fire, you must at all times be careful and prepared.  I continued with the fire till I was done and Jackie had a warmth all over her skin. 

A small flogger made Jackie jump as I gently slashed it against her legs, belly and bottom of her feet.  

I took Jackies nipple clamps and started to place them on her. In the past I've put them on and then tighten them down all the way. Today, fully opened Jackie was pulling on her ropes and acting like I ws pulling her nipples off. The only thing we can think of is now she's had her nipples pierced and that's caused a different sensation for her. 

I took clothespins and  put them on her labia and left them there.  I put a 3rd on the one nipple that I couldn't get the clamp to stay on. 

Next was the violet wand and wartenberg wheel.  The shock of the wand and then the needles of the wheel add to the sensations over her body. 

I slowly pulled the clothespins and nipple clamp off of Jackie and watched as she felt the blood rush back to those parts. You could hear her sucking air as each one was removed 

A little cornstarch for smoothness over her body came next. 

I brought her to mutliple orgasm using her bodywand vibrator then I climbed on her and brought her to more.  

We laid there, me gently rubbing on her after we were finished up. It was a great night and another great Sexuary night. 

Sensation, especially when heighten by blindfolding and tied up, can be very erotic and very sensual.  Might be something you'd like to try with your significant other. 

Dane

Wednesday, February 17, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - A 15 Minute Break

 
So with Covid and all Jackie and I both work from home.  Now I go to the office naked as a jaybird every day.  Only if I HAVE to go out will I put on any cloths, otherwise it's naked all day long.  Jackie generally gets dress when she goes into her office.  Puts her in a more 'work mode' mentally.  Once she goes into her office she comes out for bathroom breaks and occasionally a coffee break.  So I put into the jar a slip saying, "Make her take a 15 min break, bend her over the desk and fuck her (15 minutes total limit)".  

Now her day was not the best. I can often hear her on the phone, and this day she was agitated and aggravated with an employee. She had meetings and I was getting a bit worried that I wouldn't be able to break into her day without causing problems.  Then about 45 mins before the end of her day I heard things get quiet and figured it was my chance to sweep in there. As I was walking in she was at the door about to take a break.  I spun her around and took her back to her desk, pulled some lube out (I even thought about that) and bent her over the desk as I put my phone with a 15 minute timer on her desk.  "Break time" began with her bent over and me sliding in her.  

I did my best to take her mind off of work and onto what was sliding in and out of her.  

Ok, but the big deal was it was something different.  We kiss during the day, but we never just stop work and have a quickie.  It was different when Jackie didn't work from or didn't work, but now we both have jobs at home. So to make time during the middle of the day is a different sex day for us.  

 If you're stuck at home together, surprise one another with a 15 minute quickie, I can't imagine it wouldn't make your partners day.  

Dane

PS - I guess I just warmed up Jackie's engine.  When she was done, she wanted more. I let her know if it was just feeling bad I didn't finish then not to worry, but nope, she wanted more...damn near demanded it...so what's a guy to do but help Jackie out. 😈


Sunday, February 14, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Clean Sheet Sex


Just a Sexuary quickie

So am I the only person who loves clean sheet sex?  I think that's one of the reasons 'hotel sex' is something for me too, it's both 'hotel sex' and 'clean sheet sex' all in one. 😍You get that someone took the time to prepare a space for the two of you to mess up on purpose. There's a mental plus along with the physical with 'clean sheet sex'.....at least for me. 

So for Valentines today, after Jackie got out of bed I took the old sheets off and put clean sheets on. Guess that means it will be 'clean sheet sex' for us on Valentines day!!  Hope you've done something special for your partner on the hump-day of Sexuary.  Halfway through, have you spun the wheel, done something special, reached outside of your sexual box that you keep the lid on so tightly, anything? How about just some clean sheet sex? It's worth a try isn't it? 

Dane

Sexuary 2021 - Fireplay

 

Since we've started with fire play, we've tried it many times.  We've varied it up and different designs do different things.  So this year I was able to make videos for you.  I started with a heart shape on Jackies back:

 
I created a different design with the intent of some immediate heat in multiple directions all at one time.  You'll notice how this one kept going for a couple of rounds before stopping.  Be prepared to stop it if you see it's going to long and could burn your model. 
 
 
For the 3rd video I just did a zig-zag design on Jackie
 

For the 4th I didn't 'burn' anything. I took the same flame torches I would use in fire cupping and just glide them all over Jackies body.  This will give her a warm sensation.  In her words, "it feels like a huge body hug" 


I did one more simple design, but again with the intent of multiple passes before it stops.  

