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| Our Sexuary Calendar |
So when we say we made a calendar with every day on it we really meant it. This excel spreadsheet was our working document for everything. First page was all the fetishes listed, then the individual cut downs, then finally the calendar.
For every day we had a link, and the link would take us to a note on what in general the day was about. You can see the first 2 entries at the bottom. These entries are pretty much what we worked with after the general ideas were set. Specifics on what could or couldn't be done. Jackie had some things she'd like to try within a category so she'd write them down. I'd say "I'd love to ,,,,,," and she'd either ok it or not. It was our negotiation of sorts.
Now remember this is from a couple who couldn't do 7 days in a row the 3 years ago. I still am wondering how the hell we are going to come close to 28, and if we don't it won't be the end of the world. But for this month we are going to get to try some things that we've either really liked or never tried but have wanted to. No judgement allowed between us for our fantasies. You either have or you don't have that fantasy or fetish. Though some you probably don't realize you have, because you've never tried it.
I use to have a friend that was big time into feet. I never understood her fetish for feet. Then one day I decided to suck on Jackies toes. OMG I get it now! I don't want it every day, but I understand how someone could be turned on by someone elses feet.
Some of the things we are planning are outside of society norms. We have experienced others in our bedroom (aka swinging), and 2x during Sexurary we plan on doing it again, once with another couple and once with a guy that we've visited with over the years. With any luck I'll get my ass fisted. We'll play Dom/sub for 2 days. We'll go out in public and have sex. Things we want to try and our partner is ok with giving it a try too.
There are times I think we should do something like this for the other 11 months of the year. Put on our calendar a couple of special days that we go outside the box so we have to make an effort to do something special (note not normal) for our partner. We would plan it and make it happen. Obviously not a 28 day calendar, but 2 or maybe 3 days a month that something special is there to look forward too.
It means for this month every day I'm thinking about Jackie. Either what can I expect from her, or what can I give to her to make this day special. 28 straight days. 1/12th of the year. And that's just 1 month.
Over the years we've gone up and down. Over the last 3 or 4 years it's been a steady climb up, because we know how important intimacy is within our relationship. It's not always perfect, and rarely goes as planned., but we still keep climbing, and we do it together. But I don't want you think that just one day we said 'hey, let's screw a month straight'. It didn't happen like that. It was cuddling. Then petting. Some sex, some masturbation, some, 'hey let's try this' and before we knew it our sex life was healthy again. So much so that our teenage boys cringe at times just thinking about it. "la la la la la la" is what we get if they even think we're talking about sex.
I remember my dad telling me once, 'your marriage isn't about the sex, but a lack of sex is a good indicator of a marriage that is hurting'. Damn I hate to admit it but the old man was right sometimes.
So make your calendar. Fill in 1 or more dates, only you can decide what the right number is, but then plan it and go through with it. Make it happen! Start that change! Go now...what are you waiting for?
Dane
PS - Below I've give you our original list we started with. There are some duplicates and some things just way off the wall for us, but we started here. Sorry for the going outside the box for format, but that's how they copy and pasted, and we wanted to share it with you. The 'definitions' some have are from the websites I grabbed them from, not our definitions.
