Saturday, February 2, 2013

The Calendar and Fetish List

Our Sexuary Calendar

So when we say we made a calendar with every day on it we really meant it.  This excel spreadsheet was our working document for everything.  First page was all the fetishes listed, then the individual cut downs, then finally the calendar.

For every day we had a link, and the link would take us to a note on what in general the day was about.  You can see the first 2 entries at the bottom.  These entries are pretty much what we worked with after the general ideas were set.  Specifics on what could or couldn't be done.  Jackie had some things she'd like to try within a category so she'd write them down.  I'd say "I'd love to ,,,,,," and she'd either ok it or not. It was our negotiation of sorts.

Now remember this is from a couple who couldn't do 7 days in a row the 3 years ago.  I still am wondering how the hell we are going to come close to 28, and if we don't it won't be the end of the world.  But for this month we are going to get to try some things that we've either really liked or never tried but have wanted to.  No judgement allowed between us for our fantasies.  You either have or you don't have that fantasy or fetish.  Though some you probably don't realize you have, because you've never tried it.

I use to have a friend that was big time into feet.  I never understood her fetish for feet.  Then one day I decided to suck on Jackies toes.  OMG I get it now!  I don't want it every day, but I understand how someone could be turned on by someone elses feet.

Some of the things we are planning are outside of society norms.  We have experienced others in our bedroom (aka swinging), and 2x during Sexurary we plan on doing it again, once with another couple and once with a guy that we've visited with over the years. With any luck I'll get my ass fisted.  We'll play Dom/sub for 2 days. We'll go out in public and have sex.  Things we want to try and our partner is ok with giving it a try too. 

There are times I think we should do something like this for the other 11 months of the year.  Put on our calendar a couple of special days that we go outside the box so we have to make an effort to do something special (note not normal) for our partner.  We would plan it and make it happen.  Obviously not a 28 day calendar, but 2 or maybe 3 days a month that something special is there to look forward too.

It means for this month every day I'm thinking about Jackie.  Either what can I expect from her, or what can I give to her to make this day special.  28 straight days.  1/12th of the year.  And that's just 1 month.

Over the years we've gone up and down.  Over the last 3 or 4 years it's been a steady climb up, because we know how important intimacy is within our relationship.  It's not always perfect, and rarely goes as planned., but we still keep climbing, and we do it together.  But I don't want you think that just one day we said 'hey, let's screw a month straight'.  It didn't happen like that.  It was cuddling. Then petting.  Some sex, some masturbation, some, 'hey let's try this' and before we knew it our sex life was healthy again.  So much so that our teenage boys cringe at times just thinking about it. "la la la la la la" is what we get if they even think we're talking about sex.

I remember my dad telling me once, 'your marriage isn't about the sex, but a lack of sex is a good indicator of a marriage that is hurting'.  Damn I hate to admit it but the old man was right sometimes.

So make your calendar.  Fill in 1 or more dates, only you can decide what the right number is, but then plan it and go through with it.  Make it happen!  Start that change!  Go now...what are you waiting for?


PS - Below I've give you our original list we started with.  There are some duplicates and some things just way off the wall for us, but we started here. Sorry for the going outside the box for format, but that's how they copy and pasted, and we wanted to share it with you.  The 'definitions' some have are from the websites I grabbed them from, not our definitions. 

