Sexuary 2022 - TENS/Wartenberg Wheel - Day 3

 Sexuary Day 3 started out with an email to Jackie - 

I love that, while not always, you know how to exude your sexiness.  Other women are envious of you and the attitude you carry when you are ‘in the zone’.  I love watching you when you realize you are as sexy as I see you all the time. - 143

Please remember to send me a (or more) sexy pictures of you today….also that 1 day during the month you’ll let me know before we play that today will be an ass day (I’ll move thing around after that day and have an empty space to fill at the end). 

Jackie DID send me several great pictures of her posing on the bed after her shower this morning.  Have I mentioned how much I LOVE seeing pictures of Jackie in all sorts of dress and undress? It gets me hard and makes me want her every time I see these pictures and I love that she's agreed to 28 days of them (and I'm hoping there are a lot more in my future).  

After she took a long bath and smoked a little I took her too the back room blindfolded and put her on the bed.  Originally it wasn't my intention, but since there was a freshly shaven pussy I had to eat it up before anything else.  I love eating up a freshly shaved pussy.  

I then flipped Jackie over and bent her over the edge of the bed.  I put an electric pad on her thigh and then turned on the TENS unit.  I had purchased a new toy, a Wartenberg Wheel attached to the TENS unit.  It was fantastic.  She preferred it about a 5 (out of 15) but even at a 5 I could see her jump and her skin tighten up.  She came easily as I fingered her and then when I thought she was very ready I put the TENS unit down and finished us both up. 

Again the pleasure/pain things comes in.  Here some electricity and sharp objects come into play all at once, it's a great combination.  

It's only the 3rd day of Sexuary, and still plenty of time for you to do your 'something different with your significant other! Go for it!! And we'd love to hear your stories too!

Dane

Sexuary 2021 - St Andrews Cross - Electricity and the Wartenberg Wheel

Well today was a 'regular' for us.  It starts with me putting Jackie on the St Andrews Cross and then slowly torturing her with both our electric pen and our wartenberg wheels.  So after making out for a few minutes I walk Jackie back to our room and put her up on the cross.  We've modified our cross to have some cuffs to hold her wrist up high, so I strapped her in.  She's got hand holds and we've put cushion on where her chin sits in the crux of the X.   

So all comfortable, I start with the pen on Jackie.  I run it up and down her spine, and over her thighs and spine.  Some points make her moan...some just get her ready....but she reacts as I would expect to the electric pen.  (These can be gotten at wish.com or amazon.com for less than $20.  They run on a AA battery, and come with several attachments.  

After that I pulled out the wartenberg wheel and start running it down her back.  I switch between fast and slow....just barely any pressure to pushing down pretty good, making sure she feels it.  Again she moans and moves around on her feet, I know I'm starting to get somewhere.

Then I lube up and enter her from behind...all stretched out on the cross, lifting her with every stroke.  

That's when the first event happened.  Somehow Jackie smacked her chin on the cross and took her breath away for a few seconds.  It definitely stopped play and we moved into the bed where we finished up.  

Now is the next event, and this one got a chuckle.  So we're finished and I realized that the cock ring I wear around the head of my cock is missing.  "Have you seen it?" I asked Jackie...."Nope."..so I back track and it's not anywhere to be seen.  So Jackie gets on the bed where I reach in and retrieve it. Oops! 😁 It's the first time that's happened. On a side note, when I started wearing the metal cock ring, I asked Jackie if she could tell.  "Not really".  Last night she took that back, she feels it vibrating inside of her when she's using her vibrator on her clit.  So yes, it does make some difference.

Then when discussing Jackie mentioned that she never realized the difference between the violet wand and the pen.  So next time she's on the cross and we're using electricity, she wants the bigger zap.  Oh I'm very sure I can accommodate that!!!

So even the 'ordinary' things can go off course and when you break out the un-ordinary, sometimes you come up with new ideas for another day. 