 

I didn't realize at the time but I recorded more than I expected.  You'll note just like any type of kink play there is an aftercare.  We didn't just get up and go.  In this care I caressed Jackie for a minute and then covered her.  I let her float in her subspace for about 5 - 10 minutes before we got up and I cleaned up our playspace while she went to relax. 

"I wish people could just understand" was Jackies comment as she climbed down from the massage table.  Jackie seriously went to her special place while we played.  

Now this isn't a great lead to intercourse, but not all sex is there.  Sometimes it's just about the intimacy you and your partner achieve, and that doesn't always mean traditional sex.  Today, for us, this is one of those days.  

One of the things in BDsm is the trust the sub has to have for their Dom, and the care and preparation the Dom must have to keep the sub safe and maintain that trust. I don't think the average couple ever achieves that level of trust a BDsm couple does.  

We hope you enjoy the videos, please feel free to comment or contact us with questions or comments. 

Dane
 


Sexuary 2021 - Choking

 

 

This is something we've started since Sexuary 2020.  During last years Sexuary I broached the subject with Jackie.  We are always looking for something new, and when we push our limits it's always something we discuss.  So during Sexuary 2020 I gave Jackie the choice, and at the time she asked that we not do it that night, but to think about.  During the year we've slowly introduced it to our bag of sexual adventures.  So Sexuary 2021 comes around and of course it gets put on the list. 

So as we start I gently apply pressure to her arteries on each side of her throat, limiting blood flow to her brain, which adds to her high.  This is our primary source of 'choking' that we do.  I will wrap my hand around her throat and tighten ...just as I do tonight, constricting her breath flow.  On both of these you have to be careful. 

If you hold the arteries to long you can literally cause brain damage.  If you press to hard on the throat constricting air flow you can snap the esophagus, or cause death from suffocation.   Mind you there are 700 deaths a year attributed to this type of play, so before you do it make sure you're very educated and EVERYONE is ok with it.   

Both types of choking will cause a high.  Jackie struggled at first with 'how can something so dangerous/wrong put me in such a good place?  It will send Jackie into a subspace when we play like this.  

Looking for something over the edge? Choking might be for you and your partner.  But like so many of the kinks we try, make sure you are well educated before you try it.  

Dane

PS, have you spun the wheel and treated your partner to some surprise play?  What are you waiting for?

Friday, February 12, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Piercings


Ok, for those of you who have followed our blog you know that Jackie got her nipples pierced for Sexuary 2020.  It was the last day of Sexuary, and was something she'd wanted for a couple of years.  Was funny, because some time during Sexuary 2020 she even said, "geez, I'd really think I'm ready to get my nipples pierced" not knowing I had already made an appointment with someone to have them done.  

Well if you're into piercings, then you know it's kind of like tattoos, you start with one, but that's just the start, you are always wanting more.  Jackie is no exception.  She had pierced ears, but had let them close, so she wanted them back opened up.  She wanted another one on her upper ear, and one on her eyebrow.  

So being the guy I am I started my research and started gathering tools and equipment I needed to make that happen.  It's taken me months to be prepared for Sexuary 2021 and the possibility to do several piercings.  I wasn't disappointed when I pulled the tag to do piercings.  I let Jackie know and asked her exactly what it is that she wanted pierced.  Well she did want her nose along with her eye brow and ears, but we didn't have the proper piercings for the nose (they are ordered and will be here next week).  

But in the meantime I was able to get her 2nd hole in her ear reopened, and then put the 16 gauge needle through her upper ear.  The amount of blood was a bit over whelming, but otherwise the needle went right through and the earring went right through with it.  

Now up to the eyebrow.  So looking there are a couple of things to be more careful of, like it has to be deep enough or the ring can be rejected and pushed out, and you want it straight, and you want the entry and exit to be about the length of the piece you're going to use. So we marked her eyelid and I used some forceps style device to hold the skin tight and in place. I pushed the needle through and I was afraid the needle had gone through to far without the needle to follow.  Thankfully I was able to back it up and get the piece back in and run it through successfully.  Then the fun began, to put the little bitty ball on the end of that shaft.  I tried, then Jackie tried, then I tried, then Jackie tried, then I finally got it on.  WHEW!!! You have blood, a tiny little ball with a smaller little hole to get on that rod and spin.  I did finally get it tighten on there for Jackie. 

