tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22744639549777047332024-02-27T09:50:47.262-06:00Sexuary - Our Daily JournalJackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.comBlogger197125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-90828286754413769882024-02-25T14:19:00.001-06:002024-02-25T14:19:59.786-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Back On - Picture Day and Porn<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuKi8cicwJx25qHuLuUazhsE3eyXsUV8gzlKqgJJvY7dCs-GftttS0n97p6LZJBMEk2WcY5O70jkotCu4toXxzFxCK-BI5sq43h983edfKBuB6oHwRD14gkiIRycQytuCkVtWOEtVlqy9FdAG4K-Eddoh_y3Wv7HGGnJ25Q58UPRbnAZKY6QZc_dygifM/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuKi8cicwJx25qHuLuUazhsE3eyXsUV8gzlKqgJJvY7dCs-GftttS0n97p6LZJBMEk2WcY5O70jkotCu4toXxzFxCK-BI5sq43h983edfKBuB6oHwRD14gkiIRycQytuCkVtWOEtVlqy9FdAG4K-Eddoh_y3Wv7HGGnJ25Q58UPRbnAZKY6QZc_dygifM/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><br /> So Jackie is feeling better, and we've played once or twice, though we have had a full week with a munch for Texas Kink Fest on Thursday night and a house full of prospective. Thankfully though the vertigo is gone and we can actually continue on with Sexuary. <p></p><p>I was offered the opportunity to have my 'Saturday' from my weekend of Domming, but passed on it, we were both mentally out of the Dom/sub mental state, and I just didn't think it would be the same. </p><p>So Friday night we used the kegel balls and flogging. Things we've already discussed this year, and nothing really new. </p><p>Saturday afternoon we did our annual picture day. This time we took it to Jackie's work place since she now has a huge garage that was empty, and we thought the area would be deserted on a Saturday morning. Ha were we fooled. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzImHwT84ggTqGx_eUWe8T5so98Bhx8ceCcXmWWN7W-qDOdr0lJ-Tbq_8iM2QsH-C7fGsW1H8qzQKw6EfDtoxpulbbNFHH_kThNaydgSkFHNVywqGBEOJ18zLci5NiGEC3SJBgavDnjSlcv8XNZRIXCx1bjJD6rYqMbN75UIT2KTFk5Q67H7JW6VzkJj4/s3491/20240224_101459-edit-20240224132811.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3491" data-original-width="2618" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgzImHwT84ggTqGx_eUWe8T5so98Bhx8ceCcXmWWN7W-qDOdr0lJ-Tbq_8iM2QsH-C7fGsW1H8qzQKw6EfDtoxpulbbNFHH_kThNaydgSkFHNVywqGBEOJ18zLci5NiGEC3SJBgavDnjSlcv8XNZRIXCx1bjJD6rYqMbN75UIT2KTFk5Q67H7JW6VzkJj4/w150-h200/20240224_101459-edit-20240224132811.jpg" width="150" /></a></div><p>We did take over 100 pictures in the garage with her motorcycle (yes, HER motorcycle) and a variety of outfits (and lack there of). I also got some pictures of her riding her bike with shorts and just her club vest. We were even able to get one picture of her opening up her vest long enough for me to get a picture without her exposing herself to all the people that were there on a Saturday, a picture I've been wanting for a long time now. Just no good place to go riding that you can do it nude or semi nude without having some uptight mom calling the police on you.</p><p>When we got home it was 75F and a beautiful day. I mowed the lawn (it's insane that I've had to mow my lawn 2x this month (Sexuary) in winter. After the lawn was mowed,we took a few other pictures in the backyard on the lounge chair. </p><p> I always love Jackie on picture day. She is so freaking sexy and it's a year to year journal of Jackie and her sexual growth. I look back and her shyness is gone and her sexuality shines. </p><p>In Jackie's preparation to be a Dom this week, a friend had pointed her to PornHub and <a href="https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=6574bd0f36625" target="_blank">T</a><span class="inlineFree"><a href="https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=6574bd0f36625" target="_blank">he dungeon of Lady Dimitrescu</a>. Jackie had shared that with me one night, so I pulled up her dungeon, and picked out a movie to watch and waited for Jackie to come back inside. When she did we laid spooning and I started the videos. Let's just say that I was extremely excited and wasn't going to wait to slowly start stroking inside of Jackie. After the 3rd 10-15 minute video we turned things off and finished up. </span></p><p><span class="inlineFree">It was exciting to both of us, because we both knew that some of this was going to be happening over the next week. We even ordered a new anal hook based upon one of her videos (already in today). </span></p><p><span class="inlineFree">Now porn isn't something we watch often, but I can definitely see where watching it together was freaking hot. I told Jackie I'd like to find a bi-sexual 3some with 2 guys to watch for another time. I think we might add this every once in a while to our cycle of things we do. </span></p><p><span class="inlineFree">Dane<br /></span></p><p><br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-45531813103338142822024-02-17T17:10:00.000-06:002024-02-17T17:10:21.528-06:00Sexuary 2024 - DOM/Sub - Part 3<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><br />Day 5 came along and Jackie had to leave the house for work, a rarity. So for the morning I told her she could be naked instead of dressing up. We were supposed to host a Munch at our house that night, Jackie had a doctor's appointment after work, so honestly I didn't have much planned. <p></p><p>We played some, and then I had Jackie turn around and masturbate for me. I wanted to watch her masturbate while stroked my cock. After a while, I aided her with my fingers, and brought her off several times, and I ended up cumming all over her. Nothing overly dominant, nothing strenuous, but still it was a good day. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTYH5_Nr8sDHP2DlmSnk4rQdmi05MS4IC1LO98evtK4xrKmEAxUU9GqYZ0bdsTisaDO6cHPgduf4rW5Q0_50yoMUuVbTyo1MYjOXl5ai625vqLk8y-pQPJAyCFtGCiQ8PgwCunjvOu686jcd7-UJPh2g8R_9OaojZ2vD-ATJW3vQBbcOMkmMuhpiaZwIY/s3552/20240216_161631.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3552" data-original-width="2879" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTYH5_Nr8sDHP2DlmSnk4rQdmi05MS4IC1LO98evtK4xrKmEAxUU9GqYZ0bdsTisaDO6cHPgduf4rW5Q0_50yoMUuVbTyo1MYjOXl5ai625vqLk8y-pQPJAyCFtGCiQ8PgwCunjvOu686jcd7-UJPh2g8R_9OaojZ2vD-ATJW3vQBbcOMkmMuhpiaZwIY/w162-h200/20240216_161631.jpg" width="162" /></a></div>Friday came along and I had plans. I had invited someone else to join us for the fun, but she had to work late. Jackie had been looking great all day, and I had loved watching her walk around the house some. I definitely loved watching her ass, she looked so great!<p></p><p>When we went out to dinner, I asked her to wear shoes she could take off and rub those stocking feet over my crotch. Unfortunately the booth was to far apart for her to do that. I was very disappointed!</p><p>When we got home I gave Jackie about 20 minutes while I went into the bedroom to get things ready. I put some old towels across the bottom of the bed, and grabbed the UV paints that I had let Jackie borrow the week before, paint brushes (Jackie keeps a glass full of them...I would never own a paint brush on my own), I had purchased a cup with three areas, that have a single pour spout...I thought some colors, and one with some glitter might look great for a big finish. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhf3QPlPXUZAG6pAqyi7n1E3xLjrd8YkIT9lOIhkhSiwGDsloq6P1gJHhPbLmtKYz5zSvUMKumxVAUIGgxeZSdwhIGRJlBsdbxT-27goDqPspIPnDtDRPYQRwCwKo9l4w0rtGo20kq2cXz_y8kVO5MjzXH_Vdl8DJt14C8vaKT_bOIUTtK2GJDShpIPo4/s2574/20240216_201002v2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2574" data-original-width="1725" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhhf3QPlPXUZAG6pAqyi7n1E3xLjrd8YkIT9lOIhkhSiwGDsloq6P1gJHhPbLmtKYz5zSvUMKumxVAUIGgxeZSdwhIGRJlBsdbxT-27goDqPspIPnDtDRPYQRwCwKo9l4w0rtGo20kq2cXz_y8kVO5MjzXH_Vdl8DJt14C8vaKT_bOIUTtK2GJDShpIPo4/w134-h200/20240216_201002v2.jpg" width="134" /></a></div>I had Jackie undress, and put her into the bed and started painting. Her belly was the start, and I started with some colors. I quickly realized I didn't have enough containers to pour the paint into, I didn't have any paper towels, and I didn't remember a cup of water So I quickly dashed into the kitchen to get everything I needed.<p></p><p>I'm about 3 colors into the painting when Jackie needed to go to the bathroom. I carefully got Jackie off the bed and led her to the bathroom. I turned off the lights so she couldn't see the paint job. I got her back in the bed, and from her just below her belly button to mid-thighs were mostly smeared. Jackie told me to go get the makeup removers. She was crying because she knew I was frustrated. I was more frustrated that I hadn't gotten any pictures before I took her to the bathroom, and not thinking about the paint smearing. I had to calm her down, and told her I would work through it. It took a dozen sheet of remover and several paper towels, but I was able to then repaint the areas that had smeared. <br /></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivRFqOVTXX-dpkCV5wpmKZmllDsBF7ry95vI1Zwg5NduddoJzZNr2jlo64vAWAhGuI-fDal_G1TrTktWaCjPFxHE7Mg6nIRh7qjiMSj4riYO9RiZsNrmPPHuWmTsDqJ8O5gd3F0_O2YSHuChhCO28C3obf5rn0Dkq2oX_Iz0OaRYUzsIdcV6eeIEsmkXk/s2458/20240216_201104v2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2458" data-original-width="1164" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivRFqOVTXX-dpkCV5wpmKZmllDsBF7ry95vI1Zwg5NduddoJzZNr2jlo64vAWAhGuI-fDal_G1TrTktWaCjPFxHE7Mg6nIRh7qjiMSj4riYO9RiZsNrmPPHuWmTsDqJ8O5gd3F0_O2YSHuChhCO28C3obf5rn0Dkq2oX_Iz0OaRYUzsIdcV6eeIEsmkXk/s320/20240216_201104v2.jpg" width="152" /></a></div>As I was going along, I would add to what was there along the way. The breast were painted, her belly was about 70% painted, her legs about 50% of what I wanted, when Jackie said she really had to go potty again. Damn that 2nd Margarita at dinner!!! I made her wait while I stood up on the bed and took a lot of pictures in both the black light and then turned on the light and took some more pictures. <p></p><p>Jackie was pretty devastated, but there was nothing we could do. I did my best to calm her down. When she was done, we took a shower and got all the paint off of both of us. </p><p>We moved into the hot tub when something hit Jackie. She was dizzy getting to the hot tub, and no better getting out. We went back to the bedroom to get a bit of satisfaction when I notice Jackie wasn't right. She wanted to lay on her side, but I called it a night. I covered Jackie up and put her to bed for the night and hour or so early. <br /></p><p>The last day of this exercise saw Jackie still with vertigo and not feeling well. We've made a doctors appointment for this afternoon. Definitely NOT the day I had planned (and I had a full day planned), but as we've said time and time again, "Life gets in the way!" In this case though we still had a good experience, and one I hope to revisit another time. (Note: Jackie does have Vertigo and has exercises to get the stones in her ear moving again, hoping for a quick recovery.)</p><p>Dane<br /><br /><br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-31732773750425791622024-02-17T14:04:00.000-06:002024-02-17T14:04:53.428-06:00Sexuary 2024 - DOM/sub Part 2<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div> <p></p><p><a href="http://www.oursexuary.com/2024/02/sexuary-2024-long-term-domsub-play-prep.html">Please read Long Term DOM/sub Play - Prep and Day 1 first</a> <br /></p><p>Monday morning Jackie came out and started the day with my 5 minutes, kneeling in front of me. I have to admit, I could live my life starting every day with a 5 minute blowjob. </p><p>Of course work got into the way, but during the day I would go into her office and rub her ass. Now I have to say, Jackie doesn't wear hose very often, and I don't really ever suggest anything for her to wear, other then when I purchase stuff for her. And over the years, I've purchased dozens of pairs of fishnet stockings and other hose, that for the most part sit in her dresser. But her ass looks fantastic in those hose and stockings!!! And I truly enjoyed just rubbing her ass in them. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXwi7pRpQcWtf3bnEG8jxQy4rd8RPeJknCcxF0-yogA5VpIQVRFS7R7rIYUasharAMChY6fhwR0oJh-EG7N_pL3wuubYX05NpgCNFbB3K8iyy-ovwhFVllBB2UxHvuk8PZNMIsXQU5OMGEs0tAyJP2w17DIZnYCwJk355w1zFkXmm22TqDmstplRhja48/s3256/20240212_191506%20-%20Copy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3256" data-original-width="3000" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiXwi7pRpQcWtf3bnEG8jxQy4rd8RPeJknCcxF0-yogA5VpIQVRFS7R7rIYUasharAMChY6fhwR0oJh-EG7N_pL3wuubYX05NpgCNFbB3K8iyy-ovwhFVllBB2UxHvuk8PZNMIsXQU5OMGEs0tAyJP2w17DIZnYCwJk355w1zFkXmm22TqDmstplRhja48/w184-h200/20240212_191506%20-%20Copy.jpg" width="184" /></a></div>After work, and her free time, I blindfolded Jackie and put her up on the St Andrew's Cross, with her back to the cross. I ran the wartenberg wheel, over her chest, and then I went and started with the UV Candles from <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/PansHaven" target="_blank">PanHaven</a>. I started dropping the hot wax over her chest, belly and legs. <br /><p></p><p>Normally I use wax on Jackie on the bed, and wasn't thinking about it actually being different this way. The wax will drip more, it's definitely less predictable as to where it's going, but she actually enjoyed it more. </p><p>After the pain, I bent her over the bed and once we were finished, we jumped into the shower together. </p><p>We ended the night up in the hot tub. </p><p>Now one of the things we've done this week, is we've showered together every night. Between the playing together, lubricants, and just over all hygiene, and while hygiene is always utmost important, if you ever do something like this, I recommend you add this to your routine. One showers can be fun together, two, they keep you fresh. We've taken up to 3 showers together in a day this week. </p><p>Day 3 started out with Jackie sneaking out of bed before me, and waking me up with my cock in her mouth. What a way to start the day!!! </p><p>I have to admit, the outfit I picked for Jackie wasn't my favorite for the week. It was to large, and while I liked the patterns on her skin, it wasn't at all form fitting, and just not as flattering on her as the others I'd picked. She still looked hot, don't get me wrong, but I wouldn't pick that outfit again. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUqXmU6qNVgcZJ8GOrRZl67ofJs8ElJ8GxesGMlmWH2rpd0fSxyq0e2WLps5dHeuzkil7mNbL_kkazTqrF3pJ-GgT1rzQWfE-BNxM8qLWfrO3uzTk92_VwoVUC5sU3dabgvdLUd5DgxZni0P9rPou_Dl1DunQMTker-3n3bbAMTJ6hOVcQa2i0dadQW0Q/s4000/20240217_121858.