Abasiophilia  People with impaired mobility[3]
Ablutophilia Baths or showers
Acomoclitic Hairless genitals (see gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Acousticophilia Aroused by sounds
Acrophilia High places
Acrotomophilia Amputee partner
Acrotomophilia  People with amputations[4][5]
Actirasty Exposure to the sun's rays
AGALMATOPHILIA Fetish involving statues, mannequins, and immobility. No Uncle Bob- this doesn't include Auntie May. Ya…har har har. Ugh.
Agalmatophilia  Statues, mannequins and immobility[6]
Agalmatophilia/Pygmalionism Statues/manikins or immobility
Age play                        
Agonophilia Pseudo-rape, pretend struggle or wrestling play as a form of foreplay
Agoraphilia Sex in public places
Agrexophilia Excitement from knowing that others are aware of a persons sexual activities
Algolagnia  Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7]
Algolagnia/Algalagnia Love of pain
Allorgasmia Fantasizing about someone other than one's partner
Allotriorasty Partners of other nations or races
Alphmegamia Older men
Altocalciphilia High heels (see retifism)
Alvinolagnia Stomachs (see partialism)
Amaurophilia Partner who is unable to see them during sex, blind/blindfolded sex partner
Anaclitism Activities or items one was exposed to as an infant
Anal plug (public, under clothes)
Anal plugs (large)              
Anal plugs (small)              
Anal sex                        
Anasteemaphilia Taller or shorter partners
Androidism Robots with human features
Andromimetophilia  Trans men[3][8]
Anililagnia  Attraction by young men to older women[9]
Animal roles                    
Anophelorastia Defiling or ravaging a partner
Antholagnia Floral scent
Aphephilia Being touched
Apotemnophilia self-amputee
Name change (legal, permanant)   Having an amputation[4][10]
APTEMNOPHILIA/APOTEMNOPHILIA APTEMNOPHILIA= Being aroused and/or excited by amputees. This could be a win/win situation, I guess. APOTEMNOPHILIA= erotic interest in being or looking like an amputee. WTF? Seriously- you know that's fucked up, right?
Arachnephilia Spiders
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)  
Asphyxiophilia Self-strangulation
Asphyxiophilia  Asphyxiation or strangulation[4]
Asthenolagnia Weakness/being humiliated
Attraction to disability  People with one or more physical disabilities.[11]
Auctioned for charity            
Audiophilia Recorded sound
Autagonistophilia Exposing naked body or genitals to strangers while on stage, while being photographed
Autagonistophilia  Being on stage or on camera[12][13]
Autassassinophilia  Being in life-threatening situations[4]
Autoandrophilia  A biological female imagining herself as a male[14][15]
Autoassassinophilia Staging one's own murder
Autoerotic asphyxiation  Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[13]
Autogynephilia  A biological male imagining himself as a female[16]
Autonephioplia Diapers
Autonepiophilia  The image of one's self in the form of an infant.[12]
AUTONEPIOPHILIA ( Infantalism) Sexual pleasure derived from dressing as (or imagining oneself as) an infant. Ladies- use your own 'men' jokes here. It's just too easy.
Autopedophilia  The image of one's self in the form of a child.[17]
Autoplushophilia  The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
Autovampirism  The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[18]
Autozoophilia  The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
AVISODOMY Sex with a bird. That's just fowl!
Ball stretching                  
Bathroom use control            
Beastiality People who have sex with real live animals. I won't even mention farm boys and cows. My willpower astounds me.
Beating (hard)                  
Beating (soft)                  
Being bitten                    
Being serviced (sexual)          
Belonephilia Pins/needles/sharp objects
Biastophilia Violently raping their victims
Biastophilia  Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy[4]
Bondage (heavy)                  
Bondage (light)                  
Bondage (multi-day)              
Bondage (public, under clothing)
Boot worship                    
Breast whipping                  
Breast/chest bondage            
Breath control                  
Brown showers (scat)            
Cages (locked inside of)        
Castration fantasy              
CATHETEROPHILIA A sexual perversion in which the necessary condition is that a catheter or other foreign body (e.g. swizzle stick, garter snake) be inserted in the urethra. Uh- good luck with that.
Cattle prod (electrical toy)    
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)
Chamber-pot use                  
Chastity belts                  
Choreophilia Dancing to orgasmic release
Chores (domestic service)        
Chremastistophilia  Being robbed or held up[12]
Chrematistophilia Having to pay for sex or having a sex partner steal from them, being robbed
Chronophilia  Partners of a widely differing chronological age[12]
Chrysophilia Gold or gold colored objects (see timophilia)
Claustrophilia Being confined in a small space
