Sexuary 2021 - Sensations

 If you've read through our blog you know this is a favorite for Jackie and I.  It's taking things in your house, and/or that you've collected and use them on your blindfolded partner.  The sensation of heat, cold, hard, soft, wet, dry, pain, and pleasure all in one session. In preparation  I put a couple of towels on the bed and pulled out all the supplies I'd use tonight.

So I started the night by really working Jackie up, kissing and rubbing all over her.  One of the best aphrodisiacs out there is touch...and lots of it. After I got Jackie all wound up I put a blindfold on her and put cuffs on her after I moved her to the middle of the bed. 

Her favorite cover was tossed over her and I gently pulled it down to her feet.  The softness of this blanket can send chills down your body.  It was the first of the sensations. 

Next came fire.  As I lit one of my fire sticks I then gently rolled it over Jackies body over and over again.  I whip it around some areas, running it back and forth. I walked to the other side of the bed when Jackie "ouched...something bit me on the ankle." I looked down and one of the towels had an alcohol burn running by her leg.  I quickly put out the fire on the towel.  Just goes to show you when play with fire, you must at all times be careful and prepared.  I continued with the fire till I was done and Jackie had a warmth all over her skin. 

A small flogger made Jackie jump as I gently slashed it against her legs, belly and bottom of her feet.  

I took Jackies nipple clamps and started to place them on her. In the past I've put them on and then tighten them down all the way. Today, fully opened Jackie was pulling on her ropes and acting like I ws pulling her nipples off. The only thing we can think of is now she's had her nipples pierced and that's caused a different sensation for her. 

I took clothespins and  put them on her labia and left them there.  I put a 3rd on the one nipple that I couldn't get the clamp to stay on. 

Next was the violet wand and wartenberg wheel.  The shock of the wand and then the needles of the wheel add to the sensations over her body. 

I slowly pulled the clothespins and nipple clamp off of Jackie and watched as she felt the blood rush back to those parts. You could hear her sucking air as each one was removed 

A little cornstarch for smoothness over her body came next. 

I brought her to mutliple orgasm using her bodywand vibrator then I climbed on her and brought her to more.  

We laid there, me gently rubbing on her after we were finished up. It was a great night and another great Sexuary night. 

Sensation, especially when heighten by blindfolding and tied up, can be very erotic and very sensual.  Might be something you'd like to try with your significant other. 

Dane

My take on the month of Sexuary

I was gone at the end of the month so I could not put my two cents in on the month of Sexuary.  Boy what a month! I say that as I wipe the sweat off my brow and the cum from my pussy. LOL It was a crazy, fun, filled, eye opening of a month.

Dane and I had been planning this for months.  I think he sent me the first list in November, where I had a hard time even looking at the dang thing.  It had a lot, and I mean A LOT of things that were on my hard limits area.  I was asked to begin to mark off what I knew there was no way I could do it.  I will admit, I crossed off the whole list....So I put it away.  He tried hard to get me to talk about it, I would just shut down, There was NO talking about it.  Fast forward to January, I had been praying the prayer "Let me be willing to be willing" so I reopened the list and began to go through it again. The second time still had a bunch crossed off, and so I did it again.  I finally narrowed it down.  I sent it on to him to make the calender. 

Now February starts, we start the month and it starts great.  Sure we have some that don't I don't mind at all, some I have no clue about, and some that I know are my hard limits! 

This month was about discovery, to find a way to spice up our lives, in all ways.  To find new ways to get excited and to please each other and ourselves. 

That is EXACTLY what this month did.  I found some things that were very exciting, things I want to do over and over and over again! I have found somethings that I thought were at my hard limits that low and behold I really want to do again, and I have found stuff that I did not know were a hard limit to be a limit.  

All in All this month was exactly what we needed and what we wanted.  We wanted to spice it up, and we were going for an all time record! We had never gone more than 6 days, ever! And we made it 28 days! 28 days...wow...I know some don't understand or some that think we are crazy trying to beat someone Else's record, but dang it they had 31 but we were really really close...and we surprised our self with the breaking of our own records! And you know what....I really loved this Sexuary, it was not mundane, it was not a month that I did begrudgingly, its a month I knew what was going to happen and when and tried to have an opened mind about it all. 

I cant wait until June, when I am going to get my nipples pierced because of what I learned this month. I have learned I really like to be in charge without being the "master" and I love spanking Dane until his ass is nice and red...I have learned a lot about myself and about Dane.  That is what this month was to be about.

What did you learn with your spouse this month? Are you willing to go outside the norm, or your box? Did you find some limits have changed? Did you talk about this...that..or other things....Did you get your goal met? I would love to hear from you! 

Jackie