| Abasiophilia | People with impaired mobility[3] |
| Ablutophilia | Baths or showers |
| Abrasion | |
| Acomoclitic | Hairless genitals (see gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia) |
| Acousticophilia | Aroused by sounds |
| Acrophilia | High places |
| Acrotomophilia | Amputee partner |
| Acrotomophilia | People with amputations[4][5] |
| Actirasty | Exposure to the sun's rays |
| AGALMATOPHILIA | Fetish involving statues, mannequins, and immobility. No Uncle Bob- this doesn't include Auntie May. Ya…har har har. Ugh. |
| Agalmatophilia | Statues, mannequins and immobility[6] |
| Agalmatophilia/Pygmalionism | Statues/manikins or immobility |
| Age play | |
| Agonophilia | Pseudo-rape, pretend struggle or wrestling play as a form of foreplay |
| Agoraphilia | Sex in public places |
| Agrexophilia | Excitement from knowing that others are aware of a persons sexual activities |
| Algolagnia | Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7] |
| Algolagnia/Algalagnia | Love of pain |
| Allorgasmia | Fantasizing about someone other than one's partner |
| Allotriorasty | Partners of other nations or races |
| Alphmegamia | Older men |
| Altocalciphilia | High heels (see retifism) |
| Alvinolagnia | Stomachs (see partialism) |
| Amaurophilia | Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner |
| Anaclitism | Activities or items one was exposed to as an infant |
| Anal plug (public, under clothes) | |
| Anal plugs (large) | |
| Anal plugs (small) | |
| Anal sex | |
| Anasteemaphilia | Taller or shorter partners |
| Androidism | Robots with human features |
| Andromimetophilia | Trans men[3][8] |
| Anililagnia | Attraction by young men to older women[9] |
| Animal roles | |
| Anophelorastia | Defiling or ravaging a partner |
| Antholagnia | Floral scent |
| Aphephilia | Being touched |
| Apotemnophilia | self-amputee |
| Name change (legal, permanant) | Having an amputation[4][10] |
| APTEMNOPHILIA/APOTEMNOPHILIA | APTEMNOPHILIA= Being aroused and/or excited by amputees. This could be a win/win situation, I guess. APOTEMNOPHILIA= erotic interest in being or looking like an amputee. WTF? Seriously- you know that's fucked up, right? |
| Arachnephilia | Spiders |
| Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) | |
| Aromas | |
| Asphyxiation | |
| Asphyxiophilia | Self-strangulation |
| Asphyxiophilia | Asphyxiation or strangulation[4] |
| Asthenolagnia | Weakness/being humiliated |
| Attraction to disability | People with one or more physical disabilities.[11] |
| Auctioned for charity | |
| Audiophilia | Recorded sound |
| Autagonistophilia | Exposing naked body or genitals to strangers while on stage, while being photographed |
| Autagonistophilia | Being on stage or on camera[12][13] |
| Autassassinophilia | Being in life-threatening situations[4] |
| Autoandrophilia | A biological female imagining herself as a male[14][15] |
| Autoasphyxiaton | |
| Autoassassinophilia | Staging one's own murder |
| Autoerotic asphyxiation | Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[13] |
| Autogynephilia | A biological male imagining himself as a female[16] |
| Autonephioplia | Diapers |
| Autonepiophilia | The image of one's self in the form of an infant.[12] |
| AUTONEPIOPHILIA ( Infantalism) | Sexual pleasure derived from dressing as (or imagining oneself as) an infant. Ladies- use your own 'men' jokes here. It's just too easy. |
| Autopedophilia | The image of one's self in the form of a child.[17] |
| Autoplushophilia | The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17] |
| Autovampirism | The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[18] |
| Autozoophilia | The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17] |
| AVISODOMY | Sex with a bird. That's just fowl! |
| B | |
| Ball stretching | |
| Bara | |
| Bathroom use control | |
| Beastiality | People who have sex with real live animals. I won't even mention farm boys and cows. My willpower astounds me. |
| Beating (hard) | |
| Beating (soft) | |
| Being bitten | |
| Being serviced (sexual) | |
| Belonephilia | Pins/needles/sharp objects |
| Bestiality | |
| Biastophilia | Violently raping their victims |
| Biastophilia | Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy[4] |
| Blindfolds | |
| Blood | |
| Bondage | |
| Bondage (heavy) | |
| Bondage (light) | |
| Bondage (multi-day) | |
