Sexuary 2024 - Electric Play

 Now electric play isn't new to us either, but over the years I've picked up several TENS units and some additional attachments that we'd never used.  So before Jackie came in I prepared the room pulling out the violet wand and several TENS units with attachments.  

I had a Wartenberg wheel, with a electric component to it (you attach an electric pad to the body for the circuit).  

I also had a set of nipple claps that create a circuit.  I tried them on myself, and at a 3 out of 20, they were pretty intense.  So wasn't going to be cranking those up. For reference, it's always best to try things on yourself before ever trying them on someone else.  You should know what they are going to feel, and know what to expect before they are in a sub space and something brings them out. 

I also set up the violet wand and had everything ready.  I brought Jackie into the room blind folded and put her on our chaise lounge, which is covered in a white fur we got for Sexuary 2024.  

I started with the Wartenberg wheel, and got the blood flowing several places, her thighs, her breast, her belly, and her sides all had the sting of the wheel and the buzz of electricity running through it. 

I then started with the violet wand with the U attachment.  this I ran around her breast, over her belly and so forth.  When I switched to the comb, I put on the nipple clamps and started with some low voltage.  I then started with the comb and varied the voltage on the nipples.  At 3 I noted she had gotten a bit intense so after a bit there I turned off the TENS unit. 

Now here is where a mental game comes in.  I continued with the violet wand and then turned the nipple clamps back on at a 1.  Jackie jumped and tears started streaming.  I asked her if she was "red" and she nodded yes.  I quickly removed everything.  In her mind she heard me click up to 3, and down the three, but up and downs don't sound different, so she thought she was at least at 6, and then when I turned it back on had gone up again.  Mentally we were at least at a 7 or better.  Let me tell you the mind is more powerful than anything we could do, even it it's not reality, if your brain is there, it's as good as happening. So that ended our session. 

On a side note, I admonished Jackie for not calling "red" herself.  The trust in these situations is the Top will protect the bottom, and in this case I did, but part of that is the trust the bottom will also let the Top know when they are in a bad place.  I get Jackie explained she was trying to work through it, but I could tell she wasn't going to, so I called it.  

If you're the Top and you don't protect your bottom, that's abuse.  Now mind you there are different tolerances for everyone, and what Jackie enjoys would be abuse to someone else, and others might have been just fine with the nipple shock.  That's why communication, and knowing your bottom is so important.  Remembering the number 1 job of any Top/Dom is the safety of the bottom/sub.  There is nothing more important!

So tonight, wasn't necessarily a win, but next time we break out Jackie will know that the clicking isn't always as relevant as she did this time. And she'll be receptive because I took care of her. 

Dane

Sexuary 2021 - Electricity

 

 

Ok, truth be told we started a day early this year.  Jackie is having to miss a day to help her family out, so we decided to start Jan 31st.  I have to tell you I'm excited about some of these more than others. We all have our favorites right?  Well I drew Electricity play for day one, and was a bit disappointed.  Was hoping to start with a bang.  OH MY was I ever wrong in doubting.  

 

Ok, it started out a bit rough. I couldn't find the violet wand, the TENS unit battery was dead, the gloves I have will shock me, but not anyone I touch, and just over all I was in a bit of a panic.  After a deep breath I remembered where the wand was (it's sad when you have so many toys you have them all over the place. 😂)  So finally I'm set, and just waiting for Jackie to get ready. When she gives me her all ready,  I walked Jackie in the room while blindfolded and laid her on the bed.  I tied her arms up to the headboard with some rope and a simple knot, then I started with the electric wand on her.  Whoops...even on the lowest setting, the attachment (the lower right attachment) was zapping just  bit to much.  I quickly replaced the attachment with the comb attachment.  That did the trick.   Now while stroking her with the wand and rubbing her gently to get her started. 

After a couple of minutes I spread Jackies' legs and started with her favorite vibrator. BINGO!! Yeap, I got the right combination going.  She almost immediately started arching her back and orgasm after orgasm hit her.  I ran the wand over her chest, her arms, her thighs, her belly, her sides, just everywhere I could reach, all the time keeping her vibrator well planted on her clit. 

After she called for mercy, and after she had plenty of orgasms, I asked her if she was done.  She let me know she was ready for me to finish things up.  I kindly obliged her. The excitement of having watched her orgasm so many times quickly brought us again to a quick finish.  Whew!!! 

So again, wasn't my first choice and yet was a fantastic night.  Something we don't do very often, and no real reason why.  This is why we had it on the list, because we get in our ruts and forget we like all the other things too.  