Cock rings/straps                
Cock worship                    
Collars (worn in private)        
Collars (worn in public)        
Competitions (with other subs)  
Coprolalia Using obscene language or writing
Coprophilia  Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[1][19]
Corsets (trained waist reduction)
Corsets (wearing casually)      
Coulrophilia Clowns
Crurophilia Legs
Crush A crush fetish is when one becomes sexually aroused when usually someone of the opposite sex crushes objects, food and sometimes small animals or insects with/under their foot. Bizarre- right?
Crush fetishism Seeing small creatures being crushed or being crushed
Cuffs (leather)                  
Cuffs (metal)                  
Dacryphilia When one is aroused by tears or sobbing. In other words- an asshole.
Dacryphilia Seeing their partner cry
Dacryphilia  Tears or crying[20]
DENDROPHILIA Sexual interest in trees. Hippy Pervs.
Dendrophilia Trees or fertility worship of them
Dendrophilia  Trees[4]
Diaper fetishism  Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[21]
Diapers (soiling)                
Diapers (wearing)                
Diapers (wetting)                
Doraphilia Skin, animal fur, or leather (see hyphephilia)
Double penetration              
Dracophilia Dragons and serpents
Dysmorphophilia Deformed or physically impaired partners (see teratophilia)
Ecouteurism Listening to others having sex without permission
EDERACINISM Sexual pleasure derived from [the thought of] tearing out sexual organs by the roots. Pedophiles- you are Strongly Encouraged to develop this fetish and then follow through with it. Go on- rip it out by the roots, we'll wait.
Electrophilia Electricity
Emetophilia When someone is aroused by vomiting or observing others vomit(When emetophiles put emetophilia into practice by actually vomiting, especially on a partner, it is called a Roman shower, after the supposed (but mistaken) belief in the frequent induction of vomiting at Roman feasts). I presume they hang out in bars and colleges.
Emetophilia  Vomit[3]
Endytophilia Partners who are clothed
Enemas (for cleansing)          
Enemas (retention/punishment)    
Enforced chastity                
Eproctophilia The sexual attraction to human flatulence, mainly heterosexual males attracted to female flatulence. This is a thing? Really? I just can't see it. Must be a Dominatrix thing. In that case- You Go Girl!
Erotic asphyxiation  Asphyxia of oneself or others[22]
Erotic dance (for audience)      
Erotographomania Writing love poems or letters
Erotophonophilia Lust murder
Erotophonophilia  Murder[4]
Examinations (physical)          
Exercise (forced/required)      
Exhibitionism Showing genitals in public
Exhibitionism  Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[1]
Exhibitionism (friends)          
Exhibitionism (strangers)        
Eye contact restrictions        
Face slapping                    
Fantasy abandonment              
Fantasy gang-rape                
Fantasy rape                    
Fear (being scared)              
Feederism  Erotic eating, feeding, and weight gain.[23]
Fetishism An inanimate object
Fisting pretty easy to figure out
Fisting (anal)                  
Fisting (vaginal)                
Flame play                      
Following orders                
Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)
Foot fetishism  Attraction to feet[24]
Foot worship                    
Forced bedwetting                
Forced dressing                  
Forced eating                    
Forced heterosexuality          
Forced homosexuality            
Forced masturbation              
Forced nudity (around others)    
Forced nudity (private)          
Forced servitude                
Forced smoking                  
FORMICOPHILIA Sexual interest in being crawled upon or bitten by small insects. Itchy…Itchy-Itchy-Itchy!!!!
Formicophilia Sex play with ants
Formicophilia  Being crawled on by insects[12][25]
FORNIPHILIA Form Of Bondage In Which A Human Is Used (Or Incorporated Into) A Piece Of Furniture. Examples Include: Human Drafting Tables, Human Lazy Suzanns, And Human Shelving (Ikeaphilia anyone?).
Forniphilia  Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
FROTTEURISM Rubbing against a non-consenting person to facilitate sexual stimulation- otherwise known as 'Riding The Bus/Subway'.
Frotteurism Rubbing one's genitals against or fondling the body parts of a non-consenting person
Frotteurism  Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]
Full head hoods                  
Furries Furries are people who dress up in animal costumes and take on the persona of that animal. Sometimes full-on sex occurs, but often two or more furries engage in a behavior called “yiffing” (dry-humping or other sexualized interactions). Would saying, “Get Stuffed” be considered an insult or a compliment, I wonder?
Gags (cloth)                    
Gags (inflatible)                
Gags (phallic)                  
Gags (rubber)                    
