Tattooing and Piercing

Ok, this one might be a bit more imagination than real.  We could go 2 ways on this.  We could order some henna tattoos and 'fake' percings.  I was thinking though we could be in Austin and go to some tattoo and piercing shops and who knows….but remember we have 13 more days to go. If we do go to town you can do the very slutty dressing up....you tell me what you want me to dress as. *** Ok since we've discussed it, we'll go to some shops, maybe some 'real tattoo' shops and some henna ones, and get tattoos.  I know you want a butterfly, what is your bad boy going to get? Help me out said the tattoo virgin.  We've ordered the hells gate, did you want some sort of piercings (fake or real)? Nipples? Clit?

Oh so many lines of thoughts going on here.

I guess I'll get the 'bad' news out of the way.  Our dreaded anticipated visitor finally made it.  No, not Auntie Flow, much worst, the yeast infection.  At 11 pm on Valentines Day I went to go get some cream for her.  I really feel bad for her.  I'm not sure a womans parts are made for the kind of abuse we've given it this month, and we're just barely over 1/2 way there.  So all day today off and on she's been fighting this battle.  We're hoping by tomorrow she'll be better, but past results haven't been so lucky.  I'm betting our weekend will be modified some to accommodate her current condition and then she'll get to the doctor. So with that in mind we made sure to give the first round of meds a chance and have no morning playing around.

So why Tattooing and Piercing?  First of all Jackie has several tattoos and I think if I let her would have many more.  Ok, let her isn't the right word, but in case you didn't know, nice tats cost serious dollars.  And the tattoo really has to just beg for Jackie to want it, so it's not like she's ready to put just anything on her body.  But she loves them.  She's said many times that one of the best orgasms she had was when she was getting her tramp stamp on her back.  There goes that pleasure pain thing again.  A needle poking you over and over again, piercing into you and you have an orgasm. Isn't the mind a great thing?

Additionally we've talked about a piercing for her clit and for my penis off and on for 5+ years I guess.  I'm not sure either of us will ever have one, but that's been the thought.

So there it goes on day 16 of the calendar.

In preparation we've ordered several new pieces of jewelry, all of them for  just a couple of dollars each.  Nothing was over $5 or $6 with the exception of a piece for me that was $12.  We ordered 2 or 3 sets of nipple rings that clamp on and have beads hanging down.  We ordered a clit clamp with beads on it.  We ordered a 'bull nose' nipple ring.  And last but not least for me we ordered a "Gates of Hell" cock ring set.  I think we've had as much fun trying on the new toys leading up to today as we would today.

Jackie has been almost obsessed with her nipples this month.  It's funny because normally she could care less one way or the other about them.  Ok, she doesn't want me to neglect them, but it's more my obsession than hers.  Not this month.  It's like all of her nerve endings have decided to reroute themselves and terminate in her breast.  Yeah for me!!!  Every time I look over she's putting on a nipple clamp and trying it on.  She spend an entire day looking online for new ones.  It's like she just discovered she has these things and they can feel good too.  Yeah for Sexuary and the discovery of new things.

As we were packing Jackie had me try to put on the 'bull ring' clamp. Not today.  They seriously pinch and after all the play she's had over the last 2 weeks her nipples couldn't handle it.  It really disappointed her though.

So we decided to get a hotel room (have I mentioned how much we love "hotel sex"? ) and check in for the weekend.  We gear up and head out knowing that only the 2 of us know we're wearing jewelry underneath our cloths. For the reason mentioned at the beginning of this Jackie decided to forgo the clit clamp for the night, but has promised me that she'd wear it another night after Sexuary was all over with.

So we go to eat and grab a booth.  Jackie excuses herself and when she comes back she whispers in my  ear that she removed her bra so the jewelry was now showing through her shirt.  Oh my.  What a turn on that was for me.  I asked her if she felt naughty knowing her nipples were clamped like that in public? I knew I did knowing my cock and balls were tightly packaged and encased.  She was really getting turned on and an adult version of strawberry lemonade didn't hurt the cause.

We got to talking about what the best experiences were so far, and maybe what could of been done differently on the ones that didn't go so well.  While we weren't talking loud or anything I got to wondering if the woman on the backside of the booth was wondering what the hell we were talking about.  I mean have you ever been sitting somewhere and you haven't heard a single word of a conversation but then the word 'penis' or 'pussy' or 'nipples' come up?  Our radar takes over and we have to listen now.  We kind of chuckled and hoped maybe she'd get into the Sexuary act that night with her man if she did hear our conversation.