A little more clean up of the blood and alcohol wipes for sanitation, then we were done.  Did it hurt? Jackie says it smarted but it didn't last long.  The blood was a bit more than I expected, but we got through it. Next time I'll have the paper towels handy to start. 

Dane

Thursday, February 11, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Sex On The Living Room Floor

 
Ok, I get it, you plop into bed, rollover, get a bit and go to sleep.  That was our life for the most part prior to Sexuary coming into our lives.  And if you think we went from that to where we are overnight then you haven't been reading the struggles we have along the way too. So now we have sex just where ever we are, whenever we are, with whatever we have handy and it brings us closer together.  One of the things we enjoy is sex in every room of the house (yes we are empty nesters have have that privileged).  But tonight's draw was to have sex in the living room, in front of the fireplace. 

When Jackie got off of work I had the fireplace going.  It's been about 33F all day here, so the fire was a nice touch.  When Jackie when outside for a bit I pulled several blankets and laid them out in front of the fireplace, tossed a couple of pillows down for us. 

It's so easy to get in a rut. The same pats, the same kisses, the same location, the same sex.  Don't get me wrong, I've rarely had bad sex, but it can be so much better than when we're in a rut.  

So tonight the kisses were on the floor, the rubbing of her thighs had the cold from the floor and the heat from the fireplace.  The flickering light of the fireplace lit up Jackie's' body as I caressed her.  When she rolled over the feeling of the floor under me instead of the bed just makes it different some how. 

It's the little things that makes the difference, we've all heard that. So for us, today, it was moving into the living room for our nightly Sexuary romp in the hay. 

Dane
 

Wednesday, February 10, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - The Spanking Bench

Ok, I'm not going to lie, the idea of someone on my spanking bench, open and available for my inflicting pain is oddly intoxicating. It will make my dick hard as a rock just thinking about it, so you can imagine my day knowing that this was in my near future...the anticipation was near impossible. 

"It's a very paincentric evening" I warned Jackie.  It's only fair to give her a heads up with all I had in mind.

First we had made out a bit in the living room, just enough to get Jackie her first orgasm, and in a very good place to start.  Let's face it pain is a 2 edge sword, not enough or to much pain becomes just pain, but that right amount of pain become pure pleasure.  Being warmed up prior only makes it easier to make the pain go the right direction...gives you a bigger zone to hit. When we walked into the room I let her know that the school paddles were still in the drawer and would not be used tonight.  I knew this would put her mind at ease some that the 1 thing that can take her to a bad place quickly was not going to be used tonight. 

I placed Jackie on the spanking bench and started with some stroking her back with my finger nails.  It brings the blood to the surface and makes it better for that what is coming.  I check her, and she's very wet already, and I can quickly bring her to another orgasm.  Then I really started.  


First a couple of swats with a riding crop, then I took one of the 2 new floggers we inherited and laid into her a couple of good times.  This one is wider straps, heavier, and definitely a thudder. It's not much of a stinger but is a good warm up.  

Then I broke out one of the whipping cane.  Three swats on the right cheek that definitely left 3 nice whelps.  They are beautiful raised on Jackies ass cheeks. 

Again I check Jackie out, while thrusting I swatted her left ass cheek good and hard.  She jumped as my hand left it's print in her lovely skin.  She came hard and I moved on. 

The next flogger is The Grand Emperor from Flogmebaby.com. It's long tines give a great stinging swat with it's 32" straps.  Her back started to show signs of the abuse it was receiving.... lines raised in her back and when I ran my fingers over her now she definitely arched her back.  

Now her left cheek received the swatting of the 3 swats of cane.  Oh the delicious whelps that started to raise were beautiful.  She was so wet as I slid back into her and brought her to another orgasm.  They are almost coming easier now.  I took the handle to the Grand Emperor and slid it in Jackie and brought her off once more.  

Her right cheek received the smack of my hand, leaving a beautifully raised hand print.   

With both ass cheeks with hand prints, and both with 3 marks each from the cane I brought out the 1 thing Jackie had asked me to try this month, the new yellow flogger we inherited.  One strike of that and it was a quick 'no'.  Later she said it felt like a baseball bat hitting her, and it left 4 square marks on her back where they hit, and honestly I was barely swinging.  I can't imagine if I had gone even 60-70%.  