| Bondage (public, under clothing) | |
| Boot worship | |
| Branding | |
| Breast whipping | |
| Breast/chest bondage | |
| Breath control | |
| Brown showers (scat) | |
| C | |
| C&BT | |
| Cages (locked inside of) | |
| Caning | |
| Castration fantasy | |
| Catheterization | |
| CATHETEROPHILIA | A sexual perversion in which the necessary condition is that a catheter or other foreign body (e.g. swizzle stick, garter snake) be inserted in the urethra. Uh- good luck with that. |
| Cattle prod (electrical toy) | |
| Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | |
| Chains | |
| Chamber-pot use | |
| Chastity belts | |
| Chauffeuring | |
| Choking | |
| Choreophilia | Dancing to orgasmic release |
| Chores (domestic service) | |
| Chremastistophilia | Being robbed or held up[12] |
| Chrematistophilia | Having to pay for sex or having a sex partner steal from them, being robbed |
| Chronophilia | Partners of a widely differing chronological age[12] |
| Chrysophilia | Gold or gold colored objects (see timophilia) |
| Claustrophilia | Being confined in a small space |
| Clothespins | |
| Cock rings/straps | |
| Cock worship | |
| Collars (worn in private) | |
| Collars (worn in public) | |
| Competitions (with other subs) | |
| Coprolalia | Using obscene language or writing |
| Coprophagia | |
| Coprophilia | |
| Coprophilia | Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[1][19] |
| Corsets (trained waist reduction) | |
| Corsets (wearing casually) | |
| Coulrophilia | Clowns |
| Cross-dressing | |
| Crurophilia | Legs |
| Crush | A crush fetish is when one becomes sexually aroused when usually someone of the opposite sex crushes objects, food and sometimes small animals or insects with/under their foot. Bizarre- right? |
| Crush fetishism | Seeing small creatures being crushed or being crushed |
| Cuffs (leather) | |
| Cuffs (metal) | |
| Cutting | |
| D | |
| Dacryphilia | When one is aroused by tears or sobbing. In other words- an asshole. |
| Dacryphilia | Seeing their partner cry |
| Dacryphilia | Tears or crying[20] |
| DENDROPHILIA | Sexual interest in trees. Hippy Pervs. |
| Dendrophilia | Trees or fertility worship of them |
| Dendrophilia | Trees[4] |
| Diaper fetishism | Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[21] |
| Diapers (soiling) | |
| Diapers (wearing) | |
| Diapers (wetting) | |
| Dilation | |
| Dildoes | |
| Doraphilia | Skin, animal fur, or leather (see hyphephilia) |
| Double penetration | |
| Dracophilia | Dragons and serpents |
| Dysmorphophilia | Deformed or physically impaired partners (see teratophilia) |
| E | |
| Ecouteurism | Listening to others having sex without permission |
| EDERACINISM | Sexual pleasure derived from [the thought of] tearing out sexual organs by the roots. Pedophiles- you are Strongly Encouraged to develop this fetish and then follow through with it. Go on- rip it out by the roots, we'll wait. |
| Electricity | |
| Electro | |
| Electrophilia | Electricity |
| Emetophilia | When someone is aroused by vomiting or observing others vomit(When emetophiles put emetophilia into practice by actually vomiting, especially on a partner, it is called a Roman shower, after the supposed (but mistaken) belief in the frequent induction of vomiting at Roman feasts). I presume they hang out in bars and colleges. |
| Emetophilia | Vomit[3] |
| Endytophilia | Partners who are clothed |
| Enemas (for cleansing) | |
| Enemas (retention/punishment) | |
| Enforced chastity | |
| Eproctophilia | The sexual attraction to human flatulence, mainly heterosexual males attracted to female flatulence. This is a thing? Really? I just can't see it. Must be a Dominatrix thing. In that case- You Go Girl! |
| Erotic asphyxiation | Asphyxia of oneself or others[22] |
| Erotic dance (for audience) | |
| Erotographomania | Writing love poems or letters |
| Erotophonophilia | Lust murder |
| Erotophonophilia | Murder[4] |
| Examinations (physical) | |
| Exercise (forced/required) | |
| Exhibitionism | Showing genitals in public |
| Exhibitionism | Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[1] |
| Exhibitionism (friends) | |
| Exhibitionism (strangers) | |
| Eye contact restrictions | |
| F | |
| Face slapping | |
| Fantasy abandonment | |
| Fantasy gang-rape | |
| Fantasy rape | |
| Fear (being scared) | |
| Feederism | Erotic eating, feeding, and weight gain.[23] |