After eating we found a tattoo parlor Jackie wanted to visit.  We found out earlier that the henna tattoo places all were by appointment only, so we missed out there.  It is a shame too, because I was ready to freak out our kids with a tattoo on Sunday. But we went in, looked around. Nothing seemed to really hit Jackie. But there is something about being 'bad' in those places.  The outside the box.  The other side of our every day lives when we go visit those.  I've taken Jackie several times to different parlors when we're in a big town just as foreplay.  Damn right it works every time.

So we headed back to the hotel to finish the night off.  It was different. It was fun.  It was harmless.  And most of all it was a turn on for both of us.  Oh and for the record Jackie is seriously thinking of getting her nipples pierced.  Now this is NOT prompting from me, but from her new found obsession with them.  We're going to wait a month or so though to see if she still feels that way or if it's just a Sexuary obsession. 

Oh did I mention that Jackies right nipple decided to get soft and drop her clamp in the Target parking lot?  We got a laugh out of that, especially as a mom was telling her young boy to 'just put it in your pocket' as we were looking for her lost nipple ring.  We still found the clamp in the parking lot, but we could just imagine if the boy had found it what his mom would explain that one away with.  Tweezers? lol

What have you done to create laughter and fun in your relationship this month?  Have you done anything 'bad' that would be oh so good for the two of you?  If so, good for you!  If not, why not? What are you waiting for?  Make it your goal today to do something to help you and your partner laugh and have fun in the bedroom.

Dane

Bad news...even with tons of Vitamin C, and multi-vitamins I now have a full blown yeast infection.  I am on round 2 of OTC remedies and so far, not much help.  I am still taking tons of VC and not helping as of yet. I do NOT want to cancel any plans, I am thinking we can still play, I don't want to change anything...(insert a cry and whimper here)

Yeah tattoo and piercing night! I love Tattoo's I have 4 already and Dane is right I would have a bunch more if they didn't cost so dang much! I am very select when it comes to tattoo.  I really think about the big picture...what is it that I am going to want to see for the rest of my life. Can it be covered easily if I ever go back to the work place? Right now a tall pair of socks or long pants and a shirt will cover all of mine.  I know I want a Butterfly...I went through a spiritual awakening over the last year and have felt like a Butterfly coming out of its shell, and I want a reminder..I also want a word,,but what word do I want to see on me forever...I have thought about a set of rings we own where the Bible book of Ruth is written out in  Hebrew...your God my God, where you go I will go etc...that is the theme of our lives..or does that fall into the "never put a guy or girls name on your body" list...uggg decisions decisions...what to decide.  So we went to a tattoo place spent about an hour looking through pictures, 1000+ of pictures, and never finding the "perfect" one.  The last one took me 4 tattoo places to finally find the right one.

Now its also piercing night.  We bought several "fake" piercings some just slide on the nipple and some clamp. I do not know why they excited me like they do but I swear there is a nerve that runs from my nipple to my clit that sends electricity down and around in my body.  Which is totally not like me, since my breast are not a usual turn on.  I could care less about having them sucked on or played with.  I know he likes it so I never say not to. So tonight as we went to supper I put on my rings.  Dane tells me after supper when we are going to Tattoo places NO BRA. I decided to surprise him and took it off in the bathroom at the resturant.  Now keep in mind, I am a 42DDDD so its very hard to let my boobs hang...I hate that they sag, and I want them up! So I am sitting in resturant and I have no bra, and I have my nipple clamps on.  The ones I like the most are twizzer type that have an adjustable ring  on them.  We made it all the way through dinner with both. Then we had to go to the store for more medicine...Was hoping another night with all the medicine and I would be better.  Well unknown to me as I stepped out of the car one of my nipple clamps has fallen off.  Went we into the store looking some different lubes, and I realise I have dropped one.  We back tracked through the store to see where I lost it.  Never found it, we walked out to car upset it was gone.  We walked by a family with 2 little boys, with the mom saying "Just put it in your pocket and leave it there" we chuckled and said well hopefully its NOT my nipple clip.  Well low and behold about 10 steps back there it was on the ground! Yeahhhhhhhh

I would like to say we came back to our hotel and had awesome hotel sex, but with my yeast infection that is a no go right now.  That's not to say we didn't enjoy ourselves, we did play but we just didn't have intercourse..