We moved to the bed and with all the excitement I quickly finished up.  I lost count of the number of orgasms Jackie had in the process. Her pain/pleasure sensors were on overdrive tonight.

Now when we were done I made sure to put some lotions on the marks.  Remember when you do something as traumatic as this scene can be, you need to make sure there is some aftercare.  

If you're interested in the spanking benches, floggers, caning, or any other paincentric activity, please feel free to reach out to Jackie or I for more information. 

Dane




 



Sexuary 2021 - Just-A-Swinging

 
So if you remember last year we purchased a swing for Jackie to suspend in for playtime in our dungeon.  Well with her back issues this year we hadn't gotten to use it, but her back was ok for tonight, so we gave it a whirl. 
 
So since last year we've adjusted the swing so when she's in it she's the perfect height for me to get in.  We've also added a head/neck piece to support her head some.  Last night I adjusted her leg braces up some, to spread her a bit more.  We also brought in a small ladder so she could get up in the swing easier and more comfortably.

We have it hung on the same rack we use for rope suspension.  This was just something I made from pipe from Lowes.  4 pipes 7 1/2' long, then 3 pipes I cut into 5' sections for the top (and one down the center).  Pretty simple to build and only took about 20 minutes to setup. With 2 people it could go even faster.

So I put Jackie up on the swing then I sat on the ladder and gave her a good licking before she wanted more of me.  I was able to just stand right up and slide right into her.  By pushing her back just a bit, it made it easy to bounce her as I plunged in and out.  

One of the things I love about this setup is that it's good for up to 600 lbs.  We're no where close, but I like that it's way over kill and safe for Jackie while she's on there. The last thing we want to do is cause more injures. 

It's also very easy to on the guy while she's on the swing if you've got the height adjusted. That did take a couple of times before we got that right. 

So this one had some forethought to it, but since we have all the equipment (and the rack is already up in the bedroom), it's a fun change to leaning over or climbing in the bed for sex.  Give it a try.  

Go make your Sexuary something special.  Plan something outside your box and surprise your partner for Sexuary 2021!

Dane

 
 

 

Sexuary - Sometime it's not as planned

So Monday is Jackies day to pull and she pulled my favorite, ass play.  If you've been reading our blog for any time what so ever, you know I love a good fisting on occasion.  Well we get going, and things are a bit tight, and things just didn't happen.  It doesn't all the time, especially when you're talking ass play, or peoples moods, or just sex in general.  Over the years I've had a million plans in my head that just don't make it there for a million and one reasons.  Today was one of them.  

So here's where the problem can happen.  I got a bit frustrated, Jackie felt bad (which she shouldn't have, as it wasn't her fault) and the mood just went south for a bit, even though Jackie really did try to get me out of my funk.  

I did come around and apologize later for my funk, but by then it was way to late to do anything. The good thing is the next day came and things were back on track. We didn't let 1 bad experience ruin our sex life.  As they say we got back on the horse and rode the next day. I listen to so many people that years go by and they don't have that relationship with their significant other. Maybe it was one bad day that turned to two, that just never could turn around, and now it's years later, and we don't even really know why, just that we are here, but it's been that way so long we can't get out of the rut.  Sexuary has been Jackies and my guarantee to stay out of the ruts sexually, which we all know leads to other issues in our lives so many times.  

It's still plenty of time to make a change in your sex life.  Sexuary still has plenty of time to do something different.  Be the bold one...take the first step...get out of that comfort zone and make something happen this Sexuary. 

Dane

Tuesday, February 9, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Picture day

 

Let's face it, men are visual creatures.  We LOVE our women and we love seeing our women in various poses and when they go all out, wow, just wow. It's why Glamour Shots has done such a great business over the years. So today's draw was inspired by a couple of our friends. One takes some fantastically hot pictures and post them on Facebook.  The ones she'll send to Jackie to share with me are even hotter. FUCK they are hot.  So I was telling a friend how I wish Jackie would send me more pictures just here and there, randomly, just to tease me here and there. I love when she does that, and will continue to go back to that pictures for weeks sometimes. I save every one she sends me. This friend is starting her photography business in south Houston and wanted to do a day shoot with Jackie. Well that's a date we couldn't turn down. So after the 130+ pictures came out we knew this was going to be something we'd do again.  

So I drew 'Picture night…..dress up and pictures…maybe some play in between changes … lots of pictures with toys involved." I was SUPER excited!!! So I let Jackie know at lunch when we got home the she was going to get her picture taken when we got home.  