Gags (tape)                      
Gas masks                        
Gates of Hell (male)            
Genital sex                      
GERONTOPHILIA Sexual preference for the elderly (uh-ya… particularly the filthy rich ones, right?).
Gerontophilia Partner whose age is that of different generation
Gerontophilia  Elderly people[27]
Given away to another Dom (perm)
Given away to another Dom (temp)
Golden showers                  
Gun play                        
Gymnophilia Nudity
Gynandromorphophilia  Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]
Gynelophilous Sight/touch of pubic hair (see acomoclitic, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Gynemimetophilia Male impersonating a female
Gynemimetophilia  Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]
Haematomania/Hematolagnia Blood
Hair pulling                    
Hairbrush spankings              
Hamartophilia Committing acts you consider to be sinful
Hand jobs (giving)              
Hand jobs (receiving)            
Haptephilia Becoming extremely aroused by being touched
Harems (serving w/other subs)    
Harmatophilia Sexual incompetence/mistakes
Harnessing (leather)            
Harnessing (rope)                
Harpaxophilia Being robbed or burglarized (see chrematistophilia)
Having clothing chosen for you  
Having food chosen for you      
Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)
Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus)  
Hebephilia  Generally early pubescent children[30]
Heterophilia  Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[31][32][33]
HIEROPHILIA Sexual attraction to religious or sacred objects (e.g. masturbation with a cross). See The Exorcist .
Hierophilia Sacred objects
High heel wearing                
High heel worship                
Hirsutophilia Armpit hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hyphephilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Hodophilia Traveling
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)  
Homeovestism  Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[34][35]
Homilophilia Hearing or giving sermons
Hot oils (on genitals)          
Hot waxing                      
Housework (doing)                
Human puppy dog                  
Humiliation (private)            
Humiliation (public)            
Hybristophilia People who have committed crimes, people who are cruel/outrageous
Hybristophilia  Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[12][36]
Hygrophilia Body fluids or moisture
Hyphephilia Touching skin, hair, leather, fur, or fabric/specific fabric (see acomoclitic, doraphilia,gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, pubephilia, trichophilia)
Hypoxyphilia Sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen
Ice cubes                        
Including others                
Infantophilia  Pedophilia with a focus on children five years old or younger, a recently suggested term that is not in general use[37]
Initiation rites                
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
Kainotophilia Change
Kakorrhaphiphilia Failure
Keraunophilia Thunder and/or lightning
Kinesophilia Exercise
Kleptophilia Stealing
Kleptophilia  Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]
Klismaphilia Sexual arousal from introducing liquids into the rectum and colon via the anus (for example: enemas). I get the feeling adult diapers feature prominently in myriad fetishes….
Klismaphilia Being given an enema
Klismaphilia  Enemas, either giving or having[3]
Knife play                      
Knismolagnia Being tickled
Knissophilia Incense
Kopophilia Exhaustion
Lactophilia  Breast milk[38]
Leather clothing                
Leather restraints              
Lectures for misbehavior        
Licking (non-sexual)            
Lingerie (wearing)              
LIQUIDOPHELIA Arousal Contingent Upon The Submersion Of One's Genitals In Liquid. I'm staying out of public swimming pools from now on.
Liquidophilia  Immersing genitals in liquids[38]
Macrogenitalism Large genitals
Macrophilia Giants
Macrophilia  Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men[38]
Manacles & irons                
Manicures (giving)              
Masochism Being dominated/humiliated
Masochism  Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[1]
Massage (giving)                
Massage (receiving)              
Mastigophilia Punishment
Mechanophilia  Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[39][40][41]
MECHANOPHILIA/MECHAPHILIA Sexual attraction to cars or other machines. Basically- men and their cars. Enough said.
Medical scenes                  
Medical tables/surgery
Megalophilia Large objects
Menophilia A person with menophilia gets sexually excited at the sight, smell or taste of a menstruating woman. Bloody sick if you ask me.
Menophilia  Menstruation[38]
Merinthophilia Being bound
Metophilia Another person's face
Metrophilia Poetry
Modeling for erotic photos      
Morphophilia  Particular body shapes or sizes[13]
Mouth bits                      
