Sexuary 2023 - Sounding and Anal

 So before we started Jackie had asked for a weekend day for her.  Now I expected she'd want to get me high or something like that but boy was I totally off, and obviously she changed plans as what she did was at least in part things we learned about at TKF. 

At about 10:30 Jackie told me to go take a good long bath and be ready at noon, with a cleaned out ass and ready for fun. So I sat in the tub, read a steam story (The American Prince, part 2 of The American Princess series).

When I came out Jackie was looking hot in an outfit with fishnet stockings on.  She had me put on a harness I purchased last summer and had me lay in bed.

At TKF we went to LadyBoy's class on sounding.  They recommended rosebud sounds instead of the bars I had, and Jackie really liked them better than the ones I had before.  She also had a better idea on how to use them after the class.  

So she started with the 4 mm and worked her way up to the 10 mm.  It's funny that she was able to get the 10 mm in one time, but when she tried to put it back in, it just wouldn't go.  The 9 mm would slide in and out all the time with no problem, but the 10 mm wasn't going to go back in no matter how nicely it had gone in before.  

But she stroked me with each sound, and didn't take me long to have my first body orgasm.  Now if you've never had a body orgasm, it's not a little fluid coming out your dick.  It's from the tip of your toes to the hairs on your head on fire as waves and waves run through your body.  Jackie kept going and a bit later she had me rolling over and over again with orgasms.  I was just about to tap her to please stop when she did on her own.  But at this point every cell in my body was on fire.  She leaned down to kiss me and her hair rubbed over my body and every place she touched was like a mini orgasm all over again.  

She then put a dildo I had purchased a while back and never use.  It's a 9" dog cock with a knot in it.  It also allows the user to put a fluid in a syringe and push it into whatever cavity you're in (in my case my ass). After we were finished playing with the sounds, she had me masturbate and as I was cumming she filled my ass with the fluids.  I was a bit disappointed, not sure what I was expecting, but was more like an enema then what I was hoping for.  

She then covered me up and told me she'd be back in 15 mins.  My nerves were on fire and I just laid there trying to calm back down and come back to earth. 

When she came back she pulled out the triangle pillow and told me it was time for some ass play.  

Once I was up and over she started with a speculum and stretched my ass wide open.  It felt good and she got several good pictures.  This is something Jackie had been hesitant about, but after seeing it at TKF decided she could do it. I appreciated the class and all we learned there. 

After that she went for the big goal, she went for the fist.  Three times she put it in and out of my ass, each time rubbing my prostate from the inside and again sending me to another body orgasm.  

When we were done, I asked her to just cuddle up with me.  

Now the first part took almost 1:45 minutes, 15 minute breaks for Jackie, then another hour.  So almost
3 hours total. This is by far the longest scene Jackie has ever topped on me.  But I learned a few things. Oh and almost forgot, Jackie videoed the entire second part of the anal play for me, it was exciting to watch a second time.

First, I told Jackie I of used her up against me while she was at break, or maybe the weighted blanket.  My nerves were firing and I could of used that extra aftercare. I now understand why that kind of aftercare is so important. 

Second, I get why blankets are so important in aftercare.  I know it wasn't that cold, but I was freezing after all that.  All my body energy was for everything but to keep me warm.  Seriously it was just trying to get me back to earth and things back to normal, a place I was far from.  

Jackie and I have done a lot of things where I was a bottom, but never anything any better than this.  I don't know what her original plans were, but I know she truly had me in a great place and I really loved it. 

Dane

Sexuary 2023 - Anal Fisting

 So one of the things I learned at TKF this year was that I was probably over doing it while trying to clean out my ass for anal play.  I've been taking an hour or more, to clean out for anal play and particularly fisting.  We learned that a couple of fleet enemas would be enough for what we were wanting to do.  Why is this important? Well first of all it only takes 15 minutes or so to run a couple of Fleet enemas through instead of the hour or so.  But more importantly it's not near as stressful on my bowels since I'm using a fraction of the water, yet Jackie says I'm just as clean as before.  This is a major game changer for me. 

So Jackie told me to get ready and we were going to try another ass fisting.  

At about 3:30 I did one Fleet, and then about 5:30 I did 2 more quick rounds and was done.  

I went ass up into the bed and Jackie put on the latex gloves and started lathering up the lube.  Using some of the techniques she learned at TKF she started working on opening up my ass.  After a while she grabbed a stretching dildo and worked it in.  When she was finished her hand went right into my ass, and after a few seconds a massive body orgasm hit me. There is just something about being massaged from the inside like that, that no other way can compare to.  

I get it, it's not for everyone.  There is definitely some stretching that has to be done, and there is a moment where it's a bit uncomfortable, but then....then OMG.  If you look through this blog you'll see where it didn't happen the first time for us, it didn't even happen the 2nd or 3rd time.  And even now we can have days that we can't make it, that's just part of anal play.  But if you're looking for something to fel amazing and push your limits, maybe anal fisting is what you're looking for. 

Dane

Sexuary 2023 - Texas Kink Fest

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Sexuary 2018 - Texas Kink Fest

This year we were invited to the Texas Kink Fest and decided to go.  Who else would be our kindred spirit but a group of kinksters that were open and would talk and demonstrate about their kink?

So before I get to far, I want to tell you want it wasn't.  It wasn't a massive orgy with sex every where you looked.  And while there was plenty of nudity, there was less than at Hippie Hollow or other nudist camps.  Yes, some of us were nude all the time, some were half dressed, and some never took off a stitch of clothing.  So if you are looking into one of these and think you're going to a Roman orgy you're going to be sorely disappointed.

Now on to what it was.  This was a weekend that people with kinks could display their skills, discuss their desires, and learn from others.  There were several classes each day that you could attend.  There were demonstrations, and there was entertainment all provided throughout the weekend.

 

There were classes Jackie and I attended together, like the ropes 101 class, and there were several we took separately. It was a safe environment, and I knew Jackie would be safe in any of the sessions there alone. 

Their Dungeon was to die for.  Mr. Grey could of taken a lesson from the setup.  It was available for you to try out, and use.  If you were looking for a piece of furniture for your Dungeon they probably had one for you to try, and WANTED you to try it out.  Thank you TKF for that experience!  People would watch respectfully as a scene went on and would just move on afterwards.  

The rope work that was both taught and demonstrated was just fantastic!  We learned a few new knots.  We learned a new way to tie Jackie up that would relieve some of the stress on her shoulders.  We learned we really want to learn a hell of a lot more about ropes!! We also saw one of the most sensual performances where one young lady used ropes to suspend another young lady.  No one in the audience dared to take a breath in fear of missing something.  It was so erotic, so sensual, so spectacular.  

We saw other demonstrations on flogging.  We saw people in their "pup" personas.  We saw a couple with collars being walked around.  We saw needles and hook and so much more.  All was done respectfully and none judgemental.  It was a place a person could go and practice their kink, learn more about their kink, and teach others about their kink.  

Now Jackie and I have learned there are things not for us, beyond one or the others limits.  But we can also appreciate their desire for their kink and appreciate the beauty in things we wouldn't try ourselves.  

If you find yourself with an opportunity to attend such a weekend, we highly recommend it. It was a great time and we look forward to next years Kink Fest, May 2 - 5, 2019. 

Dane