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="3000" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUqXmU6qNVgcZJ8GOrRZl67ofJs8ElJ8GxesGMlmWH2rpd0fSxyq0e2WLps5dHeuzkil7mNbL_kkazTqrF3pJ-GgT1rzQWfE-BNxM8qLWfrO3uzTk92_VwoVUC5sU3dabgvdLUd5DgxZni0P9rPou_Dl1DunQMTker-3n3bbAMTJ6hOVcQa2i0dadQW0Q/w150-h200/20240217_121858.jpg" title="Kegal Ball kit from Wish" width="150" /></a></div>Again, throughout the day either I would go into her office and rub on her ass, or if she came out of the office I would take advantage and rub on her. I had her come in after lunch and put in a set of Ben Wa balls into her. I'd see these that were on a TV show that were rubber and chained together, and easier to get out than our normal Ben Wa balls. I got them from Wish (<a href="https://www.wish.com/product/5c74b2d15b73770e61597d60" target="_blank">Kegal Ball Kit from Wish</a>)<br /><p></p><p>I again put Jackie on the cross and flogged her severely. One of the things I liked was the blue light in the room, showed where the flogger would strike on her skin. After 20 or so minutes I bent her over the bed and put a small butt plug into her ass and then fucked her with the Ben Wa balls still in her. I eventually pulled them out and finished after several "Thank you, Sir" came from her mouth and she was well satisfied. I rolled her onto the bed and finished up, both of us very satisfied. <br /></p><p>Since I mentioned it, I had added the "Thank you sir" into the rules for the week. OK, Jackie's vagina is very active. It will squeeze you out, it will squirt all over you, and you can tell how Jackie is doing during sex by her reactions. With all that said, I wanted to hear the words, "Thank you, Sir" after every orgasm this week. Now Jackie at times, has dripped those words, making it sexy as hell, but just overall, I have appreciated hearing these words. I've always been conscious about making sure Jackie always has hers first and more often than me, hearing those words have been very endearing to me. </p><p>Afterwards, we laid in bed for a bit, then I had Jackie go start the shower for us. </p><p>The next day was Valentine's Day. I had picked out a set of red lingerie. When I originally set it out, I had put another set of cloths by accident with it (honestly I didn't realize I had done it,) and the night before when Jackie was looking at them I told her to wear the lingerie, and not the other set, and she did put it on at first, but later she came out in the other set. She really liked it, and I didn't say anything at the time, but that was definitely grounds for a punishment later. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKWJ5dtAMPtSS4LYswaydrpHNtf1BJdhGj0FV7ONPcxQJzs5KO_fP6RX6uu8hA2W7kDQvRVfv1qtNo3QN1M_K6kt4uuAEOYAS3h_QRXrMXaXQKNbBbJaEVr9AiKJ6VHy-xJ4hP6Rr1eVSl_HBUXJ5rv1-xpEViSTvtb66joy2z2-apxyEuoIPYSE5052c/s1712/Selected%20photo.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1712" data-original-width="889" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKWJ5dtAMPtSS4LYswaydrpHNtf1BJdhGj0FV7ONPcxQJzs5KO_fP6RX6uu8hA2W7kDQvRVfv1qtNo3QN1M_K6kt4uuAEOYAS3h_QRXrMXaXQKNbBbJaEVr9AiKJ6VHy-xJ4hP6Rr1eVSl_HBUXJ5rv1-xpEViSTvtb66joy2z2-apxyEuoIPYSE5052c/w104-h200/Selected%20photo.jpg" width="104" /></a></div>On her desk was a dozen chocolate dipped strawberries, and on Monday I had picked up 2 dozen roses for her, that were in a vase behind her desk. I had run out for work, and wasn't around for my morning blowjob. Jackie rectified that after I got home and she got a break. <br /><p></p><p>At lunchtime I took Jackie out for a steak lunch. There was no underwear on, and her dress was semi revealing without being over revealing. <br /></p><p></p><p>Right after Jackie's free time I pulled her into the bedroom and got her
all excited. I then went for her ass. This is something that Jackie
has gotten more and more accepting on, and since some of her medical
issues have been taken care of, she doesn't have as much after issues
with. I love it, and don't push for it very often, but tonight I
asserted my dominance with sliding into her ass. Jackie went crazy (in a
good way) and I got to hear, "Thank you sir," over and over again as
she reached orgasm after orgasm. What a great Valentine's gift, blowjob, pussy, and ass all in the same day. <br /></p><p>We rested a bit, and I sent Jackie to start the shower. </p><p>Afterwards, I had her put her dress back on, and off we went to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/humpdays.show/" target="_blank">Hump Day Comed</a>y at <a href="https://www.rozcoscomedy.com/" target="_blank">Rozco's Comedy Club</a>. They took stories from the audience and read them about bad dates. Jackie put in a card saying, "When you've been married as long as we have, you have to do things to keep your relationship fresh, so we blog about our sex life on <a href="http://oursexuary.com">oursexuary.com</a> (and yes, it's a real website). They read out card, and asked who the card belonged to, from the front row we raised our hand. The comic was blown away it was us. "How old are you?" he asked, and when we told them our ages (almost 60 and 50), "You robbed the craddle I see," we all laughed as I nodded yes. "So do you have a sex swing?" Of course we do. He asked about a couple of other things and then I really shocked him when I mentioned I was co-owner of <a href="https://fetlife.com/users/8181204" target="_blank">Texas Kink Fest</a>. Later, another comedian looked over after us after making the comment, "She was in handcuffs, Dane, you know about those don't you?" </p><p>At the end of the show, the first comedian came back out and asked if we also were swingers, when we said yes, he asked if we'd ever had a bad experience. We let him know we definitely had, and explained to him why (See <a href="http://www.oursexuary.com/2013/02/swingers-club-couple-swap.html" target="_blank">Swingers Club / Couple Swap</a>).</p><p>We got home late and went straight to bed. </p><p>So a couple of takes, first I really love Jackie when she takes the time to get sexy for me. Second, I love hearing "Thank you, Sir" after orgasms. Even with dominance, humor is important. </p><p>Dane<br /></p><p><style></style></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-57083766100004538462024-02-17T09:07:00.001-06:002024-02-17T09:07:12.282-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Long Term DOM/sub Play - Prep and Day 1<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIVdpOt11SRb281k0ybZXetUHjhjPLAykUBRYicjsV9v3Yd063BEyiTvUKtW3Obt1TyTmU-AR7uJiMZm9remib-WNPW47v0FxAjs_1tj5TMwI5HJJEHJhrJFTO965Ol48k-u2OpVmgwTbX6eIgwtfDH1rtcWKs2uKDsokwa8zVt5mQ1WbbQGVocwKlMp0/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><br /> I've really had to think about how I write about this one, and apologize for the delays in getting this updated. <p></p><p>Jackie is a natural sub, there is something about putting a title on it that scares Jackie. In the past, even if we have a single day DOM/sub play, she would get into her head and by the time we would get there, she'd be in a melt down mode, and that was never the intent. But through the years she has spoken to others, we've discussed it and this year I felt things might be better. So in November I asked her to consider two things, 1) that she becomes my sub for 1 week, and in return I would become her sub for 1 week. It took Jackie a couple of weeks to think about it, but she did agree to the first part, but asked that the second part be only 5 days. </p><p>With that in mind I set out to come up with a set of rules to live by for the week. I took my time and compiled the following 2 page set of rules for the week: </p><p> <b><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Sexuary Rules
for sub-Jackie Feb 11 – 17, 2024</span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">1) Red is your code word for the week.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You are to use it ANYTIME you NEED to
stop.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I do expect you to push your
limits.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I know this is new, and will
push your buttons at times, but you know your safety is the most important
thing. A red doesn’t mean we’re finished for the night, we might recoup and
then start again, but that will be my decision. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">2) Every day you'll have an hour and fifteen minutes to
prepare after work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That will give you
time to get ready and eat.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The exception
is Tuesday where you will be given a task and told when to be ready (Road
Captain Meeting), or if I say we’re going out to eat dinner. If we go to
dinner, when we get back, I will give you marching orders.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">3 - What you will wear/Dressing up</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">A) I will pick out what you wear
every day. You will have everything laid out before Sexuary starts, not only
lacy underwear, teddies, sexy shirts, and even the sexy dresses I've gotten
you, stockings, etc. The night before I will select it for you. I expect you to
be dressed before you leave the bedroom. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you need to be on camera or go into the
office that day, you will put something over your top, or come ask me
permission to put something else on. Even if you're on camera, I expect you to
only have your top covered and keep your bottom half with what I select for
you. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">B) If/when we go out I will select
what you wear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I expect you to be sexy
for me. If you are uncomfortable with what I've selected, ask permission to
suggest a change.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">C) I will be having you change your
nipple rings, and potentially your other piercings often.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Please set them out so I can get to them
easily.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Preferably by your sexy wear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">D) I want you to put on make-up
every day this week.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Makeup isn't my
thing normally, but I want you to feel as sexy as possible.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Also, you will do something with your hair
every day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I might suggest the night
before pigtails, or a ponytail, if not it will be up to you. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">E) I want you to wear a collar all
day every day.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You are to pick one of
yours for your Dom (I know from here on out, when you wear it, you want to Dom
that day).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You can wear any one of the
others you like, and you can take them off for sleep, but not before, and
you’ll put one of them on before you leave the bedroom in the morning. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">F) You will not undress unless I
tell you to, except when it’s time for bedtime (sleep), then you have
permission to undress automatically. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">G) If you go outside you may wear a
robe but must remove it and put it on the chair by the back door when you come
in (each and every time you come in).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In your office you may use a blanket to keep
warm, but no extra clothes except as noted above. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">4) Daily Routine</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">A) You will wake up 10 minutes
earlier than normal on weekdays and come start my day every day with a 5-minute
blowjob. We will set a timer, so don’t be late for work! On the weekend, I
expect you'll come in when you wake up and start my day off with a 10-minute
blowjob.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you prefer I can move to the
sofa most days, or if I’m not busy, you can ask me to stand up or ask me to
move where you want me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If not you’ll
have to do it in my chair while I’m working. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">B) On the weekend, after my blowjob
I will give you marching orders. It might be for the day; it might just be for
a couple of hours.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You might have
instructions every few hours. It doesn't matter if anyone is here or not. On
Weekdays you’ll head to work. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">C) The night before I will send you
a selfie picture someone else took.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You
may use the tripod, or just take a selfie, but I expect something similar (your
twist on it) by 1 PM <b>every day</b>. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">D) On weekdays when you are done
with your 1:15 after work, you will come to me to get your marching orders</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">7) If I come into your office during work hours, and it is
at all possible (the only real excuse is you're on camera), I expect you to
stand up and bend over, letting me see your sweet ass.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You can sit back down when I leave or tell
you to sit. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">8) When I’m masturbating you, fucking you, or in any way you
have an orgasm, small or large, you are to thank me for it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Thank you, sir,” “Thank you for my orgasm,”
or something similar.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I will not ask you
to delay your orgasms but to thank me for everyone you have. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">8) This is new to both of us, so <b>every day </b>when you
send me your selfie, I want a note with the following about the day before: </p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: .5in;">a) anything you particularly liked,
<br />
b) anything you particularly didn't like, <br />
c) if your boundaries were pushed, just how close were you to saying 'red', <br />
d) anything that you think would make this better, if not for this time, then
for in the future.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></p>
<div style="border-bottom: solid windowtext 1.0pt; border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in;">
<p class="MsoNormal" style="border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in; padding: 0in;">I expect you to be honest and
real.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We might adjust on the fly if
something needs to be addressed. You will not be punished for anything you send
me.</p>
</div>
<p class="MsoNormal">The above rules are to be followed to a T.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you fail in any of the rules, you will be
punished.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Punishments will grow with
each violation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Right now, I’m leaning
towards swats with the cane, but I could change that depending on the day and
how bad you’d been that day. </p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If we are not playing, but you have an itch, you may come to
ask me to please scratch your itch, and this will be the only time you can even
suggest something like, “Sir, I really could use some pain play, a good
flogging and then fucked hard,” or something like, “Sir, I really could use