All in all it was great day, we had quality time together, we had great conversation over great food, and ended the night cuddled together.  Reminding each other that even after Sexuary is over we need to schedule in time for us.  Alone time and extra time to push our limits :)

Jackie

Planning

Wow, how to you come up with a 28 day calendar of sex?  If you do it right you spend 45 days 'pondering' it with a lot of time in bed because you've gotten yourself all excited thinking about Sexuary! Seriously the 2 of us started in November talking about what we were going to do and how we were going to do it.  Now it got more serious about mid December and really serious in January but that's how we roll.

We started out by a heads up that Christine was thinking of doing "fetishes" was going to be a theme of sorts.  Now Jackie and I are no strangers to fetishes.  I would love to have my ass fisted and Jackie loves soft touches and has a drawer full of toys that we use all the time to enhance our experiences.  So this was an opportunity for us to push our envelope.  Try some things we wanted to try and have a one time trial run for things that were on our fringe.  Challenge accepted!

So I went to a couple of sites that listed fetishes.  Google was great about this and I came up with over 500 fetishes.  Ok some of them aren't going to happen.  Apotemnophilia (having an amputation) isn't going to happen for us.  Nor Necrophilia, nor many others. So I went through and deleted any of the ones I wasn't comfortable with or that I knew were impossible.  Then I gave the list to Jackie and she removed all the ones she wasn't comfortable with.  There, only 150 fetishes to choose from. :)

So after that we talked about the remaining 150 items.  Now many of these can be combined for a great sexperience.  Like the first post mentioned we combined shaving and water play.  So Dane set out to create a 28 day calendar with everything they wanted.  Once done Jackie asked for changes to be made and then and viola a plan is made.

Now this took us WEEKS to do.   In it we had nights that Jackie would clam up.  It was overwhelming to her, and who could blame her.  Over 500 ways to have sex and 28 straight days that's a lot to wrap your pussy around.  Several nights we'd talk about some of the fetishes.  Some were obviously easier than others.  We already shave, so that was a give me, but she doesn't let me shave her normally, so that's a bit out of her box and something I wanted to do.  Spanking, not so easy.  I want to both spank her ass red and have mine spanked.  I'm not talking love taps, but spankings.  So we worked through it and she gave this one to me.  I want to be fisted, she loves to wear a strap on, We've never been able to get either the dildo fist or her fist in me, and after reading we realize we probably needed several days of her working on my ass to open it up.  Done! She gets 5 days of strapping on her cock and fucking me raw, and hopefully by the end of it I'll have a fist in my ass for once.  But it was a process.  An honest, open discussion many many nights.  And judgmental? No way!

Look fantasies and desires to try fetishes are a personal thing.  They are real, regardless of what society might think.  It's not like you can just toss what you like.  You can pretend, but if you're honest they are still there.  And this is your partner, the person you're suppose to love.  If they want to dress up like a bear and have sex, it's not my thing, but I would try it for their sake.  Over the next month you'll read about several attempts we've had at figuring out what we like and don't like, and some of them might not be your cup of tea, and that's ok with us.  Some of yours aren't our cup of tea.  But that's ok too.

So we narrow it down to our 28 days.  A daily description of what we are going to try.  Next comes probably the most fun we've had so far, shopping for all we need.  Speculums,  gates of hell, clothes pins, soft clothes, a boa, massage oils, and several other things were on that list that we'd need.  In additional we wanted to find a place for on premise swinging and invite one of our friends over to take pictures and have a night of fun together.  Lots of planning and shopping.

Oh my, little did I realize how turned on some of this would get Jackie and I, and we had a fantastic weekend gathering all we needed and an incredible weekend of hotel sex that was off the charts.  Just the thoughts of what we were planning on kept Jackie wet all weekend, and she got aggressive and HOT! I reaped the benefits and it wasn't even Sexuary yet!

So there we are, a calendar with daily descriptions of what is cumming, I mean coming and we take it one day at a time.  Oh for the record we did set some guidelines.  Either one of us can call off a day because it just can't happen.  For instance if on day 4 my ass just can't handle another fucking, then we have 3 plan B's to fill in.  We have safe words.  One for "Ok, you're at my limit, no more than what you're doing now" and one for "Stop right now".  These are just good practice and especially if you're going into something new we highly recommend it. 

