Sexuary 2022 - Valentines Day - Day 14

Today is ½ way through Sexuary and that makes me a little sad.  It’s also the day you work late.  So you need to let me know when you’re going to lunch.  When it’s time, I expect you to be naked, bent over the edge of the bed, and ready for just a good hard fuck.  I’m hoping your employees will appreciate it the rest of the day! 😁   Seriously though, I love that we’re able to do this every year, and even though we’ve had our ups and downs, that we are in such a good place to have a middle of the day fuck! – 143

Ok, so again best laid plans of mice and men....Jackie wound up not having to work last and that meant I could plan other things.  So breakfast tacos, some gifts, flowers, dinner at a steak house, and then coming home.  While she smoked some I pushed back the dinner table and turned on some music and when she got back in we danced in the dining room.  

That morning my boss told me he and his wife didn't do valentines ....after hearing everything he's worried now his wife might be upset he didn't do anything.  Seriously guys, I do things all year long.  Flowers are almost always in the house, some little trinket is almost always on order for her to enjoy.  Admittedly some of them are as much for me as for her, but she gets to open up her gifts...rarely does more than a week or 10 days go with out me doing something for her. It's doesn't always have to be $100 thing, little things add up.  Wish is a favorite of mine...maybe a $2 pair of earrings i know she'd like or a piercing or a little sugar skull, or a tshirt.  They let he know I'm thinking of her always.  

I don't normally go as over board as I did this year, but I always let her know how much I appreciate her for valentines day.  

OH I did find her a solid chocolate dick on Amazon (click picture to take you there).  Seven ozs of chocolate in a 6.3" dick. I loved it. 

Hope your valentines day went well and you did something out of the ordinary for your significant other.  

 Oh don't worry when got home and had plenty of fun before bed. 

Dane
   

Sexuary 2021 - Clean Sheet Sex

Just a Sexuary quickie

So am I the only person who loves clean sheet sex?  I think that's one of the reasons 'hotel sex' is something for me too, it's both 'hotel sex' and 'clean sheet sex' all in one. 😍You get that someone took the time to prepare a space for the two of you to mess up on purpose. There's a mental plus along with the physical with 'clean sheet sex'.....at least for me. 

So for Valentines today, after Jackie got out of bed I took the old sheets off and put clean sheets on. Guess that means it will be 'clean sheet sex' for us on Valentines day!!  Hope you've done something special for your partner on the hump-day of Sexuary.  Halfway through, have you spun the wheel, done something special, reached outside of your sexual box that you keep the lid on so tightly, anything? How about just some clean sheet sex? It's worth a try isn't it? 

Dane

Sexuary 2015 - Ordinary Items Used As Toys

Ok so it's Sexuary 2015 and you've haven't got an extra $75 or $100 or $200 dollars for a new sex toy, and the batteries are dead in your old ones but you want to have some extra fun in the bedroom, so what do you do?  Look around the house it's full of fun toys that can be brought into the bedroom for some excitement the next time you play.

Kim Bainger in 9 1/2 Weeks

Let's start with the simplest of stuff.  I remember the scene with Mickey Rourke and  Kim Basinger in 9 1/2 Weeks where a single ice cube and made millions of teenagers cream there pants as he ran it down over her lips and
body.  The ice can be used on either sex and lots of fun can be had.  Now I generally get a small bowl and a hand towel to go with it if I'm planning something like that, but yes, an ice cube found in your freezer can be a great addition to your sex toys.

I  know that not everyone wears ties like they used to, but I think most men have a tie or 2 in the closet.  Instead of leaving it in the closet, use it in bed.  Tie someone up and make them squirm (maybe with the ice cube from above), before taking it to the next level.  If you don't have a tie, use a belt.  Honestly you don't have to tie them to tight, it's more about the idea of being constrained than the actual constraint. 

Ok, not every house had cloths pins anymore, but for a dollar or so you can have more than you will ever need to play with.  As nipple clamps, on the scrotum, I've seen them in a row on the thighs or sides, or ear lobe or ...well you get the idea, if you can pinch it you can put a cloths pin on there.  So why? It's not only the pinching sensation, but the rush of blood once you remove the pin that is part of the adrenaline rush.  Oh a little trick I've learned is that a dime, penny or nickel placed by the spring can lessen the clamp.  So if your cloths pin is too much to be placed on the nipple, just put a dime there and see if that is better, if not try a penny or a nickle.Simple adjustment and you can still use the cloths pins.

While we purchased a piece of cloth for the next, a fluffy robe or a fluffy blanket could be used for feeling and texture once the person is blindfolded or maybe you want to just wrap it around your hand and gently rub. I like taking Jackies favorite cloth and spreading it over her and slowly sliding it down her body giving her goose bumps.  But in this case it's about the texture when they can't see.  