some needle play to put me in a better mental place.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This would make me happy and earn you an
extra good girl!</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If during the week, you wake up and I’m sound asleep, waking
me up stroking my cock, or sucking my cock, will also be pleasing to me and is
highly recommended. This would make me happy and earn you an extra good
girl!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If it doesn’t happen at least once
during the week, I might be a bit disappointed and might swat you on the last
day for it. For that matter, any time during the day, you can ask to just
stroke me, or suck me, or anything you think might be extra pleasing for me. </p>
<div style="border-bottom: solid windowtext 1.0pt; border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-element: para-border-div; padding: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in;">
<p class="MsoNormal" style="border: none; mso-border-bottom-alt: solid windowtext .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0in 0in 1.0pt 0in; padding: 0in;">All rules apply even if people
are over.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I wouldn’t expect anyone to be
over to the house except those who have seen you naked, so being dressed like I
dress you should be ok.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It doesn’t
matter if Angela spends the night, but you will still have to follow my
instructions, and that includes giving me a blowjob in the morning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If that happens I will probably fuck you some
before you can go out, and may even call you in for a fuck, but you’ll have
time with her, or whomever is visiting.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></p>
</div>
<p class="MsoNormal">So, I really intend on pushing some of your limits, some
mentally, some physically.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m trying to
be restrictive without being overly restrictive and making sure you have some
‘you’ time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Even on the weekend, I will
make sure there is plenty of time for relaxation, smoking, and entertainment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It won’t be 100% sex, just 99%. <span style="font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">😊 I <b>need</b> you to try to be
in the moment with me, not overthink anything, and know I will <b>ALWAYS</b>
take care of you, and be happy in knowing you are making me very happy by
pleasing me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">Honestly,
I’m looking forward to this week, and I hope you will, for the week, take the
mindset of, ‘How can I please him?” and take pride in doing the spectacular job
I know you will. </span></p>
<p> </p><p>With the rules set, I sent them to her. It definitely took her a few days to digest, and I could tell after the first read she wasn't thrilled, but she didn't say no. After a couple of days to digest everything, the only real issue was the caning, which I explained to her that 1) I wasn't 'trying' to cane her every day, but there had to be some punishment, 2) I reminded her of the options, and that I actually picked the one option she had done the best with in the past. After thinking about it a bit more, she was ok with it. I'll be honest I wasn't 100% sure she wouldn't pull the plug before we got there, but to my delight she didn't</p><p>Sunday the 11th was Super Bowl Sunday and it started out a bit rough (Jackie getting into her head). I got a text, "I'm having problems getting my hose on and I can't get my nipple rings in," I called her in and could see the frustration in her face. </p><p>"Take a deep breath, I'm more than happy to help you get ready, and this is not anything to get upset about." After calming her down, and getting her nipple rings in, she came out and gave me my first 10 minute blowjob while kneeling in front of me in my chair. She was beautiful and I even got a couple of pictures for my private collection.</p><p>I had gotten her a maids outfit, and some fishnet stockings for the first day to wear. My god she was fucking hot to look at. The outfit was a 'typical' french maids outfit, her ass a bit exposed, and the fishnets just complimented both her ass and the outfit perfectly. </p><p>Throughout the morning I would tell Jackie to bend over the couch or bed, and I would fuck her for 10 minutes at a time (I didn't want to wear her out the first morning), but I loved sinking into her. </p><p>We did start to watch the Super Bowl, and I came up with a couple of 'bets' if you will, at the start of halftime, she would give me a blowjob 2x longer than the difference between the 2 scores, if it was a tie, I'd take 5 minutes as a consolation. </p><p>After the Usher show, we went back into the bedroom and Jackie started after her work. I on the other hand started playing with her and when the buzzer went off, and I let Jackie know. She was soaked, and she moaned when I pulled my fingers out. "Would you like me to continue fingering you?" I asked, and she came back with the perfect answer, "Would Master like his fingers back inside of me?" I immediately went back to work and she again swallowed my cock. </p><p>Now I know blowjobs are not Jackie's favorite thing in the world, but over the last year, she's really pushed herself on the occasions she gives one to be better, sucking me into her throat more, using her tongue more, and just being more into it. Today Jackie was 100% into her work. She was enjoying me playing with her and I couldn't tell if she was enjoying more her perfect blowjob, my playing with her pussy, or just the overall situation, but she was there, present and before I knew it I gave her my unusual orgasm from a blowjob. She had succeeded in being a perfect sub for the moment. </p><p>We did play a couple more times that night after the game was over, but about 9 PM I told her she was done for the day and could relax. </p><p>So while the day started out very shaky, Jackie got her bearings, and it wound up a great day. </p><p>Dane<br /></p><p><br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-90506720063586127272024-02-11T12:04:00.004-06:002024-02-11T12:05:42.360-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Primal Playhouse<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMgI46ZO0LDwxUjnpgJNkQKXryH6mHHCb8Sh25JMs61j0l2Eg56ncvc0eBUlAWUKeIQGwr13QKnyDBmRmG7-GGT9JLuDn9J8rFmJz95lW-28BAn4Z31nFrkd_V-v5ktBolsJUM2ka3HCTAFJC7acXdTL4SR-qfr7mCX1tllKEuaOHBfN0j_-dCTVfqlY4/s412/2024%20Logo.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMgI46ZO0LDwxUjnpgJNkQKXryH6mHHCb8Sh25JMs61j0l2Eg56ncvc0eBUlAWUKeIQGwr13QKnyDBmRmG7-GGT9JLuDn9J8rFmJz95lW-28BAn4Z31nFrkd_V-v5ktBolsJUM2ka3HCTAFJC7acXdTL4SR-qfr7mCX1tllKEuaOHBfN0j_-dCTVfqlY4/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div>I don't ask this often, but if you're going to read this particular article, please read it to the end. Things change, things that appear negative at the time turn positive, so please read everything and learn the lessons we learned, though not the lessons we went for. <p></p><p>I am now part owner in <a href="https://fetlife.com/users/8181204?sp=1" target="_blank">Texas Kink Fest</a>. This is a long weekend of kink centrist classes, demonstrations, and performances. It's a great place to learn more about the things you already like and enjoy, to find new things you might like, and to watch some incredible performers. It's also great to be in a group of like minded individuals that are nonjudgmental. As part of our desire to expand horizons, we wanted to find some Tantra instructors, something we lacked in years past, but felt like it would be well accepted. In doing so<span style="font-size: small;"> I found Monique Darling, and her <a href="https://www.everydaytantra.com/" target="_blank">Every Day Tantra</a>. After looking at a couple of events she had listed in our area (she travels all around the world, so catch her when you can), and got our tickets<span style="color: #050505;">.</span></span></p><p>We were excited as we got there, not knowing what we were getting into. Not know how long it would take us to get to the location, and we arrived about 30 minutes early. We went in and were able to assist the in setting up some. We didn't know anyone there, so was a bit odd at first, as we would be at any event of this nature the first time. Everyone was extremely friendly and definitely did their best to welcome us. <br />Now is where I have to tell you about my follies. First I had been talking to Monique about Tantra, and was thinking that this house party was Tantra centrist. As you might have notices by the title, this was a Primal party. Now we had heard of Primal. One of our ropers we use to learn from was into Primal, and he had explained a few things about it, but while we were expecting "ohhhhh" and "ahhhhh" we were not expecting growling and howling. It took us both a bit by surprise when we realized my mistake pretty quickly. As we got into an opening circle it became quickly apparent this was not what we were expecting. (Side note: Primal is a whole section of kink, that definitely we will look more into)</p><p>I attempted to buy into it some, trying to get into the place of where they were at, as odd as it seemed to me, having never been exposed to anything Primal before, but was starting to get into it a bit, but it set Jackie off. Jackie went into a dark place pretty quickly. The more I tried to get into it, the more I was pulled out of it with my concern for Jackie. About 15 minutes into it I took Jackie outside for a bit to calm her down. I was ready to leave if she was, and all would be good. She assured me she wanted to stay, so we went back in and joined the group again to finish up the opening circle. </p><p></p><p>That didn't last long and before long we were back outside and I was trying to calm Jackie back down. Finally I made the decision she wouldn't and decided we were leaving. While sitting there trying to calm Jackie down, I realized more of my follies. First Jackie was in a very bad place with her job. She felt her work had screwed her, and wanted out. She hadn't found a replacement yet, so was living with a major pay cut and a demotion she didn't want because the previous project she was on had closed and there were no openings at her current pay/position within the company. It was a daily struggle for her to even make to the office in the house to work for her, to say she was hating work was an understatement. Second was because of medical issues, they were changing her depression medications. She was in week one of the change, and if anyone has ever gone through that, you know the first 2 - 3 weeks are difficult until things level out. Your mental state can swing fast and furious, and tonight Jackie's was.</p><p>Had I used my big head, I would of foreseen that all these issues, along with it being totally new (Primal or Tantra) would overload Jackie and not made it a great experience. I didn't, and truly regret I exposed Jackie to a bad experience because of my not considering where we were in life at that moment. </p><p>Now comes the good part. Jackie actually came home and worked through a lot of her issues with the Primal event, and through all that she has come up with a way to bring a part of that home for the 2 of us to share. She's asked me to not share details with you at this point, but let's just say that yesterday's manifestation of her idea, was fantastic and we had a great time with it. </p><p>Second, we WILL attend another event with Monique and her Every Day Tantra, and actually if we didn't have the 1st weekend in March already taken up, we'd be there for her weekend, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/1065702014728910/?ti=ls" target="_blank">The Lovers Essential Toolbox</a>. I'm hoping she brings it back later this year. </p><p>Third, while at the moment, it seemed like a bad thing, out of that came a very beautiful thing. Sometime in relationships we have to go through bad spots to come out shining. Don't ever be afraid to go through those spots, as uncomfortable as they are at the time, they are 10 fold better in the end. Letting them fester instead just eats at your relationship. </p><p>So my overall take? Be mindful when you are trying new things as to where everyone is mentally. Don't think just because it seems bad at the time, it really is. Work through what went wrong when you can, and try it again if you want. </p><p>Part of OurSexuary has been to show the good, the bad, and the ugly of things. In our search for something better we hit all of them in one night. but notice we are ready to try again, and in the end it was beautiful. <br /></p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style><style></style><style></style><style></style><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-60302838901501624992024-02-11T11:53:00.001-06:002024-02-11T12:05:38.491-06:00Sexuary 2024 - CosPenis and Glo Paint<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMgI46ZO0LDwxUjnpgJNkQKXryH6mHHCb8Sh25JMs61j0l2Eg56ncvc0eBUlAWUKeIQGwr13QKnyDBmRmG7-GGT9JLuDn9J8rFmJz95lW-28BAn4Z31nFrkd_V-v5ktBolsJUM2ka3HCTAFJC7acXdTL4SR-qfr7mCX1tllKEuaOHBfN0j_-dCTVfqlY4/s412/2024%20Logo.