So do you have a plan for this Sexuary?  Sexuary 2021 is just started and you have plenty of time to get started.  Remember, try something outside of your box. Something you wouldn't normally do  Heck just spin the wheel above and go for it.  

Dane

 

Its day one...the thoughts of all that I had put in the jar...I also know he has put some in the jar...and to be honest after we talked neither remembered who put this one in.  

So Dane drew the electricity tab....Of course I don't know this.  I am just told that I need get extra high...So extra high it is...

I came up to let him know I was ready....for what I don't know.  He blind folded me and took me to the bedroom.Once there I was centered on bed and hands tied to headboard.

There are so many thoughts going thru my head, then zap..squeal....zap squeal...zap squeal and try to move away.  It takes a few more zap squeal and try to move away before he changes tips. 

This turned out to be a great time.  I really floated in and out of the clouds.  I constantly had to tell myself to refocus or reground.  I wish I could find the words to describe what I was going thru....so I would give the violet wand a 5 ***** review!

Jackie

Sexuary 2020 - Playing with Sparks

So electricity is nothing new to Jackie and I. It is not a front shelf item, but it is something we breakout from time to time.  When I think of paincentric electricity definitely fits into that category.  There is a working through the pain that brings you to a pleasure that won't be reached otherwise.

This time though our rules changed a bit. In the past the person receiving the electricity has always been in control of the device.  You control the power, and most of the time you even dictated where and how long it would go on an area.  In our paincentric experiment I took that away from Jackie.

The beauty of electricity is it doesn't just stay where you put it, but it travels through the body.  The initial spark will tantalize the area, it can hurt so good!

We happen to have a professional TENS unit, but we also have a Violet Wand (knockoff) and a new Therapy Pen. 

Wish link
This little device is powered by 1 AA battery, and kicks a nice punch. For about $6 from wish you can have one too. When you have your hand on your partner and touch them with the pen you'll feel the electricity, no matter how far away your hand is. While I don't feel anything until about level 5, Jackie felt it at 1, so sensitivity is an individual thing. We never got to 9 last night.

Additionally, years ago we purchased an electric wand.  It's not a true Violet Wand (brand name) but does a great job. These start about $40 on Amazon.  They are WONDERFUL! Different attachments do different things. The experience you can create with this little device would definitely add to any spanking bench or St Andrews Cross. 

Amazon Link


Afterwards Jackie mentioned she'd like to pull this one further to the front of the list than it has been in the past. So I think it went over well.

On a side note, I also broke out a spreader bar for the first time.  It wasn't necessary for the play we were doing, but it was a great time to introduce something new.  They went over well actually. Better than I thought. I have other plans for it over the month, and now know she won't freak out over having them put on.

Where are you at on your Sexuary? Any plans? It officially starts in 2 days, so you still have time to plan something, ANYTHING different for next month.  Be it 1x or 29 times, do something out of your box!

Dane

Playing with Sparks...so I do not know what we are doing each day, Only Dane does.  This being said I knew that this would be a great night of play.  I started the evening with a margarita, a hot bath and an edible that I had made....Hot baths always mean a good clean shaved pussy afterwards...So after I ate the edible I got way over heated and quickly got out of the bath and got to my chair to cool off.  I had a pretty good buzz going as I sat there.  After about 30-45 mins I told Dane I was good to go.  

I thought I still had my buzz going but it wasn't long after getting into the leg spreader that he began tonight's session. I had been blindfolded so I couldn't see anything.  I heard a click click click as something came on. My mind going thru the roller deck of sounds...nope not this toy....nope not this one...well I never would have guessed it since it was a new one. He stroked it up and down...It was an electric pen type thing..I could tell it was a small head and not the violet wand.  While it wasn't painful, it did not get me to the edge like we had hoped.  He switched to the violent wand again it was great but never really got me to the edge.  Even his normal touching never got me to the edge. It was then that we both realized I was no longer high.  We did stop and lay together and talk about all that had happened this night, going thru the "thorns and roses" of the evening.  We did go later and finish up, after all this is Sexuary and its about both of us enjoying ourself.

While we haven't always played while I was high, we specifically know that it helps me with the Anixety of the unknown.  That while I don't want to be so high that I can't function, I do like the euphoria that makes my nerves on fire.  I love it really to be honest.  So this night was a bit of a let down due to that, but only due to that.  We discussed that I don't want this electricity s to go into the "back of the closet"  I would like to revisit it, both high and not...Jackie