MUCOPHILIA Sexual pleasure related to mucus (e.g. the consumption of). You would've been in Heaven here when I had the flu. I was a mucus factory. On second thought- Fucking EW!!!!
Mucophilia  Mucus[38]
Mysophilia Filth/foul odors/decaying material
Mysophilia  Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3]
Name change (for scene)          
Name change (legal, permanant)  
Narratophilia Discussing sex with others
Narratophilia  Obscene words[3]
Nasophilia Noses/nose (see partialism)
Nasophilia  Noses[38]
Navel fetishism  Sexual attraction to navels - either their own or someone else's.[42]
Necrophilia The sexual attraction to corpses. Gee- I wonder if they seek employment within the undertaker/morgue fields?
Necrophilia  Corpses[1][3][43]
Neophilia Anything new
Nipple clamps                    
Nipple play/"torture"            
Nipple rings (piercings)        
Nipple weights                  
Normophilia Acts considered normal by their religion/society
Nyctophilia Darkness or night
Objectophilia  pronounced emotional desire towards specific inanimate objects[1]
Ochlophilia Being in a crowd
Oculolinctus Licking their partner's eyeball
OCULOLINCTUS (Worming) Erotic pleasure stemming from the licking of someone's eyeball. What? How do you even? Wha? How would you even go there in the first place?!
Oculophilia Eyes (see partialism)
Odaxelagnia Biting/being bitten
Odontophilia Tooth extractions/tooth fetish
Olfactophilia  Smells[3][12]
Ophidicism Reptiles
Oral/anal play (rimming)        
Orgasm control                  
Orgasm denial                    
Outdoor scenes                  
Outdoor sex                      
Over-the-knee spanking          
Ozolagnia Powerful scents
Pain (medium)                    
Pain (mild)                      
Pain (severe)                    
Paraphilic infantilism  Sexual arousal based on dressing or being treated like a baby, also known as autonepiophilia[12] or "adult baby syndrome";[44] considerable overlap with diaper fetishism[21]
Parthenophilia Sex with virgins
Partialism Specific parts of the body(see alvinolagnia, nasophilia, oculophilia, podophilia)
Partialism  Specific, non-genital body parts[1][3]
Pecattiphilia Sinning/guilt
Pediophilia Dolls
Pedophilia  Prepubescent children, also spelled paedophilia. Often confused with hebephilia, ephebophilia, and pederasty.[1][45]
Pedovestism  Dressing like a child[46]
Peodeiktophilia  Exposing one's penis[4]
Persona training (in scene)      
Personality modification (RL)    
Phallophilia Large penis/large penis fetish
Phobophilia Fear/hate
Phone sex (commercial provider)  
Phone sex (serving Dom)          
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)
Phygephilia Being a fugitive
Pictophilia Inability to become aroused without pictorial pornography
Pictophilia  Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][12]
Piercing (permanent)            
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)
Piquerism  Sexual gratification through penetration of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects.[47]
Plastic surgery                  
Plushophilia Stuffed toys
Plushophilia  Sexual attraction to stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[48]
Podophilia Feet (see partialism)
Polyiterophilia Sex with a series of partners
Pony slave                      
Prison scenes                    
Prostitution (actual)            
Prostitution (public pretense)  
Psychrocism Cold/ice
PSYCHROPHILIA Arousal is contingent on contact with extremely cold objects or watching others freeze. This is Nothing like when someone just enjoys chewing ice cubes. I'm just sayin'- for someone else….
Pubephilia Pubic hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, trichophilia)
Public exposure                  
Punishment Scene                
Pussy worship                    
Pussy/cock whipping              
Pygmalionis Rubbing one's body against a statue/statue/manikins
Pygophilia Contact with the buttocks
Pygophilia  Buttocks[49]
Pyrolagnia Watching fire
Pyrophilia Fire or its uses in sex play
Pyrophilia  Fire[50]
Raptophilia  Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[12]
Religious scenes                
Restrictive rules on behavior    
Retifism Shoes (see altocalciphilia)
Rhabdophilia Being flagellated
Riding crops                    
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)
Robotism Robots in sex play
Rope body harness                
Rubber/latex clothing            
SACOFRICOSIS The Process Of Making A Hole In One's Pocket In Order to Facilitate Public Masturbation (“You wash those pants before I put them in the laundry!”).
Sadism Dominating/mistreating/humiliating one's partner
Sadism  Inflicting pain on others[1]
Saline injections
SALIROPHILIA Fetish Involving the soiling or dirtying of one's desire, usually an attractive person. Ok, ya'll need some diapers from the Autonepiophiliacs.
Salirophilia Ingesting human sweat or saliva (fluids with a salt content)
Salirophilia  Soiling or dirtying others[3]
Saran wrapping                  