| Fetishism | An inanimate object |
| Fisting | pretty easy to figure out |
| Fisting (anal) | |
| Fisting (vaginal) | |
| Flame play | |
| Following orders | |
| Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) | |
| Foot fetishism | Attraction to feet[24] |
| Foot worship | |
| Forced bedwetting | |
| Forced dressing | |
| Forced eating | |
| Forced heterosexuality | |
| Forced homosexuality | |
| Forced masturbation | |
| Forced nudity (around others) | |
| Forced nudity (private) | |
| Forced servitude | |
| Forced smoking | |
| FORMICOPHILIA | Sexual interest in being crawled upon or bitten by small insects. Itchy…Itchy-Itchy-Itchy!!!! |
| Formicophilia | Sex play with ants |
| Formicophilia | Being crawled on by insects[12][25] |
| FORNIPHILIA | Form Of Bondage In Which A Human Is Used (Or Incorporated Into) A Piece Of Furniture. Examples Include: Human Drafting Tables, Human Lazy Suzanns, And Human Shelving (Ikeaphilia anyone?). |
| Forniphilia | Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26] |
| FROTTEURISM | Rubbing against a non-consenting person to facilitate sexual stimulation- otherwise known as 'Riding The Bus/Subway'. |
| Frotteurism | Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person |
| Frotteurism | Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1] |
| Full head hoods | |
| Furries | Furries are people who dress up in animal costumes and take on the persona of that animal. Sometimes full-on sex occurs, but often two or more furries engage in a behavior called “yiffing” (dry-humping or other sexualized interactions). Would saying, “Get Stuffed” be considered an insult or a compliment, I wonder? |
| G | |
| Gags (cloth) | |
| Gags (inflatible) | |
| Gags (phallic) | |
| Gags (rubber) | |
| Gags (tape) | |
| Gas masks | |
| Gates of Hell (male) | |
| Genital sex | |
| GERONTOPHILIA | Sexual preference for the elderly (uh-ya… particularly the filthy rich ones, right?). |
| Gerontophilia | Partner whose age is that of different generation |
| Gerontophilia | Elderly people[27] |
| Given away to another Dom (perm) | |
| Given away to another Dom (temp) | |
| Golden showers | |
| Gore | |
| Gun play | |
| Guro | |
| Gymnophilia | Nudity |
| Gynandromorphophilia | Transsexual or transgender women [3][28] |
| Gynelophilous | Sight/touch of pubic hair (see acomoclitic, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia) |
| Gynemimetophilia | Male impersonating a female |
| Gynemimetophilia | Transsexual or transgender women [3][29] |
| H | |
| Haematomania/Hematolagnia | Blood |
| Hair pulling | |
| Hairbrush spankings | |
| Hamartophilia | Committing acts you consider to be sinful |
| Hand jobs (giving) | |
| Hand jobs (receiving) | |
| Haptephilia | Becoming extremely aroused by being touched |
| Harems (serving w/other subs) | |
| Harmatophilia | Sexual incompetence/mistakes |
| Harnessing (leather) | |
| Harnessing (rope) | |
| Harpaxophilia | Being robbed or burglarized (see chrematistophilia) |
| Having clothing chosen for you | |
| Having food chosen for you | |
| Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) | |
| Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus) | |
| Hebephilia | Generally early pubescent children[30] |
| Heterophilia | Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[31][32][33] |
| Heterosexuality | |
| HIEROPHILIA | Sexual attraction to religious or sacred objects (e.g. masturbation with a cross). See The Exorcist . |
| Hierophilia | Sacred objects |
| High heel wearing | |
| High heel worship | |
| Hirsutophilia | Armpit hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia) |
| Hobos | |
| Hodophilia | Traveling |
| Homage with tongue (non-sexual) | |
| Homeovestism | Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[34][35] |
| Homilophilia | Hearing or giving sermons |
| Hoods | |
| Hot oils (on genitals) | |
| Hot waxing | |
| Housework (doing) | |
| Human puppy dog | |
| Humiliation (private) | |
| Humiliation (public) | |
| Hybristophilia | People who have committed crimes, people who are cruel/outrageous |
| Hybristophilia | Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[12][36] |
| Hygrophilia | Body fluids or moisture |
| Hyphephilia | Touching skin, hair, leather, fur, or fabric/specific fabric (see acomoclitic, doraphilia,gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, pubephilia, trichophilia) |