Have you priced a good paddle lately?  Yeah they aren't cheap by any means, but the paddle in our drawer is nothing more than a ping pong paddle.  The sides are lifting up and there's a couple of spots a bit worn, but that just gives it character.  A new one is only a few bucks, and I promise, as I speak from experience here, a good wallop with that will do the trick just fine. By the way, a good wooden spoon from the kitchen can do just as good of a job too. Oh and if you're into role playing and one of you is a student, a good hardback book could be your next paddle.

Got a feather boa or some feathers from some school project?  I will say not all feathers are created equal, but if you have something soft like that use it.

Don't have a blindfold to use?  Just take a t-shirt and fold it and tie it in the back or a scarf from her closet.  The idea is to deprive the 1 individual from a sense, that of sight, so anything will work.  Though blindfolds are pretty cheap if you look around.

Certain candles can be used in the bedroom too.  Dripping the wax can be very pleasure/pain enjoyable.  Not all candles are equal for this.  Soy and paraffin candles burn cooler and are easier to remove later.  Avoid most other candles as they can burn the skin.  I found a great article on wax here if you want more on it.

Two dice could be a great start for the night.  Each number on 1 die is a place on the body and the other die represents what you're going to do with it (lick, rub, kiss...come up with your own ideas here).  After a few rounds I'm thinking you won't need the dice any more.  And of course strip poker is always a way.  Another way is that the winner gets to take off a piece of clothing and the loser has to pay 2 minutes attention to that spot, or something to that effect, be creative here.

We play games with sports too.  Superbowl was 3 minutes of being eaten or blowjob for every touchdown scored.  In years past (when we didn't have company) that was due immediately upon scoring.  Made the game a lot more interesting for us and as the game came to a closer, we came too.  

Basketball can be how many points difference between quarters.  Even NASCAR can turn into a game where you pick a driver or team and winner gets xy and z. The difference between places at the 1/2 point and/or the end could be the number of minutes something happens.  If your driver/team wins you get bonus time. 

What we're saying is just because you can't drop a chunk of change at the adult toy store doesn't mean you are stuck with a boring sex life.  PLAN out a night with your partner where all the items used aren't meant to be used for sex, but you do it anyway.  They will be impressed you were thinking about them that much and the extra excitement can lead to so extra fun play.

Do you have a household item you use in your sex play?  Share it here so others can enjoy it too.  Get with your partner and plan out something together, sometimes the planning is as much fun as the doing.  Make this the Sexuary that you have a great Ah Ha moment with your partner and part of that is playing with everyday ordinary objects as sex toys. 

On this Valentine day, the 1/2 way point of and high holy day of Sexuary, find some way to make a difference in your relationship.  It doesn't take a lot of money to have a great time using toys in the bedroom.

Dane

Corset and Plugs

Since I anticipate being in Ausitn the night before then we can bring your corsette and for me a butt plug for public wearing.  I would think maybe a trip to Lucy in Disguise….some public making out.  Thinking you wont be wearing any underwear and I can at least finger you in a public area and if the opportunity exist public sex. As for me, I would want you to rub on m ass and remind me there is a butt plug in my ass (i bet you'll see my cock get hard when you do) and remembering my ass is probably sore from the week before tease and treat me.

Originally this was for this coming Sunday, but because of other obligations we moved it to Valentines Day. We always take the day to get away anyway, we both put work aside as much as possible and focus on each other.

Today was about 2 different things.  In Jackies case it was to flaunt a bit of what she has, and in my case it's about doing something sexual right in front of everyone, without them even knowing about it. Both have their sexual charge.

So picture Jackie in her corset and a very low cut dress.  I thought it was very sweet her belt matched the corset and really looked hot! I on the other hand had a butt plug firmly planted in my rear, that only Jackie and I knew was there and off we went.

Oh wait, phone rings and I had to go to work for a few minutes. So butt plug firmly planted in my ass, my cheeks holding on tight, I went in, fixed the problem and we headed on to Austin.Of course the whole time I'm wondering what they would think if they knew I had a butt plug firmly planted in my rear.

So we go by the Megaplexx and Jackie finds a great toy for both of us.  A 2 sided, vibrator with a strap and a remote control.  She's in heaven.

Next I take her to get her pampering at the nail shop, where they proceed to comment on her 'attire' and the hickies (on her boobs).  "Your husband a lucky man", don't I know it!!!  The poor guy who works there was red faced. Did I mention Jackie was HOT?

We then went to a nice lunch.  It was hot knowing that Jackie was showing off some of her great assets and I was hiding the fact I was playing sexually with my rear.  HOT! HOT! HOT!