Dane

 

Sexuary 2021 - Electricity

 

 

Ok, truth be told we started a day early this year.  Jackie is having to miss a day to help her family out, so we decided to start Jan 31st.  I have to tell you I'm excited about some of these more than others. We all have our favorites right?  Well I drew Electricity play for day one, and was a bit disappointed.  Was hoping to start with a bang.  OH MY was I ever wrong in doubting.  

 

Ok, it started out a bit rough. I couldn't find the violet wand, the TENS unit battery was dead, the gloves I have will shock me, but not anyone I touch, and just over all I was in a bit of a panic.  After a deep breath I remembered where the wand was (it's sad when you have so many toys you have them all over the place. 😂)  So finally I'm set, and just waiting for Jackie to get ready. When she gives me her all ready,  I walked Jackie in the room while blindfolded and laid her on the bed.  I tied her arms up to the headboard with some rope and a simple knot, then I started with the electric wand on her.  Whoops...even on the lowest setting, the attachment (the lower right attachment) was zapping just  bit to much.  I quickly replaced the attachment with the comb attachment.  That did the trick.   Now while stroking her with the wand and rubbing her gently to get her started. 

After a couple of minutes I spread Jackies' legs and started with her favorite vibrator. BINGO!! Yeap, I got the right combination going.  She almost immediately started arching her back and orgasm after orgasm hit her.  I ran the wand over her chest, her arms, her thighs, her belly, her sides, just everywhere I could reach, all the time keeping her vibrator well planted on her clit. 

After she called for mercy, and after she had plenty of orgasms, I asked her if she was done.  She let me know she was ready for me to finish things up.  I kindly obliged her. The excitement of having watched her orgasm so many times quickly brought us again to a quick finish.  Whew!!! 

So again, wasn't my first choice and yet was a fantastic night.  Something we don't do very often, and no real reason why.  This is why we had it on the list, because we get in our ruts and forget we like all the other things too.  

So do you have a plan for this Sexuary?  Sexuary 2021 is just started and you have plenty of time to get started.  Remember, try something outside of your box. Something you wouldn't normally do  Heck just spin the wheel above and go for it.  

Dane

 

Its day one...the thoughts of all that I had put in the jar...I also know he has put some in the jar...and to be honest after we talked neither remembered who put this one in.  

So Dane drew the electricity tab....Of course I don't know this.  I am just told that I need get extra high...So extra high it is...

I came up to let him know I was ready....for what I don't know.  He blind folded me and took me to the bedroom.Once there I was centered on bed and hands tied to headboard.

There are so many thoughts going thru my head, then zap..squeal....zap squeal...zap squeal and try to move away.  It takes a few more zap squeal and try to move away before he changes tips. 

This turned out to be a great time.  I really floated in and out of the clouds.  I constantly had to tell myself to refocus or reground.  I wish I could find the words to describe what I was going thru....so I would give the violet wand a 5 ***** review!

Jackie

Sexuary 2020 - Playing with Sparks

So electricity is nothing new to Jackie and I. It is not a front shelf item, but it is something we breakout from time to time.  When I think of paincentric electricity definitely fits into that category.  There is a working through the pain that brings you to a pleasure that won't be reached otherwise.

This time though our rules changed a bit. In the past the person receiving the electricity has always been in control of the device.  You control the power, and most of the time you even dictated where and how long it would go on an area.  In our paincentric experiment I took that away from Jackie.

The beauty of electricity is it doesn't just stay where you put it, but it travels through the body.  The initial spark will tantalize the area, it can hurt so good!

We happen to have a professional TENS unit, but we also have a Violet Wand (knockoff) and a new Therapy Pen. 

Wish link
This little device is powered by 1 AA battery, and kicks a nice punch. For about $6 from wish you can have one too. When you have your hand on your partner and touch them with the pen you'll feel the electricity, no matter how far away your hand is. While I don't feel anything until about level 5, Jackie felt it at 1, so sensitivity is an individual thing. We never got to 9 last night.