| Hypnotism | |
| Hypoxyphilia | Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen |
| Ice cubes | |
| Immobilization | |
| Including others | |
| Infantilism | |
| Infantophilia | Pedophilia with a focus on children five years old or younger, a recently suggested term that is not in general use[37] |
| Initiation rites | |
| Injections | |
| Interrogations | |
| Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage | |
| K | |
| Kainotophilia | Change |
| Kakorrhaphiphilia | Failure |
| Keraunophilia | Thunder and/or lightning |
| Kidnapping | |
| Kinesophilia | Exercise |
| Kleptophilia | Stealing |
| Kleptophilia | Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3] |
| Klismaphilia | Sexual arousal from introducing liquids into the rectum and colon via the anus (for example: enemas). I get the feeling adult diapers feature prominently in myriad fetishes…. |
| Klismaphilia | Being given an enema |
| Klismaphilia | Enemas, either giving or having[3] |
| Kneeling | |
| Knife play | |
| Knismolagnia | Being tickled |
| Knissophilia | Incense |
| Kopophilia | Exhaustion |
| Lactophilia | Breast milk[38] |
| Leather clothing | |
| Leather restraints | |
| Lectures for misbehavior | |
| Licking (non-sexual) | |
| Lingerie (wearing) | |
| LIQUIDOPHELIA | Arousal Contingent Upon The Submersion Of One's Genitals In Liquid. I'm staying out of public swimming pools from now on. |
| Liquidophilia | Immersing genitals in liquids[38] |
| M | |
| Macrogenitalism | Large genitals |
| Macrophilia | Giants |
| Macrophilia | Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men[38] |
| Manacles & irons | |
| Manicures (giving) | |
| Masochism | Being dominated/humiliated |
| Masochism | Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[1] |
| Massage (giving) | |
| Massage (receiving) | |
| Mastigophilia | Punishment |
| Mechanophilia | Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[39][40][41] |
| MECHANOPHILIA/MECHAPHILIA | Sexual attraction to cars or other machines. Basically- men and their cars. Enough said. |
| Medical scenes | |
| Medical tables/surgery | |
| Megalophilia | Large objects |
| Menophilia | A person with menophilia gets sexually excited at the sight, smell or taste of a menstruating woman. Bloody sick if you ask me. |
| Menophilia | Menstruation[38] |
| Merinthophilia | Being bound |
| Metophilia | Another person's face |
| Metrophilia | Poetry |
| Modeling for erotic photos | |
| Morphophilia | Particular body shapes or sizes[13] |
| Mouth bits | |
| MUCOPHILIA | Sexual pleasure related to mucus (e.g. the consumption of). You would've been in Heaven here when I had the flu. I was a mucus factory. On second thought- Fucking EW!!!! |
| Mucophilia | Mucus[38] |
| Mummification | |
| Mysophilia | Filth/foul odors/decaying material |
| Mysophilia | Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3] |
| N | |
| Name change (for scene) | |
| Name change (legal, permanant) | |
| Narratophilia | Discussing sex with others |
| Narratophilia | Obscene words[3] |
| Nasophilia | Noses/nose (see partialism) |
| Nasophilia | Noses[38] |
| Navel fetishism | Sexual attraction to navels - either their own or someone else's.[42] |
| Necrophilia | The sexual attraction to corpses. Gee- I wonder if they seek employment within the undertaker/morgue fields? |
| Necrophilia | Corpses[1][3][43] |
| Neophilia | Anything new |
| Nipple clamps | |
| Nipple play/"torture" | |
| Nipple rings (piercings) | |
| Nipple weights | |
| Normophilia | Acts considered normal by their religion/society |
| Nyctophilia | Darkness or night |
| O | |
| Objectophilia | pronounced emotional desire towards specific inanimate objects[1] |
| Ochlophilia | Being in a crowd |
| Oculolinctus | Licking their partner's eyeball |
| OCULOLINCTUS (Worming) | Erotic pleasure stemming from the licking of someone's eyeball. What? How do you even? Wha? How would you even go there in the first place?! |
| Oculophilia | Eyes (see partialism) |
| Odaxelagnia | Biting/being bitten |
| Odontophilia | Tooth extractions/tooth fetish |
| Olfactophilia | Smells[3][12] |
| Ophidicism | Reptiles |
| Oral/anal play (rimming) | |
| Orgasm control | |
| Orgasm denial | |
| Outdoor scenes | |
| Outdoor sex | |
| Over-the-knee spanking | |
| Ozolagnia | Powerful scents |
| P | |
| Pain (medium) | |
| Pain (mild) | |
| Pain (severe) | |