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMgI46ZO0LDwxUjnpgJNkQKXryH6mHHCb8Sh25JMs61j0l2Eg56ncvc0eBUlAWUKeIQGwr13QKnyDBmRmG7-GGT9JLuDn9J8rFmJz95lW-28BAn4Z31nFrkd_V-v5ktBolsJUM2ka3HCTAFJC7acXdTL4SR-qfr7mCX1tllKEuaOHBfN0j_-dCTVfqlY4/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div> <p></p><p>So originally this was supposed to be yesterday, but like I said I felt like roping, so I swapped things around a bit. But CosPenis was a Reddit thing a friend of mine found last year for me when I was looking for creative activities that were sexual in nature (Unfortunately the user has removed that Reddit site but I did find this <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/cursedcomments/comments/wo6iii/cursed_cospenis/" target="_blank">replacement Reddit site</a>). For those of you who don't know, Jackie is a very creative person, and likes making things, and decorating things, so last year, once a week I did a creative art type project with her. </p><p>So I sent Jackie a note that morning so her brain could start working on ideas for the night. I told her to go get her nails done after work, since I would be gone, and then after I got home, we'd do CosPenis. Now mind you, after last year we purchased a ton of doll outfits, accessories, and things like googly eyes to play with, so I new we had a ton of material here to work with. </p><p>When Jackie got home that night and asked me what we were doing that night I was a bit perplexed. I reminded her of the text I sent. Now mind you Jackie is in her 2nd week of a new job that is a new career field, and is a drastic change from what she's done for the last several years. It's been a learning curve and Jackie has had to be in an office for the first time in over 3 years. So it's been a bit stressful. My thought was this was a non-stressful event for her, but I just misjudged a bit.When you are planning things for you and your partner, you have to take into account mental state of mind, (this will be even more evident in our next post). </p><p>But to her credit, Jackie said to give her a few minutes and went after it to get things together for the CosPenis. She gathered up the couple of gallon ziplock bags and asked if she could paint me. I let her know it was all up to her, and I was game for what ever she had in mind. She then commented that she wish she had some glow paint (UV). I thought for a minute, as I had that on my list of things to do another day, and went and grabbed my box with 8 colors of glow paint and handed it to her. </p><p>She then had me laying on the sofa an started out. The dresses wouldn't fit my cock, so she made 'arms' out of a pipe cleaner to hold dresses on my costumes on. She did several scenes, a couple with dresses, a gnome scene, an ET-ish model, and we laughed as we put them together. We did learn with the gnome scene that we needed to paint the shaft last, so I could continue to stroke a bit as she finished painting other parts. </p><p>She then wanted to move to the bedroom where she could use the glow paint. I took a quick rinse off to clean off the paint and got on the bed. I thought she was going to do a small scene like she had with the gnomes, but then she started to paint my legs. I just let Jackie go and do her thing. I think she used 5 or 6 different colors on me. At one point I laughed as I was looking at the mirror and was looking at my balls glowing. We had purposely put that mirror at that height so we could look at things from the bed, and I love seeing things like Jackie's ass in it when we play. So I let Jackie paint me up and get her pictures and then went and washed off, she made sure I got it all and then we hopped in bed and had more fun. </p><p>But a couple of points here. First sex, and sexuality doesn't start when you get into the bed for penetration. Build up to it and then when you get to that point, both of you are ready, not just the guy. Second, sex should be fun. We interject all kinds of things into our sex life to keep it interesting and fun. Let's face it laughing at a shriveling cock that looks like ET is funny, and you should be laughing at it. It releases stress and makes the rest of the night enjoyable. Sex should always fall into that enjoyable category. </p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">NOTE: BELOW MY NAME I'M GOING TO POST PICTURES OF CosPenis AND THE PAINTING JACKIE DID. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE THOSE, STOP HERE. Otherwise, enjoy the pictures. </span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">Dane </span></p><p><span style="font-size: medium;">PS Feel free to add a CosPenis pictures you've taken in the comments, we'd love to see your ideas. 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margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMgI46ZO0LDwxUjnpgJNkQKXryH6mHHCb8Sh25JMs61j0l2Eg56ncvc0eBUlAWUKeIQGwr13QKnyDBmRmG7-GGT9JLuDn9J8rFmJz95lW-28BAn4Z31nFrkd_V-v5ktBolsJUM2ka3HCTAFJC7acXdTL4SR-qfr7mCX1tllKEuaOHBfN0j_-dCTVfqlY4/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><br /> So you might start to notice a black light theme this month. I purchased the black lights and put the in our ceiling fan, and Jackie and I have really taken to them. I had purchased the UV reactive lights from <a href="https://ropeboundkitten.net" target="_blank">Rope Bound Kitten</a> for a trip to Hedo II in Jamaica. I had something else planned, but really felt like some rope play today. <p></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwIm9_aRbKHLkvFhEwXLM77JcHhfY7qmEsFNCvZqg_RYPWkZ7_1GtnPIX1pdM7cnKsYd7kG381QlgaNGW5aa5sDw6yzVvCyPXA9vPS26mNQc9PwchkzByJieexgveeiqbPYEv2fJ2PqyBzteiqCGBmX3uimlQGUMKTCnetvp7mUXaifUWL240fKYlJdoQ/s407/UV%20Rope.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="305" data-original-width="407" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhwIm9_aRbKHLkvFhEwXLM77JcHhfY7qmEsFNCvZqg_RYPWkZ7_1GtnPIX1pdM7cnKsYd7kG381QlgaNGW5aa5sDw6yzVvCyPXA9vPS26mNQc9PwchkzByJieexgveeiqbPYEv2fJ2PqyBzteiqCGBmX3uimlQGUMKTCnetvp7mUXaifUWL240fKYlJdoQ/w200-h150/UV%20Rope.png" width="200" /></a></div>I got the first rope on Jackie, and was about 1/2 way through the 2nd rope on Jackie, when she suddenly gets up and ask me to grab a trash can. <br /> <p></p><p>So for the 2nd time in 2 days, something out of my control ended the night. You can't be upset, or mad. It's not like Jackie was trying to stop this week, just life and in this case something she ate got in the way. So the cool design I had planned was partially wrapped around her as she laid in the bed trying to get her stomach to settle down. </p><p>It happens during Seuxary, and it happens in our daily life. The only suggesting I have is the old, get back on the horse as soon as possible. If this were a normal day,don't wait your 'normal' time before a new try at it, if the next day everything is better, then try again. Maybe it's 2 days later, or 3 before you're feeling better, but hopefully both partners will get right back to it. It's easy to just let those efforts drop and get into a rut of oh well, maybe next time. Don't let that happen to your relationship. </p><p>Make the effort, there is still plenty of time in THIS Sexuary, to make a difference in your relationship. Take a step and do something different in your relationship, and bring that intimacy back. </p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-18856755637952520872024-02-10T17:20:00.004-06:002024-02-10T17:20:46.563-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Electric Play<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><p></p><p> Now electric play isn't new to us either, but over the years I've picked up several TENS units and some additional attachments that we'd never used. So before Jackie came in I prepared the room pulling out the violet wand and several TENS units with attachments. </p><p>I had a Wartenberg wheel, with a electric component to it (you attach an electric pad to the body for the circuit). </p><p>I also had a set of nipple claps that create a circuit. I tried them on myself, and at a 3 out of 20, they were pretty intense. So wasn't going to be cranking those up. For reference, it's always best to try things on yourself before ever trying them on someone else. You should know what they are going to feel, and know what to expect before they are in a sub space and something brings them out. </p><p>I also set up the violet wand and had everything ready. I brought Jackie into the room blind folded and put her on our chaise lounge, which is covered in a white fur we got for Sexuary 2024. </p><p>I started with the Wartenberg wheel, and got the blood flowing several places, her thighs, her breast, her belly, and her sides all had the sting of the wheel and the buzz of electricity running through it. </p><p>I then started with the violet wand with the U attachment. this I ran around her breast, over her belly and so forth. When I switched to the comb, I put on the nipple clamps and started with some low voltage. I then started with the comb and varied the voltage on the nipples. At 3 I noted she had gotten a bit intense so after a bit there I turned off the TENS unit. </p><p>Now here is where a mental game comes in. I continued with the violet wand and then turned the nipple clamps back on at a 1. Jackie jumped and tears started streaming. I asked her if she was "red" and she nodded yes. I quickly removed everything. In her mind she heard me click up to 3, and down the three, but up and downs don't sound different, so she thought she was at least at 6, and then when I turned it back on had gone up again. Mentally we were at least at a 7 or better. Let me tell you the mind is more powerful than anything we could do, even it it's not reality, if your brain is there, it's as good as happening. So that ended our session. </p><p>On a side note, I admonished Jackie for not calling "red" herself. The trust in these situations is the Top will protect the bottom, and in this case I did, but part of that is the trust the bottom will also let the Top know when they are in a bad place. I get Jackie explained she was trying to work through it, but I could tell she wasn't going to, so I called it. </p><p>If you're the Top and you don't protect your bottom, that's abuse. Now mind you there are different tolerances for everyone, and what Jackie enjoys would be abuse to someone else, and others might have been just fine with the nipple shock. That's why communication, and knowing your bottom is so important. Remembering the number 1 job of any Top/Dom is the safety of the bottom/sub. There is nothing more important!</p><p>So tonight, wasn't necessarily a win, but next time we break out Jackie will know that the clicking isn't always as relevant as she did this time. And she'll be receptive because I took care of her. </p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-56559298263142337242024-02-10T16:51:00.000-06:002024-02-10T16:51:01.742-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Masturbation<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div>I hate it that life gets in the way of our Sexuary celebration every year, but because of it we learn to adapt. This year Jackie got a new job, so things that were planned for the first full week got delayed, on this day, the 6th day of Sexuary 2024, Jackie had a meeting right after work, and I had a meeting at 630 - 730. <p></p><p>So when I left Jackie I told her when she got in from her meeting, she needed to shower, and then when I got home I wanted her masturbating, and well on her way to her orgasms. </p><p>When I walked into the house I could hear Jackie moaning and her vibrator doing it's job. Jackie had done as she was told and was well on her way to her orgasm. I quickly stripped and spread her legs as I went down and aided the vibrator with my tongue. </p><p>Now I've heard people say,"you're married, you shouldn't masturbate," or "I should be enough for her," or something stupid like that. If it works, and you both enjoy it, DO IT! It excites me to see Jackie excited. I know her favorite toys get her excited and with my aid, she'll get even more excited. And movies are great, but movies with popcorn are better. Don't be afraid of using toys to make things better. Doesn't mean she doesn't like your dick, and most women I have talked to will say that the vibrators will do in a pinch, but dick is what they want, but both are over the top good (note, I know that doesn't apply to all women, so no hate mail please). </p><p>So if my options are no sex, or jump start sex and have a good time, I'm going for the jump start, and having Jackie start without me was a great way to do that. </p><p>When it's not Sexuary, there is nothing like walking into the house and hearing Jackie masturbating, knowing she's expecting me to run in there and join her, SHE'S asking for sex, and you can bet I'm going to join her ASAP every time!!!</p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-89304857953362603842024-02-10T16:35:00.001-06:002024-02-11T11:46:19.252-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Serious Flogging on the Cross<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s412/2024%20Logo.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYls-wgsUPMgIsyr81s9Wmxrr3pTfIWprBB8Z-fgneKuygripcX_YiTGofiZ21j1-lNCWnZl-w3-yaXGO6owdMGN3Z_syR_BTZQGtHEImPcfMdMsv7sD2L12MgPj7wBqg84k2UFJ9fqtDlCkfnl0YaryZ-Hk8iz0s3SktbllypOs83wDAC6Ye1o1_w0m8/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div> So I built a St. Andrews Cross several years ago, and it's been in our bedroom since. I've made it so Jackie is comfortable in the X and can put her chin in there, and have worked on the cuffs so that they are more comfortable for her. Another words, anyone could use it, but it's made for Jackie to be on it. <p></p><p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgin7s4dfK9qEaYGM_P2c0byf7_7a6tcnWPd-gsrw4YzMMtk4NvA9zufXs5-N7-DQK9005w0OmhUM5ObAfh4s6ifdyYp1q6l8dDjiNCGlZKoL3epCwyljfsJ-pbQsaFsIDvAHSerx_0pGfjOOHFdmwRB7TqW0Gb_HwJ4mkYo291L-VsYWq0EQ4E81lUx0Y/s365/Spanking%20bed.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="365" data-original-width="295" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgin7s4dfK9qEaYGM_P2c0byf7_7a6tcnWPd-gsrw4YzMMtk4NvA9zufXs5-N7-DQK9005w0OmhUM5ObAfh4s6ifdyYp1q6l8dDjiNCGlZKoL3epCwyljfsJ-pbQsaFsIDvAHSerx_0pGfjOOHFdmwRB7TqW0Gb_HwJ4mkYo291L-VsYWq0EQ4E81lUx0Y/w162-h200/Spanking%20bed.jpg" width="162" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Purple Thor's Hammer</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br /></td></tr></tbody></table>We don't use it all the time, but when we do, you can be assured there is some pain therapy coming her way. Today was no different. After strapping her to the cross and putting a spreader between her legs, I grabbed Thor, and started pounding on Jackie. Now you feel these, but it's nothing like a cane, or paddle. There is also a difference if you use the wide side or the ends. I like thudding up and down Jackie using the wide side to get the blood flowing first. From her shoulders down to just above her knees. I'll even take a good couple of swings on her ass, not just thuds to make sure she's very present. <p></p><p>After that, I pulled out one of the heavier floggers we have. I have a dozen or so, some are like the ones shown, some longer, some shorter, some heavier, each has it's own purpose. It's been a bit, so I used the heavier one. It thuds but it's a bit like a board coming down on you with each thud. It's heavy. It doesn't sting but it can definitely take your breath away. </p><p></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgB1NxuQJD8GXR8kuQlEOWeqe4oKWGwwx6lc3BsK97uyQCxSHu-tQSEcqYxiE1qOIgA4QcFuL0IMdpu8oMQA4wQV66HVCHEgTnmUrb4O60bM1V36K55vF6oWV7Adx88bXJVisW59VgvCAJUU0ra4BRFlf-pm8gallA-NkV8BunuGiUJ0o90HUb18Bkdxtw/s356/flogger.