Additionally, years ago we purchased an electric wand.  It's not a true Violet Wand (brand name) but does a great job. These start about $40 on Amazon.  They are WONDERFUL! Different attachments do different things. The experience you can create with this little device would definitely add to any spanking bench or St Andrews Cross. 

Amazon Link


Afterwards Jackie mentioned she'd like to pull this one further to the front of the list than it has been in the past. So I think it went over well.

On a side note, I also broke out a spreader bar for the first time.  It wasn't necessary for the play we were doing, but it was a great time to introduce something new.  They went over well actually. Better than I thought. I have other plans for it over the month, and now know she won't freak out over having them put on.

Where are you at on your Sexuary? Any plans? It officially starts in 2 days, so you still have time to plan something, ANYTHING different for next month.  Be it 1x or 29 times, do something out of your box!

Dane

Playing with Sparks...so I do not know what we are doing each day, Only Dane does.  This being said I knew that this would be a great night of play.  I started the evening with a margarita, a hot bath and an edible that I had made....Hot baths always mean a good clean shaved pussy afterwards...So after I ate the edible I got way over heated and quickly got out of the bath and got to my chair to cool off.  I had a pretty good buzz going as I sat there.  After about 30-45 mins I told Dane I was good to go.  

I thought I still had my buzz going but it wasn't long after getting into the leg spreader that he began tonight's session. I had been blindfolded so I couldn't see anything.  I heard a click click click as something came on. My mind going thru the roller deck of sounds...nope not this toy....nope not this one...well I never would have guessed it since it was a new one. He stroked it up and down...It was an electric pen type thing..I could tell it was a small head and not the violet wand.  While it wasn't painful, it did not get me to the edge like we had hoped.  He switched to the violent wand again it was great but never really got me to the edge.  Even his normal touching never got me to the edge. It was then that we both realized I was no longer high.  We did stop and lay together and talk about all that had happened this night, going thru the "thorns and roses" of the evening.  We did go later and finish up, after all this is Sexuary and its about both of us enjoying ourself.

While we haven't always played while I was high, we specifically know that it helps me with the Anixety of the unknown.  That while I don't want to be so high that I can't function, I do like the euphoria that makes my nerves on fire.  I love it really to be honest.  So this night was a bit of a let down due to that, but only due to that.  We discussed that I don't want this electricity s to go into the "back of the closet"  I would like to revisit it, both high and not...Jackie

  

Sexuary 2015 - TENS / Electricity

So it's Sexuary and you want to go outside the box a bit.  How about using that TENS unit?  We first discussed it in Sexuary 2013 in an article here, and again when I purchased our first attachment here.  Some of it went very well, some not so well for us.

But what is electricity play?  It's just that, using electricity to help with or cause orgasms or just feeling good sensations.  A TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) unit is a medical unit used to help patients with muscle issues in their back, arms and legs (I'm sure almost any place).  TENS machines works by sending stimulating pulses across the surface of the skin and along the nerve strands. The stimulating pulses help prevent pain signals from reaching the brain.Tens devices also help stimulate your body to produce higher levels of its own natural "Endorphins".  If you put those pulses in just the right places, well what you could get is an orgasm.

The electricity will flow from 1 pad to the other, so you want everything in direct line of where those spots you want stimulated are.  Common electrode placement for penises is on the underside of the shaft, with one pad near the head of the penis and one at the base. Alternatively, for testicular enjoyment, place one pad on the top of the scrotum and the other on the bottom. For vaginas, a pad on either side of the clit or opposite sides of the vaginal opening can feel wonderful. A pad on each side of the anus is also an option. Keep in mind, the jelly-like pad adhesive is very sticky and works best on smooth skin. It’s best to shave first if you’re working with a very hairy area.

You can also find attachments for your TENS units like the Penis straps or anal plugs and if you look you'll find more. The one caveat I'll give on these is to use LOTS of medical gel.  It's cheap and worth every drop you put on the unit.  Otherwise you'll feel sparking instead of a nice current.  Nothing like having a your penis strapped down and sparks biting into it.  Read the directions!!! I didn't at first and was very disappointed at the outcome.

