Sunday, February 10, 2013

Anal, Fisting, Toys (Day 3)

OMG OMG OMG OMG, on day 3 of our Sexuary attempt to fist me we succeeded!!!  How incredible that felt going in, being in, and even coming out.  Because of the patience and process we went through I"m not sore one bit right now.  It was everything I had hoped it would be and more.  Just freaking incredible. 

I did want to go over a couple of things here though.

First of all it's taken us several days to achieve this goal.  It was NOT a wham bam slam it in thing.  I'm saying three days, but even before that I had been working with the large butt plug to make it happen several days.  It doesn't matter which hole you're trying to fist, you have to take your time so you don't tear anything. That's just to get comfortable enough that you could accept such a large object.

Then the day of you again have to take it slowly.  I went through 4 dildos before finally getting there.  Working my way up slowly.  It doesn't matter if you're fisting an ass or a vagina it's a slow process, and you work back and forth until all of a sudden you're there. 

Second, we used tons of lube.  As a matter of fact just before it slid in I had Jackie put more lube on and then plop there it went.  Lube, lube and more lube.  Again, it doesn't matter which hole you're fisting, lube is a major key to pleasurable success.  For the anal fisting we actually got some cream lube.  We ordered "Elbow Grease" and it made a difference.  It stayed longer doesn't dry out like KY, Wet or Astoglide type lubes we've tried in the past.  Now from personal experience I can tell you the liquid lubes were fine for vaginal fisting, but you have to use plenty of it and relube as needed.  The only caution is that Elbow Grease and those like it are oil based and will not work with most condoms.

Last, for us it was best when I was in control.  Jackie would hold herself tightly against me and wait for me to push back to her.  She would apply some pressure, but I was in control.  I was the one pushing back when it was time to go further.  I was also rocking some to help loosen me up.  But I was in control.

We had safe words and the first day I hit my limit and had to stop. You have to totally trust your partner, and I totally trusted Jackie and in doing so I succeeded in having one of my fantasies come true.

For the record she told me she creamed as it went that last little bit in.  It was totally exciting for both of us, and definitely a highlight for the day.  It also means we'll be changing plans for Wednesday and Thursday since we've succeeded.  I can't wait to see what we wind up putting in those 2 slots.

Dane

Houston we have lift off....is what went through my mind the minute it slid in.  We have been working on this day for 3 days! I just kept trying to be patient. You have to be, like Dane said this is not something you can rush.  You must take your time, and work inch by inch until bam your in. Its pretty incredible.  I am not sure what he really felt but it was really exciting to see it go in.   I am was not joking when I told Dane that I creamed myself as it went into him. I swear I heard the Rocky theme going off in my head! woohooo we did it! Geez now what are we going to do on our calendar for those days we were still supposed to play....

Its all about communication and flexibility.  I am sure we will figure out something to do! We have made it 11 days now! Almost half way through it all...The halfway mark is around the corner.....Keep reading...its going to a great 17 days....

Jackie

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