|Kim Bainger in 9 1/2 Weeks|
body. The ice can be used on either sex and lots of fun can be had. Now I generally get a small bowl and a hand towel to go with it if I'm planning something like that, but yes, an ice cube found in your freezer can be a great addition to your sex toys.
I know that not everyone wears ties like they used to, but I think most men have a tie or 2 in the closet. Instead of leaving it in the closet, use it in bed. Tie someone up and make them squirm (maybe with the ice cube from above), before taking it to the next level. If you don't have a tie, use a belt. Honestly you don't have to tie them to tight, it's more about the idea of being constrained than the actual constraint.
Ok, not every house had cloths pins anymore, but for a dollar or so you can have more than you will ever need to play with. As nipple clamps, on the scrotum, I've seen them in a row on the thighs or sides, or ear lobe or ...well you get the idea, if you can pinch it you can put a cloths pin on there. So why? It's not only the pinching sensation, but the rush of blood once you remove the pin that is part of the adrenaline rush. Oh a little trick I've learned is that a dime, penny or nickel placed by the spring can lessen the clamp. So if your cloths pin is too much to be placed on the nipple, just put a dime there and see if that is better, if not try a penny or a nickle.Simple adjustment and you can still use the cloths pins.
While we purchased a piece of cloth for the next, a fluffy robe or a fluffy blanket could be used for feeling and texture once the person is blindfolded or maybe you want to just wrap it around your hand and gently rub. I like taking Jackies favorite cloth and spreading it over her and slowly sliding it down her body giving her goose bumps. But in this case it's about the texture when they can't see.
Have you priced a good paddle lately? Yeah they aren't cheap by any means, but the paddle in our drawer is nothing more than a ping pong paddle. The sides are lifting up and there's a couple of spots a bit worn, but that just gives it character. A new one is only a few bucks, and I promise, as I speak from experience here, a good wallop with that will do the trick just fine. By the way, a good wooden spoon from the kitchen can do just as good of a job too. Oh and if you're into role playing and one of you is a student, a good hardback book could be your next paddle.
Got a feather boa or some feathers from some school project? I will say not all feathers are created equal, but if you have something soft like that use it.
Don't have a blindfold to use? Just take a t-shirt and fold it and tie it in the back or a scarf from her closet. The idea is to deprive the 1 individual from a sense, that of sight, so anything will work. Though blindfolds are pretty cheap if you look around.
Certain candles can be used in the bedroom too. Dripping the wax can be very pleasure/pain enjoyable. Not all candles are equal for this. Soy and paraffin candles burn cooler and are easier to remove later. Avoid most other candles as they can burn the skin. I found a great article on wax here if you want more on it.
We play games with sports too. Superbowl was 3 minutes of being eaten or blowjob for every touchdown scored. In years past (when we didn't have company) that was due immediately upon scoring. Made the game a lot more interesting for us and as the game came to a closer, we came too.
Basketball can be how many points difference between quarters. Even NASCAR can turn into a game where you pick a driver or team and winner gets xy and z. The difference between places at the 1/2 point and/or the end could be the number of minutes something happens. If your driver/team wins you get bonus time.
What we're saying is just because you can't drop a chunk of change at the adult toy store doesn't mean you are stuck with a boring sex life. PLAN out a night with your partner where all the items used aren't meant to be used for sex, but you do it anyway. They will be impressed you were thinking about them that much and the extra excitement can lead to so extra fun play.
Do you have a household item you use in your sex play? Share it here so others can enjoy it too. Get with your partner and plan out something together, sometimes the planning is as much fun as the doing. Make this the Sexuary that you have a great Ah Ha moment with your partner and part of that is playing with everyday ordinary objects as sex toys.
On this Valentine day, the 1/2 way point of and high holy day of Sexuary, find some way to make a difference in your relationship. It doesn't take a lot of money to have a great time using toys in the bedroom.