Ok, so afterwards we did something we use to do more often, and we both love.  I don't know what it is about checking into a cheap hotel for a great 1 or 1 1/2 hour hot sex session.  I don't know if it's the sneaking off to do it.  I don't know if it reminds us of when we were dating and we'd sneak off during the day for a quickie. I don't know what it is, but it's hot for both of us.

We then headed back to an event back home we were obliged to attend.  It didn't matter, we had spent the day together and had explored some exhibitionism, some public toy play and last but not least great hotel sex. Oh and a package of toys we ordered came in.  what a great Valentines Day!

Dane

PS - Of course she got chocolates and roses too! Geez, what do you take me for?

Yeah Valentines day! If you haven't noticed our calender has totally changed lately.  Its our crazy lives that we have to move stuff around, but that is what its all about. 

We decided today would be corset and butt play.  I have several corsets, one because we are avid Renaissance faire people and another one I got on clearance this summer and had been waiting for the perfect time to wear it.  Today was the day! Its a nice Patton leather one adjustable, and over all pretty darn comfortable and easily removed ;) So take one shiny leather corset, low cut dress, and a town that is used to the "weird" I fit right in. First off was a new set of nails and a pedi.  The ladies were teasing me so much about my girls showing and a hickey showing too.  The lone gent in the place was really red over some of the comments and the fact that my girls were screaming to be looked at.  It made me laugh too! We went to lunch at a great restaurant then off to a cheap hotel for fast hot hotel sex. We have not gotten to do that as often as we used to.  WE had a great time, its was even more exciting to make a mess in the room and then head off wondering if the maids noticed we left so quickly.  

Our day ended with "life" taking up the rest of the evening but when I got home there were a dozen red roses, chocolates and teddy bear waiting for me...We had a great day and cant wait to see what the end of our month brings.. 

Jackie

Half Way There

So out of everything that has concerned me during the preparation for this month was that Jackie would get sick or worst yet a major yeast infection and kill the rest of the month.  I'm generally healthy as a horse and rarely get sick.  But in prevention Jackie and I have been on vitamins, Activa has been regular in both of our diets.  We both had flu shots.  All this in preparation for a Sexuary of Sexuaries.  The bar was set high and we wanted to make sure that yucky, itchy, blahs wouldn't hit us in the middle of the month.

So yesterday right after Jackie and I had been playing I started to feel bad.  Honestly I wasn't 100% earlier, and it could even explain some of my mental state yesterday morning.  But shortly after we played I got sick.  I'm talking 101F sick.  Now don't think that 90% of what I was worried about was if I didn't get to feeling better our streak would be blown.  Ok, at least when I was coherent enough to think.

I don't know what it was, but today I was better.  My temp broke in the middle of the night and while I've been weak I've been much better and ready to continue on.

So we had vanilla sex while the kids were out this evening.  You know what?  It was actually pretty exciting!  After all the extras we've been going through for the last 13 days it was actually pretty great that 14 was vanilla.

So we're 1/2 way there (remember we started 1/31 so a day ahead), and looking good.  We are 2x our own personal best (yes, we went from 7 straight days to 28 as a goal).  And I have to tell you, the 14 days, even with the ups and downs we've been through, has been a lot more fun the the 7 in a row, or the 15 days (every other day) last year.  I've enjoyed the exploring, the nightly pillow talk, the extra text I get on my phone telling me what fun Jackie had, or what she's anticipating, and honestly I think both of us have enjoyed the blog and sharing with everyone the ups and downs of this month.

Tomorrow if Valentines day.  We're off for a day of adventure and romance.  If you haven't started your Sexuary adventures then tomorrow is a great day for it.  Everyone is a bit more open on Valentines Day to romance, communication, and love.  Don't pass up this opportunity.

Dane

We have been going and going and going.  Working on this calender, its been crazy, so ups and some downs.  Some good, some not so good. The good news is we are half way there! We managed to fend off yeast infections, sickies, and everything else in between.  Until Tuesday, then it hit.  It hit Dane hard! Thank goodness we decided to play that morning or we would not have played.  Even if our day started off rough and we did not do anything that was on the list.  I say it ended up at pretty good day.  We actually had 4 hours of un-interupted time together.  The phone never rang, and with Dane's job that was a miracle in itself! 
Sure we resorted to "vanilla" as he said but you know what....its what we both needed! I enjoyed our very vanilla day. 
I know this month has been to work on the spice of life, but sometimes its good to take a step back and go back to what you know...I enjoyed it to the max...Spice or not I love Dane and wouldn't trade this month for anything! 14 days down...we are half way there baby!
Jackie