Dane

PS - Today is dressing provocatively and teasing for Jackie.  I'll be rock hard most of the day thinking about her strip tease tonight (see combining fetishes that go together), and I'm sure I'll dump a load of cum by the end of the day, I know this because I know how good Jackie is at teasing me when she wants to. When was the last time you teased your partner and lead them up to a great sexperience?  Well what are you waiting for?

Planning this crazy month for us...
Dane had been after me since November to look at this list to narrow it down.  I did look at it...My first instinct was cross them all off...I wasnt going to do anything...forget it! This was all his doing not mine...So I put it away...I didnt look at it all during December and really not until the first week of January.  I then had to do alot of breathing because my first impulse was again mark it all out..but I knew that Dane really wanted my input, he wanted me to have a part.  He wanted to know my dreams, my fantasies, what I wanted.  I didnt/dont know what I wanted how the heck was I supposed to tell him??? So on the 4th time looking at the list, I decided my mind frame would be let me be willing to be willing...I knew a few things that he liked, and I knew a few things I DID NOT like, so I took out the things that were in my "Red Zone" that there was NO way I would go there...I knocked off probably 30 on that round. I slowly went through the list and paired stuff down.  I sent him the list and told him to make the calendar. I also questioned if there was anything on the list that he had kept and I took off, there was only ONE thing that he left on and took off.  
Now let me tell you this calendar really has pushed my limits, both hard and soft limits. He has wanted to talk about it a lot! I did not want to talk to him at all about it.  I made my list why talk.  UGG I don't know how many nights I would get flustered over him asking me questions..I would just totally shut down, cry and just did not understand the emotions that were happening.  I didn't want to talk about the emotions either. I really had to work on my attitude on the whole thing.  The more he wanted to talk about it the more I didn't.  I am telling you I really had to watch my whole deminer when he came to ask me questions about stuff.  It has certainly been a month where his excitement level has been way up because of the planning.

The planning of the calendar has been an event in itself.  What can I say, I have balked at it and not wanted it to be talked about but once it was done and I looked over it and made my own suggestions, WE had it done...geezz 28 days! Are we nuts? Are we crazy? Have we bitten off more than we can chew?   I have to be honest, I cant think about the calendar as a whole...I can only handle one day at time and I told Dane that.  I had to tell him I couldnt get excited about the calender as a whole, there was just too much to wrap my brain around.  My personality seems split on the whole thing so I just am looking day by day...In fact even today as I read what the calendar says I swear he added stuff to calendar since I don't remember seeing part of it.  Its like my brain just could not absorb everything. 

The weekend we got to go shopping for the items we were lacking for the month was a great weekend.  I am not sure if was the shopping or the fact that we had not had a lot of "quality" time with each other due to Dane's new job where he is on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Or if it was a combination of both.  What ever it was he was pretty excited when he got it several days in a row because I was just in that kind of mood. And that does not happen often. We had some pretty raw, hot and heavy sex that weekend. I hope we did not disturb our neighbors at the hotel we were at.  There was no doubt that they could hear us through the walls....

I know we are now on day 2 of our calendar and I still have my issues. I also know that the whole idea behind this calendar is to push our limits.  To see if we could find some new things that we both enjoy.  We already knew somethings but we needed to learn more we so we could get out of our "plain sex' box...you know that rut you get into...well we have been in a rut and sexuary really helps push us out of the rut.  When we started this 3 years ago it was really really did I mention really hard to try 7 days in a row (nope we made it either 5 or 6) then last year was every other day. We made most of that...it even up being on even days I believe and he got 14 days worth.  So this year we decided to "join the band wagon" we wanted our own 28 days t-shirts...maybe even stand on the staircase with the rocky theme playing at the end....

Here is what we do know, we have done what we wanted to do.  We want to encourage others to have a sensual sexuary too! We dont care what you do just do something! If you arent doing anything with your partner just do something...Hold hands, go to the movies, kiss at the red light, anything...Make some goals and make them happen!  Lets all celebrate the end of the month and know you did it! Who is with us??

Now off to find something to wear that Dane hasn't seen me in a while...I am thinking something purple...oh I get to tease him all day too...wonder what I will do...I have my plans...he just doesn't know them yet....evil grin and laugh...
Jackie