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="356" data-original-width="251" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgB1NxuQJD8GXR8kuQlEOWeqe4oKWGwwx6lc3BsK97uyQCxSHu-tQSEcqYxiE1qOIgA4QcFuL0IMdpu8oMQA4wQV66HVCHEgTnmUrb4O60bM1V36K55vF6oWV7Adx88bXJVisW59VgvCAJUU0ra4BRFlf-pm8gallA-NkV8BunuGiUJ0o90HUb18Bkdxtw/w141-h200/flogger.jpg" width="141" /></a></div>I then move to 2 that are lighter, quicker, a bit more stingy without being welpy, and cutting. With both hands I create patterns on Jackie's back and will occasionally throw in a bit more umphf into a swing. <p></p><p>When I check Jackie, she's very wet from the experience. As I pull her over to the bed from the cross the spreader bar comes apart. So lesson learned, check your equipment before you start. All it needed was to have the end screwed in, and the other end was almost out too, so it was past due to be tightened up. </p><p>So I pulled the spreader bar off and we continued for till we finished, with Jackie over the bed. </p><p>This was nothing new for us, but it was something we learned because of Sexuary, and something we keep in our route annually, because we both enjoy it. Every time is different, and every time we use different instruments and have slightly different results. </p><p>By the way, don't think it's always Jackie on the cross. Occasionally she'll put me on the cross too. Nothing wrong with switching it up every now and then. </p><p>Dane <br /><br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-69533207260769266512024-02-05T22:44:00.000-06:002024-02-05T22:44:18.244-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Needle Play<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj98SEmSPG8l0hCPDKPgGHNof0Jj0crAr-wRLPe5Dd_hs2VO8vxHMMu3Q236_mkaa5TfivGqDz88Zb5yNf5oloRTt6cClan0yRu7gDwukJL2RsR1dp94WT_8sDlHxSHIN9OqE0y7jptKecevaXUmcpech97znHXgBgIB95eYj8Hm1dyk2lmq_6V1N6bIUA/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj98SEmSPG8l0hCPDKPgGHNof0Jj0crAr-wRLPe5Dd_hs2VO8vxHMMu3Q236_mkaa5TfivGqDz88Zb5yNf5oloRTt6cClan0yRu7gDwukJL2RsR1dp94WT_8sDlHxSHIN9OqE0y7jptKecevaXUmcpech97znHXgBgIB95eYj8Hm1dyk2lmq_6V1N6bIUA/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div> <p></p><p>One of the bitter things about Sexuary every year, is the 4th. It's the anniversary of Jackie's mom passing. It's never a great mental day, though it is much better than it use to be. Most year I've done something painful for Jackie on this day to help relieve the pain some. </p><p>So this year I decided to do a tribute of sorts to her mom, who passed away indirectly from breast cancer. </p><p>So I let Jackie know I had planned on some needle play. She went and prepared herself and then I brought her in. I had setup the massage table, covered it with a blanket, put 30 - 25ga needles in a bowl (popped them out of the package but that's all), turned on the serene music and then brought her in. After she was up on the table, I covered her with a 2nd blanket I had set aside. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifjC_1scg6dT9Kz70Nub_MoreMnPOnHDL1GquOd_duuZAbeeXuCLKIERwps3t0j7Z9lWSkPcNmdhNzTyg86iJ8o7VQlteem_NwQG3wSsN-GWeVrMUarRIByXte4h_N3BXEKURzchG9uBn3wxkSISi_ldIrXPXBrWIpsNZGa9_XRVMQgU6uc8Abmi40RkY/s457/Screenshot%202024-02-05%20222426.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="457" data-original-width="292" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEifjC_1scg6dT9Kz70Nub_MoreMnPOnHDL1GquOd_duuZAbeeXuCLKIERwps3t0j7Z9lWSkPcNmdhNzTyg86iJ8o7VQlteem_NwQG3wSsN-GWeVrMUarRIByXte4h_N3BXEKURzchG9uBn3wxkSISi_ldIrXPXBrWIpsNZGa9_XRVMQgU6uc8Abmi40RkY/s320/Screenshot%202024-02-05%20222426.png" width="204" /></a></div>I cleaned her back with alcohol, and then started with my design. <p></p><p>I pulled out about 20 more needles when I'd used up what I had, and continued on. Then a few more, and a few more till I was done. </p><p>I did my usual, I took a few pictures, then I press on her back over the needles, and so forth. I then showed her one of the pictures. Jackie immediately started crying. I let her. She needed this release, and the pain alone with the acknowledgement of what day it was, was enough to let her truly release her hurt for the moment. </p><p>This picture is after I had pressed on her back and messed up a few, but you get the drift, it's the ribbon for breast cancer. </p><p></p><p>I then let her lay there on the bed, as I quietly waited on the bed for her to be ready for me to pull the needles out. She let me know when she was ready and I one by one, removed each of the needles from her back leaving the holes that reminded us of each needle that had been in her back. </p><p>I cleaned her back with more alcohol, then covered her with a weighted blanket. When she's was ready, I got her up and cleaned up the materials, put the bed away, and cleaned up.</p><p></p><p>So while it wasn't the multiple orgasms of the day before, it was part of our sex life. It's the intimacy Jackie needed today. Sex isn't always in penetration, and just like romance starts in the morning, not in bed, today, for us, sex was about meeting my partners needs. <br /></p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-76794400836051137372024-02-04T10:30:00.000-06:002024-02-04T10:30:16.273-06:00Sexuary 2024 - All Day Sex<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s412/2024%20Logo.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><br />Periodically, even when it's not Sexuary, we'll have a day of sex. I mean sex 4, 5, maybe even 6 times in the day. Now this might seem like it's a wham bam type thing, but for us, that means every time we walk into the bedroom, it's going to be 100% different. <p></p><p>We had just run some errands, so I wanted to start the day with a quickie. I gave Jackie a couple of options, and a 10 minute blowjob was how we started the day! What a great start to the day. No, I didn't finish, but I knew there was a lot more to come, and I'll take 10 minutes of my cock in Jackie's mouth any day of the week! </p><p>We were done about noon, so I told Jackie to be bent over the bed at two. </p><p>At 2 sharp I walked into the bedroom and Jackie was waiting. I set my alarm for 20 minutes, it was the first go around, and I didn't want to wear her out. So I scrapped her back with my nails, I swatted her with one of my floggers (a serious thudder), and then I went to work on her. Jackie went crazy after all the prep. When my alarm went off, I pulled out and told her we'd pick back up at 4. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKb6QDzeY5R9stDBElwcoUV2MDq-u4AV684D-KuF-ApDkDKDy3fpP7bb37s46Rwrh0JuWpqNmABlSM_PltCIDiWKZW5zzwPbaUBIqsoojJ4tj3rUSUOmmqK50b2M1gWN7ocCcg9gxEN2LbOwVSH0r_V70XEM4_C-djMnnxar162iOpGt88j3815WDPEY0/s668/Metal%20Balls.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="303" data-original-width="668" height="145" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKb6QDzeY5R9stDBElwcoUV2MDq-u4AV684D-KuF-ApDkDKDy3fpP7bb37s46Rwrh0JuWpqNmABlSM_PltCIDiWKZW5zzwPbaUBIqsoojJ4tj3rUSUOmmqK50b2M1gWN7ocCcg9gxEN2LbOwVSH0r_V70XEM4_C-djMnnxar162iOpGt88j3815WDPEY0/s320/Metal%20Balls.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>During our break, I texted her asking if she wanted anything particular? "Some more sensation play and breath play" was her response. So I went and prepared. I pulled some balls I had gotten from Wish, and pulled a robe tie and some lube and put it under my pillow. <p></p><p>When we started I started rubbing the first one over her belly and thighs. I wound up with one under one of her breast and pressed, hard. She reacted very favorably to it. I started with my hand on her throat, something we do regularly, and when I released, I ran the balls hard in places. </p><p>I placed a couple of balls between her thighs and then went to holding her nose and mouth a couple of times, again, she reacted well. I put a couple of the big balls underneath Jackie's sides and had one under each breast, and then started to choke her with my robe. She tapped out and I immediately let go. I was ready to stop, but she wanted to continue with the balls. </p><p>So I continued, and fingered her while playing with the balls. Eventually I had enough and went for my pleasure. When we were both done, the 20" circle of cum underneath Jackie was proof that session 3 was successful. </p><p>"At 6:30, be leaning over the bed, with your ass cheeks spread," where the marching orders I gave as I left the room and let her rest some. She deserved some rest after that session. </p><p>Ok, she was a minute late, and her cheeks were spread, but she did make it to leaning over the bed and I placed her hands on her ass cheeks to spread them. I then started to insert the anal vibrator I recently got for her and have used once before. She started creaming almost instantly. I was fisting her as I was changing the settings on the vibrator periodically. "Go deeper" as she pushed back against my hand, sliding me as far as I could go inside her. </p><p>After she came down from an extreme stream of orgasms, I flipped her onto the bed and then went in myself, leaving the vibrator in place. The end of the bed, and the floor were soaked from her. Her eyes were still in the back of her head and I could tell she was ready for a breather. So I pulled the plug out, and just slowly slid over her. </p><p>After a minute, I was able to slowly slide into her ass, and fuck her to another couple of orgasms. After my 30 minute timer went off I stopped and we spooned for a bit. We were waiting for a phone call sometime that night, so I told her right after that we'd finish for the night. </p><p><span><span class="ui-provider a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z ab ac ae af ag ah ai aj ak" dir="ltr">I'll explain the rest when we get to bed." Now I know in her researching now to be a Femme Dom, she'd been watching some porn, and had gone down some rabbit holes in fascination on a couple of topics. Normally we're not big into porn, but it's not 'forbidden' in our house, just not something we've really gotten into. So w</span></span>hile she was outside enjoying herself, I sent a text, "<span><span class="ui-provider a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z ab ac ae af ag ah ai aj ak" dir="ltr">I want you to find a 15 - 30 minute porn video and send me the link. I want it to be something you've been watching (not necessarily that you've watched, but in one of the categories you've watched, and looks interesting to you." She sent back <a href="https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=6574bd0f36625" target="_blank">this link</a>. The Femme Dom uses a vacuum bed to control her sub. After our call we went to bed. I gave her 2 options, to assist me in masturbating, or we would just both masturbate while watching the movie together. She wanted to finish the night with a bang too, so we both got what we needed and started the movie. </span></span></p><p><span><span class="ui-provider a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z ab ac ae af ag ah ai aj ak" dir="ltr">We finished the night with multiple orgasms and quickly went off to sleep! What a wonderful way to celebrate the 3rd day of Sexuary though. Sometime you just need a day of sex, I mean a day that sex is the center of everything, and you're constantly looking forward to 15 minutes from now because you know you're going to be back at it. I can tell you that when we do this for non-Sexuary weekends, it's calming to me for days. It gives me a sense of belonging, and knowing that our relationship is in a great place, and that we will go the extra for each other to make sure the other knows we are here for each other. About the only thing that would of made the day better was we didn't have anything else to do, and it was raining outside, so you never really wanted to get out of bed. </span></span></p><p><span><span class="ui-provider a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z ab ac ae af ag ah ai aj ak" dir="ltr">It's only Day 3 of Sexuary, are we giving you any ideas of what you might bring into your sex life to get you out of a rut? I hope so, but even more so I hope you'll act on it and start something new with your parnter this Sexuary!</span></span></p><p><span><span class="ui-provider a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t u v w x y z ab ac ae af ag ah ai aj ak" dir="ltr">Dane </span></span> </p><p><br /><br /></p><style></style><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-69449756253514863702024-02-03T21:04:00.003-06:002024-02-03T21:04:57.082-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Wax Play<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s412/2024%20Logo.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><p></p><p>I'm not sure how in all these years we've never blog just on wax play, well we're going to correct that today. <br /><br />Prior to today (Sexuary 2nd), I had ordered from <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/PansHaven" target="_blank">Panhaven</a>, 8 UV candles made for wax play. I also ordered 2 black led lights that went into our ceiling fan (we normally only use 1 light bulb anyway, so the 2 black lights went unnoticed until I turned them on). </p><p>So some things about wax play before we get into it: </p><p>1) Wax play candles are NOT your Walmart candles!!!! This is important. The was on normal candles melt as a much higher temperature and can and will cause burns if you use them. </p><p>2) As with all things, I recommend you try this on yourself before you ever try it on someone else. </p><p>3) Don't pre-light the candle! You only need a drop at a time and if you pre-light it you will have an unpredictable puddle that will splash. Especially if you're trying at first, make sure you don't splash a huge puddle </p><p></p><p>4) Height is everything. The longer the wax drops the more it cools on the way down. Don't get me wrong, it will still be warm, and will actually hit harder, but will be cooler. If you drop from to low, it will be a lot hotter, and while it might not burn the skin, it will burn, and if you're just starting out, it could bring a quick end to a night. </p><p>5) While I got UV wax this time, we've played with non-UV wax in the past and enjoyed it just as much. </p><p></p><p>6) Cleanup is part of it. Wax doesn't just fall off, you'll have to scrap it off, pick it off, or scrub it off. We use a 3d printed plastic knife for the primary scrap, and I'll pulled off the dots with my fingernails, then we have a loofah in the bathtub just for these times. </p><p>So I came into the den and asked Jackie, "Are you ready for some pain play, but not what you expect?" </p><p>She looked at me for a second, and then agreed to it. She knows I would never harm her, but I would push her limits. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixUaMDcJ3-6yjBWUOX9h_N35BGxbJYOZ0aqnYKEPRs5TtimwgR5ZOB__vnBDTlaJDXFREDV14Qbn5qVCiUnwnp2yRa5FONLGMnWi7-MBoanZny4oQX_bPd_91QPhix9qYZ1KiMO7ucl11JtFUkNpLeS1Z-XRQy6mw3pOcnWs1mGiEJWBKmnbYsm9I5tn0/s4000/20240202_190111.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3000" data-original-width="4000" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEixUaMDcJ3-6yjBWUOX9h_N35BGxbJYOZ0aqnYKEPRs5TtimwgR5ZOB__vnBDTlaJDXFREDV14Qbn5qVCiUnwnp2yRa5FONLGMnWi7-MBoanZny4oQX_bPd_91QPhix9qYZ1KiMO7ucl11JtFUkNpLeS1Z-XRQy6mw3pOcnWs1mGiEJWBKmnbYsm9I5tn0/w200-h150/20240202_190111.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>I blindfolded her and walked her into the bedroom, then told her to get up on the end of the bed and lay sideways on the bed on her back. There was a towel there for her to lay on. The black lights were on, and I had a single candle (regular) lit (so I could light the other candles as needed). <p></p><p>Before I got started I noticed Jackie's toenails were aglow with the black lights. Cute little toes there. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjftwqqdTmjT4aaE4Ly-ZNZIgaERY4eDe6qcHJQbgtDL10Z_yWMEAmbvA56uwTojITeyF-99pS0LhXD6MI5Wj-fmjS0iSfhX-IrnDexxf9eDA1P6m8xnozJDrj-sohMxtK78DzbICzOFUsWBsKxbaax8YmuxTFK8QnRzdf_5uGDi5muJHv-ogze5wzwii8/s4000/20240202_191227.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="3000" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjftwqqdTmjT4aaE4Ly-ZNZIgaERY4eDe6qcHJQbgtDL10Z_yWMEAmbvA56uwTojITeyF-99pS0LhXD6MI5Wj-fmjS0iSfhX-IrnDexxf9eDA1P6m8xnozJDrj-sohMxtK78DzbICzOFUsWBsKxbaax8YmuxTFK8QnRzdf_5uGDi5muJHv-ogze5wzwii8/w150-h200/20240202_191227.jpg" width="150" /></a></div>I then got to work dropping wax onto Jackie. I really wanted to make a mandala, and I started out ok, but in the long run, it didn't work out. I did make several cute patterns, and over all it looked pretty cool. <p></p><p>So I started dripping wax on her belly. A splash of yellow, a circle of orange, some greens, and so on and so on. </p><p>A couple of times the there was a bit more wax than a drop it would splash and Jackie would definitely feel those drops. Dropping a bit faster prevents them pooling. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-Klgj-HAhVCtJgOLFDuPmXsERqKCq9yWXUPgDpyOF9OocH00Vi66dkNIYZ2JK9Yaq766k7WXYV7b_I8mpsttSkGIbc1DeY-zxvJfqMAobJuERxPjo2zjm8HSA8-aEu93rcCmM5tQtSD3w0OxBo-UZPN8JlYehzVcCGxo2rDtkCoEg_YW3Wj-y4bQN7ww/s4000/20240202_191500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3000" data-original-width="4000" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-Klgj-HAhVCtJgOLFDuPmXsERqKCq9yWXUPgDpyOF9OocH00Vi66dkNIYZ2JK9Yaq766k7WXYV7b_I8mpsttSkGIbc1DeY-zxvJfqMAobJuERxPjo2zjm8HSA8-aEu93rcCmM5tQtSD3w0OxBo-UZPN8JlYehzVcCGxo2rDtkCoEg_YW3Wj-y4bQN7ww/w200-h150/20240202_191500.jpg" width="200" /></a></div>I on the other hand got a UV show that was amazing as I watched drop after drop of wax make it's way to Jackie's skin. <p></p><p>Of course once I was done, the real fun began. I took our plastic knife and started scrapping the droplets off her skin. I even went and grabbed the dustbuster we have and sucked all the loose dots and wax dust off her. Eventually we had enough done so that she could make a dash to the shower without causing a huge mess. I put a drain net in so that no big chunks of wax would go down the drain. </p><p>I also vacuumed up the bed and the carpet where a few dots had escaped, then hopped in the shower and finished scrubbing Jackie off. </p><p>For those that don't understand, pain and pleasure a very close cousins. Pain can be very exciting and pleasurable when you allow it. And if my fingers happened to help Jackie feel more pleasure while I was dropping some wax, well, let's just say, it's Sexuary!</p><p></p><p>Have fun, it's Sexuary. Still plenty of time to pull something off that you've never done before, something outside of your box! DO IT!</p><p>Dane<br /><br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-72637591557315873482024-02-03T19:46:00.001-06:002024-02-11T11:35:52.586-06:00Sexuary 2024 - Kicking off with Romance<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s412/2024%20Logo.png" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="412" data-original-width="328" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhZ8RnUSeUYf2HvJRZQTTJ7a4EqdNXnw0bJARFJRhuwqYSs5HdQFLl3NVpI86FhOXro0yNbozaZvGaM646ySRfDyXy6OUszdpRqIn-YeIvwCEzMrlW_zPRbU7NFMsGJ68Y-0ShZCXG33AskpFxXqbdlcebZZl2pfmfeoe1T6cK1XYR-yaRKyyhwxtWgS_M/s320/2024%20Logo.png" width="255" /></a></div><p></p><p>So Sexuary 1st came around and we've made 100 changes to the calendar. Life once again has changed plans and some things that were meant for the beginning of Sexuary will be pushed back. But that doesn't stop us, and there are plenty of new plans for Sexuary 2024. </p><p>Day 1 is a romantic day on the calendar. <br /></p><p></p><p>When Jackie walked in from work, the clothess had been washed, dried, folded and on our bed for her to put up her stuff. A new bouquet of flowers were on the dinner table, the bed sheets had been changed, the den and bedroom had been cleaned and vacuumed, and the day before I had gotten her some Reese Peanut Butter Cups, because those are her favorite. Remember romance doesn't start in the bed, it starts that morning and builds all day. While I didn't get the romantic dinner I wanted made, I did take her to dinner, and then we made our way to the bedroom where I paid a lot of attention to her before ever starting anything sexual. I do mean A LOT!<br /><br />We kissed, a lot! I caressed her entire body. I kissed her neck, her lips, and then after I felt like she was in a good place, I kissed my way down to her other lips and spent plenty of time making sure she was in a great place mentally and physically before I crawled between her legs. </p><p></p><p>My reward? I had forgotten just how wet she could get when I do my job right. I could tell immediately that she was soaked and it didn't take her long for the rolling orgasms to start hitting her. The bed afterwards confirmed my thoughts as the wet spot she left was huge and well deserved. I think most guys take that as confirmation we did something right, I know I do when I see a spot like that on the bed when we're done. <br /></p><p></p><p>Even as knowledgeable on sex, kinks and so many sexual things, we get into ruts of doing the same old thing and true romance falls to the wayside sometimes. We have fun, but the relationship does better when we have some romance in there too. </p><p></p><p>So that's how we kicked off Sexuary 2024, romantically, and a great kick off it was. </p><p></p><p>So you might have drooled over the picture at the top of the page, this month we are going to try some serious Dom/sub weeks. Both of us will be Dom and both of us will be sub over the month. It will push both of us to our limits on both sides of the D/s weeks. </p><p></p><p>For those that don't know I'm a Dom primarily, but am a switch, and to the right person, can and do submit. Jackie is primarily a sub, but knows how at times I just need to be taken down a notch and be a sub, and she does a great job of it, but that's normally a night, not a week. But we've both been doing our homework and I'm excited for both weeks. </p><p></p><p>In the meantime, like I said, IT'S SEXUARY!!! It's time to do something with your partner you normally wouldn't. Try something new! Be more receptive to an idea that has been tickling you or your partners mind. Do something this Sexuary you have never done with your partner!!! That's what Sexuary is all about, so do it!</p><p></p><p>Dane<br /> </p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-4134735628399025642023-05-27T23:20:00.000-05:002023-05-27T23:20:08.765-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Futo and Nipple Play<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0TTvpeD5wqF64YP05wFseSgNYzEJD-00Iqrx4D7XIf9oMX8RH5n7qbdQ1oFe19rGGKb9HfhTEV6WKDTAAnoyr1tGN-IdWXnRSD8-Avj_cMswNxJUwqyCHZ5M65neMlKTs9swxCD5e8brCI9qkxbv8pzqzETUSDOdli9x39Z6NRl-OqjnL6h5FRX5i/s1663/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(37).png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1663" data-original-width="1247" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0TTvpeD5wqF64YP05wFseSgNYzEJD-00Iqrx4D7XIf9oMX8RH5n7qbdQ1oFe19rGGKb9HfhTEV6WKDTAAnoyr1tGN-IdWXnRSD8-Avj_cMswNxJUwqyCHZ5M65neMlKTs9swxCD5e8brCI9qkxbv8pzqzETUSDOdli9x39Z6NRl-OqjnL6h5FRX5i/s320/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(37).png" width="240" /></a></div>For those of you who read the blog regularly, you know I had Jackie's nipples pierced for her in Sexuary 2021. It was something she had wanted, and we went to a trusted piercer that we have known for years and has even taught us a lot about needle play too. <p></p><p>One thing about new nipple piercings is that it takes a good 6+ months to totally heal. It's weeks before they quick hurting, and months and months before they are truly healed to the point you can safely pull on them more than just a little. </p><p>So before Sexuary, I spoke with Jackie about pushing her nipple limits and if you will nipple torture for a new pain center. She said that would be fine, so I planned it. </p><p>First I ordered some rings for Jackie's nipples. Normally she wears bars and that's fine, but I felt for what I wanted rings would work best. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBHABuBoaSNJ1l01i0Bfxbim3JJCM9myUKJ_PAa_uiChN39q1oiI48qcnmeJ_N3Q6yLoWpDeWShv00_gzB8nhGd7kyDniOpuyHfQzCpHYrkS3Iu1pLmgzT8NqYTrUeG3_B23eKJRvVEh_llKvEevVxCO3f_tV9WjGQa10So9pHrKiZN_pXfzUPs8X2/s1663/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(36).png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1663" data-original-width="1247" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBHABuBoaSNJ1l01i0Bfxbim3JJCM9myUKJ_PAa_uiChN39q1oiI48qcnmeJ_N3Q6yLoWpDeWShv00_gzB8nhGd7kyDniOpuyHfQzCpHYrkS3Iu1pLmgzT8NqYTrUeG3_B23eKJRvVEh_llKvEevVxCO3f_tV9WjGQa10So9pHrKiZN_pXfzUPs8X2/s320/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(36).png" width="240" /></a></div><p></p><p>This morning I gave them to her and had her put them in. I put her on the cross and tied a rope through each of the nipple hoops. I then pulled, twisted and spanked her nipples. I flogged her breast, I used a riding crop on her breast, all while blind folded and her strapped to the St. Andrews cross. She was so excited she creamed on me twice when I bent her over and started in on her. </p><p>Our plans for tonight canceled, and so I told her she had plenty of time, and she went and took a long bath reading a good book. When she was done, I started tying up her legs, both of them, tight! With both legs fully tied up I took advantage of her until her one leg that she's had issues with started to bother her. We continued on until the 2nd leg gave her issues. At this time I untied her 2nd leg and we laid on the bed. </p><p>When we were laying on the bed, Jackie asked me to put the rope back through the rings so I could again give her pleasure with the nipple rings. </p><p>I again started pulling on her nipple rings. I pulled up, I pulled down, I slowly pulled one at a time and I would pull both. I never yanked, but I would pull hard and hold it for a good length of time until her breathing would change or something like that would happen. I fingered her twice to major orgasms.</p><p>When she was done, I finished on her breast, I felt like they deserved the spoils of the win tonight. This is NOT something I do very often, but today it seemed very fitting. </p><p>She is tender but not really hurting. She enjoyed the pain and liked the pulling hard on her nipples today. It's something else we'll add to our bag of fun. </p><p>Dane <br /> <br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-38777366676167314762023-05-27T20:43:00.000-05:002023-05-27T20:43:01.459-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Waken Up<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMi_NpYVVdqcPYXEDsZygDnZkFlIgU-Z0Jn33GKPGD0xoKIx4ze0DnnHxrFjmCwFH1Eo5y7UI7_RCdVamEzBrRAtpntP1GtzdebHZyNNKxM4jLzkUp186abZme-1dtdPcO80YwlMxENLDTwGpyNcNTFXtbfcBFLkenBOf4iHsMoxsQjEGXj3UytV9l/s467/tgif.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="372" data-original-width="467" height="255" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMi_NpYVVdqcPYXEDsZygDnZkFlIgU-Z0Jn33GKPGD0xoKIx4ze0DnnHxrFjmCwFH1Eo5y7UI7_RCdVamEzBrRAtpntP1GtzdebHZyNNKxM4jLzkUp186abZme-1dtdPcO80YwlMxENLDTwGpyNcNTFXtbfcBFLkenBOf4iHsMoxsQjEGXj3UytV9l/s320/tgif.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>So Friday has been rope night for Sexuary 2023. but this night we invited "the girls" for dinner and drinks. Now when that happens I become 'the cabana boy' when we get back. I take all the orders and make sure the ladies are all taken care of with drinks and snacks if needed. <p></p><p>I've done this in shorts or naked, just depends on the ladies that are over and my mood. But it keeps all the ladies happy and I can hear them laughing their asses off on the back patio while I take care of cleanup, setting up the spare bedroom for those needing it and so forth. </p><p>But what that means is that our nightly activity gets put on hold for the night. While I'll go to be by 1030 normally, the women can be out there anywhere from 1130 to 2 in the morning, well past my bedtime. When I go to bed on these nights I'll put ear plugs in and go to sleep so they don't wake me up. </p><p>This night Jackie woke me up by pulling me onto my back and immediately dropping down and started sucking on my cock. What a great way to wake up!!! She continued her assault on my cock until she was ready to be fucked. By then I was wide awake and ready to abide her. </p><p>While it wasn't the rope play planned, it was a great substitute. </p><p>Dane</p><br /><p><br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-85079263843806835042023-05-27T20:12:00.000-05:002023-05-27T20:12:04.484-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Thursday Throat Day<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgio9ul_stSoQMfmtuL1vkCnJWHaji73Xw0iDER276FTvBYy2hiaOW82n-ZYmXU_bdQxhESJmrqAgZlcQyOYbvx-ivL_YoiOWPTJn-GuKgrdCpt_-LQd9I1Y4J-zmabMJAfUtdormAi1LlXgQsrctby9WoH3lb3hlW6ZbrUgx5Sj452Lnzm2PN4bgcn/s297/Choking.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="180" data-original-width="297" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgio9ul_stSoQMfmtuL1vkCnJWHaji73Xw0iDER276FTvBYy2hiaOW82n-ZYmXU_bdQxhESJmrqAgZlcQyOYbvx-ivL_YoiOWPTJn-GuKgrdCpt_-LQd9I1Y4J-zmabMJAfUtdormAi1LlXgQsrctby9WoH3lb3hlW6ZbrUgx5Sj452Lnzm2PN4bgcn/s1600/Choking.jpg" width="297" /></a></div><br /> Keeping with our day of the week theme, Thursdays are for throat play. If you'll remember last week we tried, for the time, a full blackout choke after several times of breath play. <p></p><p>I wasn't sure exactly what Jackie had thought, but knew it seemed to take her to a good place when we did it. So this time I change things up just a little bit. I got one of her favorite toys, Lucy, and had her start with that as I started with tonight's breath play. I would wait till I would feel her starting to orgasm when I would start the breath play. It seemed to make it even more intense. The first time, I had to count out from 45 to 60 so that Jackie wouldn't panic, but after that she was good with the 60 second count I do each time. It always seems that first time is longer than it is. </p><p>From my perceptive it seemed to make her even more excited and the orgasms came faster and faster. </p><p>After several times of breath play I asked Jackie if she wanted to black out again. She did, and so with Lucy in her hand to let me know when she went out, I choked her to a full black out. She was very slow coming out of it, she remained in la la land for a good bit. </p><p>Prior to starting I had already decided I was going to let her stay in that subspace as long as she could. I did slide out from behind her and laid her down, laid up against her and covered her up with a blanket. We laid there for about 30 minutes before she truly started coming fully out of subspace. </p><p>One thing to remember, ANY time there is anything traumatic, extreme, or just exhausting, the bottom needs aftercare. They are often times cold and a blanket, and your body warmth feel fantastic. Don't try to have a conversation with them unless they are talking to you first. Just be there for them. A piece of chocolate is a good thing to give them a bit of energy. There is no time limit for them to come back to their sense fully. For Jackie it's normally 10-30 minutes, but we had one time it was almost 12 hours before she was fully back to her senses. It's ok, just make sure they are monitored and ok. She also likes a weighted blanket, makes her feel secure. </p><p>Dane <br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-67128378635477361912023-05-27T19:52:00.001-05:002023-05-27T19:52:14.520-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Dice Play<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVPg9UQL4oWFYz8I1cMyb2bSGQpJXqcr7Z-z5m3E8Gjpqzl2sTF3BpXtKOrBNOjqJKkEbuJXFNwp2FFfMF7aftoLrSULJEmVXzHkBTctMxkSG9uBLBN64cq09jGzN4p2KMEZw0CVIOgQzbMHJrMb1DBViLo-1iHDuQe40hggn1Fz-yfk1PvBEjVLnp/s426/dice.