| Paraphilic infantilism | Sexual arousal based on dressing or being treated like a baby, also known as autonepiophilia[12] or "adult baby syndrome";[44] considerable overlap with diaper fetishism[21] |
| Parthenophilia | Sex with virgins |
| Partialism | Specific parts of the body(see alvinolagnia, nasophilia, oculophilia, podophilia) |
| Partialism | Specific, non-genital body parts[1][3] |
| Pecattiphilia | Sinning/guilt |
| Pediophilia | Dolls |
| Pedophilia | Prepubescent children, also spelled paedophilia. Often confused with hebephilia, ephebophilia, and pederasty.[1][45] |
| Pedovestism | Dressing like a child[46] |
| Peodeiktophilia | Exposing one's penis[4] |
| Persona training (in scene) | |
| Personality modification (RL) | |
| Phallophilia | Large penis/large penis fetish |
| Phobophilia | Fear/hate |
| Phone sex (commercial provider) | |
| Phone sex (serving Dom) | |
| Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) | |
| Phygephilia | Being a fugitive |
| Pictophilia | Inability to become aroused without pictorial pornography |
| Pictophilia | Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][12] |
| Piercing (permanent) | |
| Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) | |
| Piquerism | Sexual gratification through penetration of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects.[47] |
| Plastic surgery | |
| Plushophilia | Stuffed toys |
| Plushophilia | Sexual attraction to stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[48] |
| Podophilia | Feet (see partialism) |
| Polyiterophilia | Sex with a series of partners |
| Pony slave | |
| Prison scenes | |
| Prostitution (actual) | |
| Prostitution (public pretense) | |
| Psychrocism | Cold/ice |
| PSYCHROPHILIA | Arousal is contingent on contact with extremely cold objects or watching others freeze. This is Nothing like when someone just enjoys chewing ice cubes. I'm just sayin'- for someone else…. |
| Pubephilia | Pubic hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, trichophilia) |
| Public exposure | |
| Punishment Scene | |
| Pussy worship | |
| Pussy/cock whipping | |
| Pygmalionis | Rubbing one's body against a statue/statue/manikins |
| Pygophilia | Contact with the buttocks |
| Pygophilia | Buttocks[49] |
| Pyrolagnia | Watching fire |
| Pyrophilia | Fire or its uses in sex play |
| Pyrophilia | Fire[50] |
| R | |
| Raptophilia | Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[12] |
| Religious scenes | |
| Restrictive rules on behavior | |
| Retifism | Shoes (see altocalciphilia) |
| Rhabdophilia | Being flagellated |
| Riding crops | |
| Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.) | |
| Rituals | |
| Robotism | Robots in sex play |
| Rope body harness | |
| Rubber/latex clothing | |
| S | |
| SACOFRICOSIS | The Process Of Making A Hole In One's Pocket In Order to Facilitate Public Masturbation (“You wash those pants before I put them in the laundry!”). |
| Sadism | Dominating/mistreating/humiliating one's partner |
| Sadism | Inflicting pain on others[1] |
| Sadomasochism | |
| Saline injections | |
| SALIROPHILIA | Fetish Involving the soiling or dirtying of one's desire, usually an attractive person. Ok, ya'll need some diapers from the Autonepiophiliacs. |
| Salirophilia | Ingesting human sweat or saliva (fluids with a salt content) |
| Salirophilia | Soiling or dirtying others[3] |
| Saran wrapping | |
| Scarification | |
| Scatophilia | Obscene phone calls |
| Scopophilia | Being stared at oneself |
| Scratching - getting | |
| Scratching - giving | |
| Sensory deprivation | |
| Serving | |
| Serving as a maid | |
| Serving as art | |
| Serving as ashtray | |
| Serving as furniture | |
| Serving as toilet (feces) | |
| Serving as toilet (urine) | |
| Serving as waitress/waiter | |
| Serving orally (sexual) | |
| Serving other doms (supervised) | |
| Serving other doms (unsupervised) | |
| Sexual deprivation (long term) | |
| Sexual deprivation (short term) | |
| Sexual fetishism | Nonliving objects[1] |
| Shaving (body hair) | |
| Shaving (genital hair) | |
| Shaving (head hair) | |
| Siderodromophilia | Trains |
| Sitophilia | Using food |
| Skinny-dipping | |
| Sleep deprivation | |
| Sleepsacks | |
| Slutty clothing (private) | |
| Slutty clothing (public) | |
| Somnophilia | Fondling a stranger in their sleep |
| Somnophilia | Sleeping or unconscious people[3][12] |