Scatophilia Obscene phone calls
Scopophilia Being stared at oneself
Scratching - getting            
Scratching - giving              
Sensory deprivation              
Serving as a maid                
Serving as art                  
Serving as ashtray              
Serving as furniture            
Serving as toilet (feces)        
Serving as toilet (urine)        
Serving as waitress/waiter      
Serving orally (sexual)          
Serving other doms (supervised)  
Serving other doms (unsupervised)
Sexual deprivation (long term)  
Sexual deprivation (short term)  
Sexual fetishism  Nonliving objects[1]
Shaving (body hair)              
Shaving (genital hair)          
Shaving (head hair)              
Siderodromophilia Trains
Sitophilia Using food
Sleep deprivation                
Slutty clothing (private)        
Slutty clothing (public)        
Somnophilia Fondling a stranger in their sleep
Somnophilia  Sleeping or unconscious people[3][12]
Spandex clothing                
Spectrophilia An image in an mirrors/sex with spirits
Speculums (anal)                
Speculums (vaginal)              
Speech restrictions (when, what)
Spreader bars                    
Standing in corner              
Sthenolagnia  Muscles and displays of strength[38]
Stigmatophilia Marking one's own body/inserting foreign objects into it
Stigmatophilia  Body piercings and tattoos[4][38]
Straight jackets                
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)  
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)    
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)        
Strapping (full body beating)    
Supplying new partners for Dom  
Suspension (horizontal)          
Suspension (inverted)            
Suspension (upright)            
Swallowing feces                
Swallowing semen                
Swallowing urine                
Swapping (with one other couple)
Swinging (multiple couples)      
SYMOROPHILIA Arousal due to witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents (as seen in the movie Crash )
Symphorophilia Arranging a crash/disaster/explosion
Symphorophilia  Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4]
Tampon training (in ass)        
Tantalolagnia Teasing
Taphephilia Being buried alive
Telephone scatologia  Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[1][12]
TENS Unit (electrical toy)      
Teratophilia Deformed or monstrous people (see dysmorphophilia)
Teratophilia  Deformed or monstrous people[51]
Thesauromania Collecting women's clothing
Thlipsosis Pinching
Thumbcuffs (metal)              
Timophilia Gold or wealth (see chrysophilia)
Toucherism  Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand.[52]
Transformation fetish Depictions of transformations of people into objects/other beings
Transvestic fetishism  Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[1]
Transvestophilia  A transvestite sexual partner[12]
Trichophilia Hair (see acomoclitic, gynelophilous, hirsutophilia, hyphephilia, pubephilia,)
Trichophilia  Hair[38]
Triolism Three-party sex
Triple penetration              
Tripsolagnophilia Massage
Troilism Couples
Troilism  Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge; also known as triolism[13][53]
Urethral sounds (metal rods)    
Urolagnia  Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[1][3][12][13]
URSUSAGALMATOPHILIA (Plushophilia) Sexual interest in teddy bears. Stay the fuck away from my teddy!
Urtication Stinging nettles stimulating the skin
Vaccinophilia Being vaccinated
Vaginal dildo                    
Vampirism  Attraction to or involving blood[54][55]
Verbal humiliation              
Vibrator on genitals            
Vicarphilia Hearing stories about other people's lives
Video (recordings of you)        
Video (watching others)          
Vincilagnia Being tied up
Violet Wand (electricial toy)    
VORAREPHILIA Vorarephilic Fantasies commonly revolve around devouring others whole, or being swallowed whole by a mate (remember Armin Meiwes? Read his story HERE )
Vorarephilia Fantasies about being swallowed alive
Vorarephilia  The idea of eating or being eaten by others; sometimes swallowed whole, in one piece[56]
Voyeurism Watching others have sex
Voyeurism  Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia.[1][13]
Voyeurism (watching others)      
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)    
Water torture                    
Waxing (hair removal)            
Wearing symbolic jewelery        
Weight gain (forced)            
Weight loss (forced)            
Wooden paddles                  
Xenophilia Strangers
Zelophilia Jealousy
Zoophilia  Animals[1][3][12]
ZOOSADISM Sexual pleasure derived from inflicting pain on animals, or seeing them in pain. Basically- they're assholes who NEED to die Immediately. Preferrably as painfully as possible. Then spend Eternity in Hell being raped by the biggest demon imaginable.
Zoosadism  Inflicting pain on or seeing animals in pain[57]
Zwischenstufe Person of the same sex

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