We started on her motorcycle out in the front yard, to include the boob shot while on her Harley.  We moved indoors and the attire got sexier. Wow, Jackie was looking good!.. Pictures started fully clothed, and ended up with my cock in her mouth and the camera still going.  Whew...ok, change of clothes and more pictures...then a couple of positions...a few cloths fall off...more cock sucking...lots more pictures...another change of cloths...more positions...me climbing on the bed to attach my hot wife...more pictures...fewer cloths...another change of cloths...move to the guest room..more cock sucking ...more pictures...and finally I couldn't take it anymore and after over 330 pictures I finished with a shot of my own.  WHEW...what a freaking hot session.  

I took pictures of Jackie up close, far away, very intimate, me in her mouth, and inside of her.  There was even a couple of selfies of the two of us when we were done.  Whew.  I have to say, it was extremely exciting.  It was exciting talking pictures of Jackie as she was having an orgasm, and catching that in pictures. It's even more exciting to know I have all these pictures to go through. I'm certain that I'll touch up a couple dozen of them to share, but I'll have all 330+ forever of my hot wife.

Your partner should always know you think they are hot!! One great way to do it is to take pictures of them ...and who knows where that might lead to...I know where it led to with Jackie and myself. It was one hot day in the bedroom. 

Dane

PS - Maybe later this month I'll add a couple of the photos..so peek back in if you're interested.









Friday, February 5, 2021

Sexuary 2021 - Needle Play


So when I drew today it came up "Needle Play".  Now I knew this was an especially tough day for Jackie.  It was the anniversary of her moms death, and I knew that pain can be very cathartic for her.  I could allow her a relief she wouldn't get any other way.  In the past that often means a good flogging, but as luck of the draw would have it would be needles. 

Now I'm by no means a worlds leading artist in any format.  I've played with the needles, and frankly they are a bit tough to make a design that is anything.  Definitely not as easy as it might seem.  But I wanted to do a heart.  It is Sexuary after all, a time for love, and I thought the symbolism of a heart on this day might help her out some.  So I had an idea and prepped.  I got the massage table out, the needles and prep (alcohol wipe, gloves, disposal canister, trash can, and camera) all ready.  

When she was ready I blindfolded her. We've found the anticipation when she watches takes away from the ordeal, and leads to some anxiety.  So blindfolded it is. And then I started. 

WOW, only 5th needle in and she feels like I've stabbed her 6" south of where my needle was.  I showed her with her hand where I was, and that I was no where near where she thought.  I asked her if I needed to stop, and she assured me she would be ok, so I continued on. 

There were times as I continued her emotions welled up inside of her. I would make sure she was ok, ask her color, and continue on.  We were 3 from the end when she wanted to stop. THREE!!! I asked her if she could handle the 3 more and she said yes, but only 3 more. 

When I finished I took the pictures..and held my hand on the needles and let her feel the sensations.  This zone is as important as the putting in the needles.  I let her stay there till she told me she was ready to remove the needles.  I quickly removed them and took more pictures.  The raised areas are beautiful.  The heart on her chest was lopsided a bit, but still one of the best designs I've ever done. 

Needle play is one of those not very conducive to intercourse afterwards, but it does bring you closer.  The trust Jackie has that I will not hurt her, the love I have as I am putting those needles in, knowing that even as they hurt, they are healing, is all part of the process that those not in the lifestyle will never understand.  I get it, while I have never been vanilla, I have been in vanilla relationships.  There is a difference. This relationship, and the work we do in Sexuary is very important to us!!!

So I've included the pictures of the 50+ needles in her chest, and then of the heart shape left after we were done.  Honestly it looks even better the day after, though there was a yelp from the shower as the warm water hit that area of her chest. 

Do a couple of things if you are going to try this: 1) make sure you get sterile needles individually wrapped.  Once the package is opened either use it or dispose of it. 2) always wear gloves, but remember, odds are eventually you are going to get poked yourself too.  3) Sterilize the surface to be poked with alcohol before and after (yes it's going to sting afterwards, but better than an infection), 4) Dispose of your needles properly.  Originally I had a coffee can with a taped lid and skull and crossbones on it, now I have the same as hospitals...but either way these are bio hazards, treat them as such.  5) remember proper aftercare.  This can be just as traumatic as a flogging or more, remember that. 

Hope this helps, and for the records those are 27 and 25 gauge needles I used.  Since I was doing so many I went small.  

Dane