| Spandex clothing | |
| Spanking | |
| Spectrophilia | An image in an mirrors/sex with spirits |
| Speculums (anal) | |
| Speculums (vaginal) | |
| Speech restrictions (when, what) | |
| Spitting | |
| Spreader bars | |
| Standing in corner | |
| Sthenolagnia | Muscles and displays of strength[38] |
| Stigmatophilia | Marking one's own body/inserting foreign objects into it |
| Stigmatophilia | Body piercings and tattoos[4][38] |
| Stocks | |
| Straight jackets | |
| Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | |
| Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | |
| Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | |
| Strapping (full body beating) | |
| Supplying new partners for Dom | |
| Suspension (horizontal) | |
| Suspension (inverted) | |
| Suspension (upright) | |
| Swallowing feces | |
| Swallowing semen | |
| Swallowing urine | |
| Swapping (with one other couple) | |
| Swinging (multiple couples) | |
| SYMOROPHILIA | Arousal due to witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents (as seen in the movie Crash ) |
| Symphorophilia | Arranging a crash/disaster/explosion |
| Symphorophilia | Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4] |
| T | |
| Tampon training (in ass) | |
| Tantalolagnia | Teasing |
| Taphephilia | Being buried alive |
| Tattooing | |
| Teasing | |
| Telephone scatologia | Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[1][12] |
| TENS Unit (electrical toy) | |
| Teratophilia | Deformed or monstrous people (see dysmorphophilia) |
| Teratophilia | Deformed or monstrous people[51] |
| Thesauromania | Collecting women's clothing |
| Thlipsosis | Pinching |
| Thumbcuffs (metal) | |
| Tickling | |
| Timophilia | Gold or wealth (see chrysophilia) |
| Toucherism | Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand.[52] |
| Transformation fetish | Depictions of transformations of people into objects/other beings |
| Transvestic fetishism | Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[1] |
| Transvestophilia | A transvestite sexual partner[12] |
| Trichophilia | Hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia,) |
| Trichophilia | Hair[38] |
| Triolism | Three-party sex |
| Triple penetration | |
| Tripsolagnophilia | Massage |
| Troilism | Couples |
| Troilism | Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge; also known as triolism[13][53] |
| U | |
| Uniforms | |
| Urethral sounds (metal rods) | |
| Urolagnia | Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[1][3][12][13] |
| URSUSAGALMATOPHILIA (Plushophilia) | Sexual interest in teddy bears. Stay the fuck away from my teddy! |
| Urtication | Stinging nettles stimulating the skin |
| V | |
| Vaccinophilia | Being vaccinated |
| Vaginal dildo | |
| Vampirism | Attraction to or involving blood[54][55] |
| Verbal humiliation | |
| Vibrator on genitals | |
| Vicarphilia | Hearing stories about other people's lives |
| Video (recordings of you) | |
| Video (watching others) | |
| Vincilagnia | Being tied up |
| Violet Wand (electricial toy) | |
| Vomiting | |
| Vorarephilia | |
| VORAREPHILIA | Vorarephilic Fantasies commonly revolve around devouring others whole, or being swallowed whole by a mate (remember Armin Meiwes? Read his story HERE ) |
| Vorarephilia | Fantasies about being swallowed alive |
| Vorarephilia | The idea of eating or being eaten by others; sometimes swallowed whole, in one piece[56] |
| Voyeurism | |
| Voyeurism | Watching others have sex |
| Voyeurism | Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia.[1][13] |
| Voyeurism (watching others) | |
| Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) | |
| Water torture | |
| Waxing (hair removal) | |
| Wearing symbolic jewelery | |
| Weight gain (forced) | |
| Weight loss (forced) | |
| Whipping | |
| Wooden paddles | |
| Wrestling | |
| X | |
| Xenophilia | Strangers |
| Yaoi | |
| Yuri | |
| Z | |
| Zelophilia | Jealousy |
| Zoophilia | Animals[1][3][12] |
| ZOOSADISM | Sexual pleasure derived from inflicting pain on animals, or seeing them in pain. Basically- they're assholes who NEED to die Immediately. Preferrably as painfully as possible. Then spend Eternity in Hell being raped by the biggest demon imaginable. |
| Zoosadism | Inflicting pain on or seeing animals in pain[57] |
| Zwischenstufe | Person of the same sex |
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