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="369" data-original-width="426" height="173" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVPg9UQL4oWFYz8I1cMyb2bSGQpJXqcr7Z-z5m3E8Gjpqzl2sTF3BpXtKOrBNOjqJKkEbuJXFNwp2FFfMF7aftoLrSULJEmVXzHkBTctMxkSG9uBLBN64cq09jGzN4p2KMEZw0CVIOgQzbMHJrMb1DBViLo-1iHDuQe40hggn1Fz-yfk1PvBEjVLnp/w200-h173/dice.jpg" width="200" /></a></div><br /> So Jackie's day and she choose to play our dice game. Over the years several of our dice have gotten unreadable (that happens when lubricant gets on them), and we only had a few left. *mental note order more sets, they are cheap on wish and the like* In our game we add a regular die that we roll with so that we know how many minutes we are going to do what ever to where ever for. <p></p><p>In her version, since it was 'my day' I only rolled the action die, and she rolled the action and location die. I got to choose the location on whatever I rolled. She would have to take whatever location she rolled. </p><p>I definitely interpreted a kiss to be a french kiss on my cock. Sounded far to me. </p><p>She got neck twice. Once I choked her some the other time I rubbed her neck. </p><p>We played with the dice for about 30 minutes as a warm up for even more fun. </p><p>Now we've played this game for halftime of a football game, or to break the ice, or just to get things warmed up. It's a simple, fun game that can have a lot of fun, especially if the dice are with you and get get those good rolls. </p><p>Dane<br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-63029152399314034372023-05-27T19:34:00.000-05:002023-05-27T19:34:28.334-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Sex Art<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiK1TdnZLNDxryiu_cY5n9s_Ejda9pUVXPIdGpRp7-TNyfsGZDLrwZDYkU3vm1oAXN8rayQ4s3C6PtNAJe90NY3g1oHHh9lJGZWg-J6uCB40Zdpu07QqksAiKibaL4aKh9uER22f6i7QPP2omkoc7VvIiKrzOs3TsnG-bgiGDbqxB4tV--S2keAtwm/s1395/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(35).png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1395" data-original-width="1023" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjiK1TdnZLNDxryiu_cY5n9s_Ejda9pUVXPIdGpRp7-TNyfsGZDLrwZDYkU3vm1oAXN8rayQ4s3C6PtNAJe90NY3g1oHHh9lJGZWg-J6uCB40Zdpu07QqksAiKibaL4aKh9uER22f6i7QPP2omkoc7VvIiKrzOs3TsnG-bgiGDbqxB4tV--S2keAtwm/w147-h200/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(35).png" width="147" /></a>In keeping with the arts and crafts Tuesday, I read about an idea of putting paint onto a canvas and then having sex on that canvas. The end result is sex art. So here are a couple of recommendations. <br /><br />1) I wish we'd gotten a cheap shower curtain for our art projects, but I put 2 sheets down and 2 blankets. The paint wound up going through 2 sheets and onto the 1st blanket. A shower curtain would of prevented that. So get a $3 shower curtain for the dollar store. You can tape the canvas to your shower curtain, but know it's probably not going to stay. Also I recommend you doing this on a floor, and not in a bed so that the paints will smear better (that's why I had the blankets underneath for just a small bit of cushion.)<br /><br />2) I got 2 yards of muslin, 36" wide. I think that was more than enough, but you can make it as big or as small as you want. <br /><br />3) I recommend you pour the paints on the canvas first and not on you. I think they mix better and actually adhere to the fabric better. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">4) Don't smear it with your hand. The paints will mix, just give them time and have more fun. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">So Jackie took about 8 colors from her 24 pack of paint and pinwheeled the colors on the canvas. I did have her add a bit more paint in a few places I thought might be a bit thin. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1MD-X24ttUTeDnjsUstRL5vAFgVKAE9El3JpDg3is8ml2aVeaLN0eJ7A7-_AiWEI4AEIid53BUOTyKERGHAkmIot9qk8SJAMPL5D-qp6CuAUiYp8IxcnXE941KMsIh3HOFGrU1WDNfhEJhvP2IMcju2p__73bhC21wDnUn9UQr2-zI7qCa7CAlZ3v/s1267/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(34).png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1267" data-original-width="1085" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1MD-X24ttUTeDnjsUstRL5vAFgVKAE9El3JpDg3is8ml2aVeaLN0eJ7A7-_AiWEI4AEIid53BUOTyKERGHAkmIot9qk8SJAMPL5D-qp6CuAUiYp8IxcnXE941KMsIh3HOFGrU1WDNfhEJhvP2IMcju2p__73bhC21wDnUn9UQr2-zI7qCa7CAlZ3v/s320/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(34).png" width="274" /></a></div>Then comes the fun part. Someone has to just dive in and get all into the paint and drag the other person into it. I was the one that took that dive. We did really have sex while making the painting but before either of us were finished decided to go clean up and then continue on. I did have a path to the bathroom ready with towels, and I even had the spare bed made up with the sheets we used after Jackie's ass painting, but my unusually black cock wasn't as appealing as it might sound. So we hopped in the shower and scrubbed each other off before continuing the nights activities. <br /><br />We let the paint dry for 24 hours before I moved the canvas. I'm sure that was over kill, but we wanted to make sure it wouldn't make a mess anywhere else. <br /><br />I have 2 options for framing that we are going to try. I'm going to get an large embroider ring for a circular mount, and if that doesn't give us the effect we want, I've got a 24"x24" canvas that I'm going to staple gun it to. When we get the final product, I'll post it here. </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />Dane<br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><br /> <p></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-86859717773779277232023-05-27T19:10:00.003-05:002023-05-27T19:10:27.418-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Romantic Day 4 - Sensations<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguLcDgdsaqn8TQ9krwRYhKQaYXZEKiVLUgICyua2rIv1162LvKsqNzbd5Prp_i76IrJwoityAfACYgVE6sT81toisFp-W2SgWhwx-2jGaJGvwF-XgOSZ2CVmjy0Bm_5yKBqeuW9JAbMxpOQ7rr53ZQK6892KbLTFH-HRmO9_4wmxBMbmcs6VWJw7ni/s1663/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(31).png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1663" data-original-width="1247" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguLcDgdsaqn8TQ9krwRYhKQaYXZEKiVLUgICyua2rIv1162LvKsqNzbd5Prp_i76IrJwoityAfACYgVE6sT81toisFp-W2SgWhwx-2jGaJGvwF-XgOSZ2CVmjy0Bm_5yKBqeuW9JAbMxpOQ7rr53ZQK6892KbLTFH-HRmO9_4wmxBMbmcs6VWJw7ni/w150-h200/MicrosoftTeams-image%20(31).png" width="150" /></a></div>On the 4th week or I started out by sending Jackie to get her nails and feet done. This is a treat for Jackie that I know she loves and makes her feel special. It's not an 'us' thing, but it's a treat for Jackie and makes her know I was thinking of her. <p></p><p>Afterwards we did our annual sensations play. I cover her eyes and laid her back in bed and started. I'd pulled out a dozen or so things we've collected over the years and had them handy. </p><p>I start with a soft piece of cloth that we use as a seat cover for our rope play and run it down the length of her body. It sends the goosebumps starting. </p><p>I took a glass dildo that had been sitting in ice water and splashed it on Jackie. <br /></p><p>I run a wartenberg wheel over her, I'd purchased a new rubber glove that had 'tentacles' all over it. I'm certain it had an odd feel as I ran it over her body. </p><p>A rabbits fur we picked up at Tandy Leather for $5. </p><p>Corn starch is extremely soft as you toss it on skin and slide your hands over it. </p><p>Then came the wax. The first drop did NOT go where I was wanting it. I was aiming for around her nipple area and it dripped down the candle and hit her shoulder area. This was an area with no corn starch, and just not where I was aiming. We both took a deep breath and started over. I generally hold the candle at shoulder height so that the wax has a bit of time to cool before it hits the skin. </p><p>We also recently purchased a 3D printed plastic 'knife'. It will not cut, but feels like it will. It will also scrap the wax off of skin and bed sheets when you're done. I used that to draw on Jackie's skin. The knife cost us $10 at TKF, so I'm assuming you can find them for that or less if you look around. </p><p>Soft, smooth, sharp, cold and hot are all sensations that can be used in sex, and on special occasions you can use them all at once to heighten the senses before playing further. Hope this gives you some new ideas for fun in the bedroom that doesn't have to break the bank but is a lot of fun. </p><p>Dane<br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-58339588242163096052023-05-21T22:28:00.000-05:002023-05-21T22:28:07.244-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Sounding and Anal<p> So before we started Jackie had asked for a weekend day for her. Now I expected she'd want to get me high or something like that but boy was I totally off, and obviously she changed plans as what she did was at least in part things we learned about at TKF. </p><p>At about 10:30 Jackie told me to go take a good long bath and be ready at noon, with a cleaned out ass and ready for fun. So I sat in the tub, read a steam story (The American Prince, part 2 of The American Princess series).</p><p>When I came out Jackie was looking hot in an outfit with fishnet stockings on. She had me put on a harness I purchased last summer and had me lay in bed. <br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNOmtNnlhjJh5j2o-0zn7AZX3JW2FjXuMA-5mTJFD88iwnUzpTjSWgyND7MBYXwj-LriqUFfLUN68m9cjZxrfLtu1ylHcr_d7g9OfgWbiwJF2ydxQCDsli8hPARieWvbgZw18vUDNW0DOyRuQM2ufA6ZQbCBOcDNA4IkX4yv_tyqi5FK95ZX7kDZvb/s448/Sounds.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="377" data-original-width="448" height="269" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNOmtNnlhjJh5j2o-0zn7AZX3JW2FjXuMA-5mTJFD88iwnUzpTjSWgyND7MBYXwj-LriqUFfLUN68m9cjZxrfLtu1ylHcr_d7g9OfgWbiwJF2ydxQCDsli8hPARieWvbgZw18vUDNW0DOyRuQM2ufA6ZQbCBOcDNA4IkX4yv_tyqi5FK95ZX7kDZvb/s320/Sounds.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><p>At TKF we went to LadyBoy's class on sounding. They recommended rosebud sounds instead of the bars I had, and Jackie really liked them better than the ones I had before. She also had a better idea on how to use them after the class. </p><p>So she started with the 4 mm and worked her way up to the 10 mm. It's funny that she was able to get the 10 mm in one time, but when she tried to put it back in, it just wouldn't go. The 9 mm would slide in and out all the time with no problem, but the 10 mm wasn't going to go back in no matter how nicely it had gone in before. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8AN_JvFjwTZU_rk3gDgOQ80VawvNcteqbKLXQ6ICvxTrBh6zqH3Frb5Epgd2ro4ddKnbFELyv7WoY0vryU5334Ymgd74wF-DrtUHN6zFOsGgXaxhL0yzq72zpzQv1P6Y505Rw6oBGfeKpG1DythBOcZ555kElgSOwbvaa_tjschIaaZPS1L0f6vF9/s2016/tmp_24927164-455e-4ffd-83ae-ea5074622470.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2016" data-original-width="1512" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj8AN_JvFjwTZU_rk3gDgOQ80VawvNcteqbKLXQ6ICvxTrBh6zqH3Frb5Epgd2ro4ddKnbFELyv7WoY0vryU5334Ymgd74wF-DrtUHN6zFOsGgXaxhL0yzq72zpzQv1P6Y505Rw6oBGfeKpG1DythBOcZ555kElgSOwbvaa_tjschIaaZPS1L0f6vF9/s320/tmp_24927164-455e-4ffd-83ae-ea5074622470.jpeg" width="240" /></a></div>But she stroked me with each sound, and didn't take me long to have my first body orgasm. Now if you've never had a body orgasm, it's not a little fluid coming out your dick. It's from the tip of your toes to the hairs on your head on fire as waves and waves run through your body. Jackie kept going and a bit later she had me rolling over and over again with orgasms. I was just about to tap her to please stop when she did on her own. But at this point every cell in my body was on fire. She leaned down to kiss me and her hair rubbed over my body and every place she touched was like a mini orgasm all over again. <p></p><p>She then put a dildo I had purchased a while back and never use. It's a 9" dog cock with a knot in it. It also allows the user to put a fluid in a syringe and push it into whatever cavity you're in (in my case my ass). After we were finished playing with the sounds, she had me masturbate and as I was cumming she filled my ass with the fluids. I was a bit disappointed, not sure what I was expecting, but was more like an enema then what I was hoping for. </p><p>She then covered me up and told me she'd be back in 15 mins. My nerves were on fire and I just laid there trying to calm back down and come back to earth. </p><p>When she came back she pulled out the triangle pillow and told me it was time for some ass play. </p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz4Q7RlwNJSQZi9otF4NpL_oMJt1U7eGyi_F4RxdgdI89RIo6sXgF0gCQi-DeS1DXa-dBkM0NzdM1Ah5nD5WfRWMzd26P6fVWjE6eR6p34wgwHNwFPJ5F8lrL9LEpQNXaD_HpyJ2J47dqrt2Jr1TV2IYs9q0Pywpsf2v80fiAG50ZBzXzk8USTLguV/s772/speculum.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="402" data-original-width="772" height="167" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz4Q7RlwNJSQZi9otF4NpL_oMJt1U7eGyi_F4RxdgdI89RIo6sXgF0gCQi-DeS1DXa-dBkM0NzdM1Ah5nD5WfRWMzd26P6fVWjE6eR6p34wgwHNwFPJ5F8lrL9LEpQNXaD_HpyJ2J47dqrt2Jr1TV2IYs9q0Pywpsf2v80fiAG50ZBzXzk8USTLguV/s320/speculum.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Once I was up and over she started with a speculum and stretched my ass wide open. It felt good and she got several good pictures. This is something Jackie had been hesitant about, but after seeing it at TKF decided she could do it. I appreciated the class and all we learned there. <p></p><p>After that she went for the big goal, she went for the fist. Three times she put it in and out of my ass, each time rubbing my prostate from the inside and again sending me to another body orgasm. </p><p>When we were done, I asked her to just cuddle up with me. </p><p>Now the first part took almost 1:45 minutes, 15 minute breaks for Jackie, then another hour. So almost<br /> 3 hours total. This is by far the longest scene Jackie has ever topped on me. But I learned a few things. Oh and almost forgot, Jackie videoed the entire second part of the anal play for me, it was exciting to watch a second time. <br /></p><p>First, I told Jackie I of used her up against me while she was at break, or maybe the weighted blanket. My nerves were firing and I could of used that extra aftercare. I now understand why that kind of aftercare is so important. </p><p>Second, I get why blankets are so important in aftercare. I know it wasn't that cold, but I was freezing after all that. All my body energy was for everything but to keep me warm. Seriously it was just trying to get me back to earth and things back to normal, a place I was far from. </p><p>Jackie and I have done a lot of things where I was a bottom, but never anything any better than this. I don't know what her original plans were, but I know she truly had me in a great place and I really loved it. </p><p>Dane <br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /><br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-25860556080156486642023-05-21T21:29:00.003-05:002023-05-21T21:29:41.560-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Spanking, Flogging, Caning, etc <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1GQIAJ31mWLInphh8pzKbKenRYl6M2i9eFwsABc7TAnm2_nDH4r4zjsvhCTSlheFesYxhFwUWYt3aoIOU6pGuwQFNNNhJBBZg3UqZd9-sJsW7GGssM5Nm1pyvJG-AzouEKDXX-_XhNotJeWwqF2CRsniwSbnny9lBbO9iRKKtPggOB4wyI686y2ZI/s365/Spanking%20bed.