Now there are other devices that use electricity The Violet Wand is probably the most famous.  It's not cheap (about $200), but do you really want the cheapest model when you're talking about sending electricity through your body?  This wand is made to run over yourself or someone and kind of acts like a plasma ball we had growing up, except you are the other side of the electricity with no glass in between.  I've never experienced them first hand but have spoken with people who have and everyone loves these jewels.  


So first question, does it hurt?  The only time I've ever had a painful experience is when I used an attachment with no gel.  Otherwise I could crank up the medical unit full blast (slowly of course) and had a great sensation.  When we use them on Jackie she'll need a breather from her orgasms.  They are intense and continuous until she turns off the unit once they start.  Take it slow, and gradually increase your power till you find that sweet spot.

Will you always orgasm?  While Jackie has always been able to orgasm I've never been able to cum with the TENS unit.  I have however had great sensations that have almost brought me there.  I'm still working on placement, but I still recommend trying it.

Can you use a TENS during sex?  Both of you might be wearing 1 set of pads, or just the act of each of you having a set of pads while having sex will cause extra stimulation and will mimic suckling on your clit, testicles, or anus during intercourse can take your lovemaking to new heights.

So if you have that TENS unit in the closet from a bad back, then break it out and try it for other purposes.  If you are thinking about some sort of electrical play, then Jackie and I recommend going for it!!!  One of the great things about TENS units is they are just as good for single play as for with a partner.  So whether Sexuary is about "ME" time or "US" time it's a great way to go.

Got some other scoop on electric play that makes you go over the top?  Share it here for everyone to learn.  Recommendation on a specific type of electric toy?  Or just what you've found works or doesn't work please share so others can learn!.

Hope your Sexuary 2015 is going well!!!

Dane

TENS, Electricity

This was saved for last because we don't know the repercussions and I wanted time to recuperate.  I would like you to use the electricity/TENS on me.  Maybe we can find an anal probe, or see how they use it on a cock and nipples.  I will leave it up to you if you'd like to try the same thing that day or save it for another day.  This will be our last official day of Fetish Sexuary, so along with the electric you have free reign for ANYTHING you'd like to try on me. 

So Jackie has this TENS unit from when she hurt her shoulder years ago.  We've kept it around, lost it, found it, lost part of it, found it, lost it, found it...you get the drift.  But I know that electricity can be a huge turn on for some, and very orgasmic for others.

Being a bit of a country boy I know that to get the seed from a bull, you stick an anal probe in and turn it on, and seaman will come flowing out.  I'd never seen it done on a guy before Sexuary, So wasn't sure how it would work.  But we were willing to try it.

We even watched a couple of videos where a guy came using a TENS unit and a girl went orgasmic with one.  They were pretty hot and Jackie and I had a great round of sex after watching those videos.  

So we break out the unit and Jackie decides to go first.  Now anyone who knows Jackie knows she's not the overly adventurous type and it really surprised me she went first.  So we put 1 set of pads on her and started it up.  At first there wasn't much you could tell or see.  She could feel it, but it wasn't all there.  So we put a second set of pads on, further south, and bingo she started to vibrate a bit more.  I could see her clit start to appear and her lips were definitely swelling.

She played with the controls till she got where she wanted and then closed her eyes and let it flow.  I could see her react much the same as if I had her favorite vibrator on and was waiting for her to gush any second.

When she'd shuttered enough she cut the controls and just tried to catch her breath.  I reached in and she was definitely wet.  Not drenched as she can get but wet.  She said it was not the most monumental but definitely orgasmed a couple of times.