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="365" data-original-width="295" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1GQIAJ31mWLInphh8pzKbKenRYl6M2i9eFwsABc7TAnm2_nDH4r4zjsvhCTSlheFesYxhFwUWYt3aoIOU6pGuwQFNNNhJBBZg3UqZd9-sJsW7GGssM5Nm1pyvJG-AzouEKDXX-_XhNotJeWwqF2CRsniwSbnny9lBbO9iRKKtPggOB4wyI686y2ZI/s320/Spanking%20bed.jpg" width="259" /></a></div> Today I spoke with Jackie before we started. "I'm going to push your limits tonight. You can use your safe words, and nothing is new, but I'm going to push how far we go with those things." She still didn't know what I had plan, but I did. <p></p><p>I laid out all the tools I wanted to use tonight. Again, everyone of the tools on the bed have been used time and time again, but today I was going to use them to an extreme. </p><p>Before we got started, I went over again with Jackie her colors, green, yellow, and red. I would ask her many times throughout the night where she was at, and how she was doing. </p><p>So we got started, I blindfolded her, and then led her to the spanking bench. I had put extra padding on the bench on her recommendation from the last time we used it. I put a cover over the pillows to make it more comfortable. </p><p>I started with Thor's hammer, that's the purple yoga block with a 1" dowel stuck into it. Thor is a good start and a good thudder. I warmed Jackie up with Thor and my fingers running up and down her back and ass cheeks. There were lines from my nails and Jackie was moaning as I was thudding away and getting Jackie ready for the real stuff. </p><p>I took a little detour at this point. We don't do a lot of ass play with Jackie, but tonight I wanted to push her. I lubed her up and put a small butt plug into her. A pretty little thing with a pink gem shining out of her ass. It was beautiful and she took it like a champ. <br /></p><p>I then broke out the new heavy duty flogger and started flogging on Jackie. Normally I'm pretty gentle, flogging for therapy, not for pain. Tonight, I was swinging for somewhere in between. I wasn't swinging to welp Jackie, but was wanting her to feel the stings of the flogging. Her back was very red and her ass was starting to glow a bit. </p><p>From there I went to the riding crop. I started at her feet and worked my way to her ass cheeks. </p><p>I broke the bamboo cane out. Here is where I laid 10 good hard swats, 5 from each side of the spanking bench. Nice pretty red whelps started to form where the 10 swings hit. </p><p>Now several times through out I would check on color. Even a couple of times with each instrument I used just to make sure Jackie was good. She had remained 'green' throughout the whole ordeal. I also would reach back and finger her to an orgasm a couple of times, and would even bend down and fuck her till she'd have another orgasm and start again. </p><p>So I bent over and I did something I had planned from the beginning but normally would not do. Anyone who's read our blog knows that Jackie has been triggered by her mom's teacher paddle. This paddle is one of my prized BDSM possessions, but it's really been a 'off-limits' item for Jackie. I bent over though and whispered, "I normally wouldn't renegotiate in the middle, but I want you to let me spank you with your mom's paddle 3 times. You absolutely may say no!" It didn't take her long and she had agree. I asked her again if she was sure and she reassured me she was. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc9u3InnhjmtyiuqwoN9_yE0WoJT1G2Rp54cCC7o6X0GNqKe-fR9H324IXWrxCQSrICg1fQuy6ixyep5WHLjKgqfa2l_RRv8NhxjQZ8taLR3aBjCMCdQdwCUDZu6ABAszDXqbhAjIf66ATEH-r2w2r9KkuMasOnVEPeHlU1MFGk5LKrbH84rycXhvj/s707/red%20ass.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="477" data-original-width="707" height="216" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhc9u3InnhjmtyiuqwoN9_yE0WoJT1G2Rp54cCC7o6X0GNqKe-fR9H324IXWrxCQSrICg1fQuy6ixyep5WHLjKgqfa2l_RRv8NhxjQZ8taLR3aBjCMCdQdwCUDZu6ABAszDXqbhAjIf66ATEH-r2w2r9KkuMasOnVEPeHlU1MFGk5LKrbH84rycXhvj/s320/red%20ass.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p></p><p>I wend and grabbed it off the wall and took aim. Paddle swat one lifted her ass and I knew it took it's toll on the already very red ass. The second swat came and I stopped. "Color?" ...."Yellow"..."is it ok for the third swat still?" ...it seemed like forever, and I was just about to put the paddle down when she told me yes, she was ready. I gave her the 3rd and final swat and then moved her to the bed. <br /></p><p>What was the first thing she surprised me with? "Do we have a larger butt plug?" Now I know she means just a bit larger, the next size up. I run to the 'never use toy drawer' (after all it's way to small for me) and pull out a new plug and replace it with the pretty pink gemstone that was there. </p><p>We finished up the night with the vibrator on her butt plug and both of us in a very good place. </p><p>Afterwards we spoke, and Jackie liked the fact I'd given her the number 3 to know the limits of the paddle. That almost immediately after I was done with the paddle she went back down to green. </p><p>I had to stop Jackie from putting more and more into her ass. It's not a regular play for us and I didn't want her to regret going to far to fast. I would really like to add this to our play more regularly, and didn't want to push to far in one night. I want to build her up to more and more. </p><p>Over all Jackie was in a fantastic place when we were done. Her only complaint? She would of liked more canning. The 10 swats were not enough for her. Noted! But she purred the rest of the night. I swear she wanted me to fuck her some more as we were trying to go to sleep. I had her in a very good place, and that is always a win for me. </p><p>Dane</p><p>PS - The next day Jackie didn't have any issues what so ever. Her red ass is all gone and the night before is all gone except for a desire to do more ass play, and another session with the play toys. <br /></p>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-12162346880654334552023-05-21T20:11:00.000-05:002023-05-21T20:11:21.721-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Ass on Canvas<p> Sexuary 2023</p><p> Jackie is a creative person, it's something we've never tapped during Sexuary in the past. This year I've decided to change that. </p><p> Today I had a meeting and after that came home and got some things quickly ready. I'd already gotten the supplies, and had Jackie paint a canvas gray for me a couple of days ago. When Jackie came in, I sent her the following link -<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mqz3uU0iwc" target="_blank">Viral TikTokTutorial | B00ty Paint Challenge</a> so that she could see what I had in mind. </span></span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: right;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbXzVcbxwMC4_As1qLNyZiE4JY07i1jlGg5VRO6Ei5TSd5HOkMMgNJtQirS1K16qPqMyx_jqESUa_AgR83FI8TUNRfcH_6Zn8BTVkaR2kPKLHJqM8JE0WmbTkzCSwtZsGSUgYUtFNLcmBWdlqL6ta0hNhuUSD409iKg24pGJE9t4kTeByK4y8fBGit/s1663/Day2i.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1663" data-original-width="1247" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbXzVcbxwMC4_As1qLNyZiE4JY07i1jlGg5VRO6Ei5TSd5HOkMMgNJtQirS1K16qPqMyx_jqESUa_AgR83FI8TUNRfcH_6Zn8BTVkaR2kPKLHJqM8JE0WmbTkzCSwtZsGSUgYUtFNLcmBWdlqL6ta0hNhuUSD409iKg24pGJE9t4kTeByK4y8fBGit/s320/Day2i.png" width="240" /></a></div><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> I found some old sheets and put one set on the guest bed and another on the floor in the dining room. I had the paints and brushes ready. Jackie got on the floor and I painted her ass with hot pink paint. I then painted a calve and the plan was for Jackie to flip over on the floor, me to slide the canvas underneath her. Well her ass hit the sheet and part of the canvas, but definitely not what we were looking for. After a little laughter, we decided on a plan B. We put the canvas up against the wall, we had to prop it up just a little with some little boxes so that her ass would hit it at the right height. I again painted her ass and calves, along with her thigh. Jackie tried a couple of moves and then accidentally hit the canvas, so time to go. As she leaned back into the canvas and made imprints of her cheeks and calve onto the canvas. When she came off I painted one of her feet and she planted that onto the canvas too. </span></span><p></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> Per the instructions she then touched up a bit and added the luster paint on top of the pink. She didn't finish it but she got step 1 and 2 done and ready to finish up later. She'll go back and re-gray some of the spots that accidentally go some extra pink from the first slip, and whatever else she wants to do to make it hers. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> I'm just ready to put it up in our bedroom. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> To her surprise, I took Jackie into the spare bedroom and we made out and played, all pink all over the place. The sheets have her ass print pretty clear on them, my crotch and legs were covered in pink. It was funny and hot all at once. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> To my surprise clean up was actually pretty easy. The acrylic paints just kind of pealed off for most of it and then easily came off with a loofah. I was figuring I'd have to scrub it that wasn't necessary. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> Clean up will be pulling the 2 sheets and throwing them away. Again, they were old and if I hadn't had then I would of gotten a cheap set at Goodwill. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> Jackie loves arts and crafts, I love her ass, it seemed like her ass on canvas was a perfect sexy solution to combine the two, and in the end, we'll have a piece of art for the wall that I will always get to smile at knowing it's really the imprint of Jackie's ass. </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">Dane<br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> <br /></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"><br /></span></span></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-23970158270855952732023-05-21T20:10:00.000-05:002023-05-21T20:10:07.767-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Upper Harness Roping<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5yT6ttIceYs4t9RkBcPA-W4gFaUi539flSgAc9pHtXxGRc148LyEc9h_jTrDwD-abpjV_Q3cNVGu2dMyLik8MZdXEJ3DDn1prprqd4_-Z3o-IWyfyH7sLp_hHfdPVBcFfMUphehYT_ZfnqwhEKsnDlIjI9GuDtf255gRup0LiOgSRxwUgM34zHvCE/s1727/20210218_194810.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1727" data-original-width="1341" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5yT6ttIceYs4t9RkBcPA-W4gFaUi539flSgAc9pHtXxGRc148LyEc9h_jTrDwD-abpjV_Q3cNVGu2dMyLik8MZdXEJ3DDn1prprqd4_-Z3o-IWyfyH7sLp_hHfdPVBcFfMUphehYT_ZfnqwhEKsnDlIjI9GuDtf255gRup0LiOgSRxwUgM34zHvCE/w248-h320/20210218_194810.jpg" width="248" /></a></div>We've really been working on rope. We use to do rope every week for date night on Mondays, and somewhere along the way it's been dropped. Oh occasionally we'll do a quick tie, but we use to do lots of suspension and all the ties that goes with it. So we're a long way from where we were. <p></p><p>Friday after dinner we broke out the ropes and started a harness. Last time I had put to much pressure where Jackie had surgery. So this time I made sure that there would be no pressure there. </p><p>I put on a top harness and then came down to her belly and did a few more wraps. </p><p>Now, when I put her on the bed, the bottom ropes all gathered up on her belly, but the upper ropes all stayed put. It was very distracting to me and a bit disappointing. After a few minutes of playing I pulled Jackie up to pull the ropes off. </p><p>She enjoyed the ropes, I was frustrated. </p><p>It means I need to practice more on my ties and stays to keep ropes in place. Jackie would actually maybe start a weekly zoom/online session where were work with others to teach and learn. Maybe, we'll see. </p><p>Dane<br /></p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2274463954977704733.post-31410088931435848452023-05-21T18:54:00.004-05:002023-05-21T18:54:33.652-05:00Sexuary 2023 - Choking again<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSqClsNHvFnmrZM79bWtcnclnUq90J4_Qe8MwW11VQRN70GYdiw1qG3BNAadqud7laCv9gWfq0udVPO8T3U_b-Sjk8zPNHyURA2pCGoyGfLYn8MmjAUuduZsB7pcv-S_hoPC8GKZCv_oVhHI6SGPpKz4QpfC1_z8tfjkbEaiRO2BrnuLx5bXwiQmPC/s297/Choking.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="180" data-original-width="297" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSqClsNHvFnmrZM79bWtcnclnUq90J4_Qe8MwW11VQRN70GYdiw1qG3BNAadqud7laCv9gWfq0udVPO8T3U_b-Sjk8zPNHyURA2pCGoyGfLYn8MmjAUuduZsB7pcv-S_hoPC8GKZCv_oVhHI6SGPpKz4QpfC1_z8tfjkbEaiRO2BrnuLx5bXwiQmPC/s1600/Choking.jpg" width="297" /></a></div>So during TKF we learned a way to choke that will within about 5 -10 seconds send a person out cold. It's a bit scary, especially at first, but it's been added to our toolbox of things to try.<p></p><p>I spoke with Jackie before we started. It was her call, but I wanted to continue to push her. I really wanted to make her black out, and I wanted to work on her breath play too. </p><p>Normally I lay beside Jackie when we do choking/breath play, but tonight I sat behind Jackie in the bed. She wanted to make sure if she blacked out, that I would be able to hold her up. </p><p>We started with breath play. This month we've been working on Jackie controlling her reaction when she gets to the end of her limit. In the past she would swat at me and try to pull my hand off, or something of the sort. Now she can tap my hand or let me know. If I'm close to my count I'll start to softly count out loud so Jackie knows how much longer we have and she'll hold tight and let me finish. We're up over a minute. </p><p>Now what does Jackie get out of this? She gets a head rush that is incredible. She goes to a space that is very peaceful and comforting. </p><p>After playing 3 times with breath play, Jackie decided to allow me to black her out one time. So I did. She slowly came back too, and again she was in a very peaceful place. </p><p>When we were done we laid there for a long time as Jackie drifted in and out of subspace. </p><p>May you find the way to get in and out of subspace, it's a great place and only those willing to live on the edge will find that kind of space. </p><p>Dane<br /> </p><style></style>Jackie and Danehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08495839483777696267noreply@blogger.com0