Then was my turn.  We started with one set of pads and turned it on.  At first I didn't think it was working, then I hit level 4....5....6...7...OMG every time I went up a level it was like someone squeezed the head of my cock a bit tighter.  But it wasn't going to make me cum.  So we added a second set of pads.  I could barely feel them even though I was all the way up to max on those (60) and about a 30 on the one attached to my head.  But still no real, going over the top sensation.

So Jackie moved the pads around.  This time I was feeling it all over.  From the bottom of my sac to the top of my cock I could feel it vibrating.  It pretty quickly took me to the edge.  That feeling you get right before you cum.  I had both controls at max setting of 60.  It was right there....I waited...I could feel the urge.....it was sooooooooooo close.........but after a few minutes it just wasn't going to cum.

We finished me off quickly.  I'll try it again.  It wasn't painful at all.  It was uncomfortable at times, and I'm sitting here tingling still an hour later, so not sure how long that will last.  I enjoyed watching Jackie get off and liked the feeling, just couldn't get that release I needed with it.

Today was day 28 for us.  Jackie has to leave at 5:30 in the morning for some training so we started 1/31 instead so we could get our 28 days in.  I'll follow up with another post on a wrap up.  Additionally we'll be going back and trying the fetishes we had to forgo for one reason or another and we'll post our adventures there.  So while Sexuary is officially over with for us (ok, we still have pillow talk tonight but the sex is over unless Jackie is going to be overly generous and surprise me), we'll be updating our blog here and there as we live out Sexuary in our day to day lives.  Follow along.  Leave us a comment.  Tell us if there was something you tried because we brought it up.  Tell us you did something this Sexuary that made a difference in your relationship,because bottom line that's what this exercise was all about.

Dane

TENS/Electricity...the thought was scary, yet exciting at the same time.  Something you are told not to play with yet really want to...well this is the safest way to play with it without getting totally fried.

We watched a few videos, have looking at 100's of toys.  Wondering all the what if questions.  I knew I already had a TENS unit a medical grade one, so we didnt want to go and buy one.  However when the month started I wasnt sure where it was.  We hunted for several days until finding the box that it was still packed in.  So we got it out and left it alone.  Scared to let the lion out of that cage.  Well until today, I had an appointment out of town this morning, so I was on my drive home when I was thinking about it, it got me stirring, did I want to go first? Or should he? I decided to go first in case I needed time to rest and get myself under control. We started with 2 pads, and I had them turned up to 40 and while I could certainly feel it, it wasn't taking me to the place I wanted to go.  So we added another 2 pads. Now this took me where I wanted it go.  Looking back I probably could have taken it higher however I knew I would be gone until Saturday at a conference in which I could not be uncomfortable in(if ya know what I mean) so after it got intense, I laid back and let it do what it was supposed to do, and it did.  While I didn't squirt like I am known to, it did take me into a multi-level orgasim that I could feel from my neck to my toes.  It also went into my "we ARE going to do this again" list! I think practice is needed to get the best orgasim, so will try again!

Next was Dane, I helped get his pads on, one set at a time, he leaked a good round or two of pre cum but never really had a mind boggleing shoot cum all over.  I think for him we will need to try again too, you have to get the pads in the right place or they do nothing and we were quickly running out of time before the kids got home from school. Even though he didn't finish with the TENS until he did finish, and it was pretty intense.

Did I mention this is going on my "do this again" list...There are several things on there from this month.  I can't believe this was the last day, we made it...while we had 2 days that not much if anything happened, I am still calling it 28 days!! WE nailed our list, and nailed each other ;) WE talked and talked and talked...well you get the picture.  We discovered new things, old things, things we liked and things we didn't, but we did it. 

I am doing a happy dance...happy dance....loud music(even if its just in my head) we did it...(insert Dora"WE did it, WE did it..." song here) lol

Keep following though, we aren't finished.  We are going to keep blogging and keep doing....We will go back to our every 3 days calender(which was another Sexuary goal) and I will go into that at another time.  We will keep communicating and keep smiling, and I will get a jersey or tshirt with "28"on it and not care whose name it is, but I will know what "28" is about...

Jackie