Sexuary 2017 - Last Weekend

 So this month of Sexuary is quickly coming to an end.  It's the last full weekend and then just 2 more days and this month is done.  While Jackie and I have had fun with some of our favorites, we've also explored some things we don't normally do.  The sofa was cleared off to sit on together instead of in our lazy-boys.  We've made out like a couple of teenagers several times (why haven't we always been doing that?).  We found some new positions that we've never enjoyed before and at least 1 of them will remain big time on our list of positions. 

Ok, so where am I going with all this?  Well Sexuary is about getting out of your comfort zone or doing something you wouldn't do or haven't been doing normally.  For Jackie and I we've done a lot of touchy feely stuff and that just made the sex part better.  And the sex has been better oh my! And if you haven't done anything yet this month you still have time!  There is still a few days.  Don't let this year be another year that you that you regret doing nothing, or tell yourself, "next year".  This year is still here and Sexuary 2017 is still here, so make it count. 

And if you want to share what you did to make it special, just put it in the comments below.

Dane

Sexuary 2017 - Making Out

"Psssst"
"Yes"
"Wanna go make out with me?" ...computer closes and I'm on my way.

When did I forget that making out can be so much fun?  And why did we ever stop making out?  I know we use to make out some when I'd drop her off at home.  Even when we'd go out on dates, we'd make out.  But somewhere along the way we stopped.  WHY?

Jackie, as part of our Sexuary 2017 and our daily touching, grabbing, sensations without expecting sex afterwards, actually we've forbidden it to be right with the sensation, she dragged me off for 15 minutes of making out.  WOW!!! Did I mention WOW?  Between the kissing, the hands just the general mood it was freaking hot.

Now don't get me wrong, we're rarely a quickie, wham bam type sex.  There's foreplay, playing, getting serious, and making sure everyone is very satisfied regardless of what the play is tonight.  But it's just not the same as just making out.  Tongues clashing, hands grabbing, bodies rubbing all making things hot and steamy.

Our Sexuary is starting out great.  I'm looking forward to more make out sessions, even after Sexuary, and knowing my woman can so turn me on with her look, her lips, and her sexiness. How about taking your significant and make out with them tonight?  Yeap, surprise them, you never know where it might lead.

Dane

Touching

So this Sexuary Jackie and I have talked about a few things.  Because of family health issues Jackie will only be around about 1/2 the month, so Sexuary 2014 will not be repeated, and no 28 days of kink that Sexuary 2013 was.  So we've struggled a bit with what to do.  The theme from www.welcometomybrain.net is "me" which has been a bit more appropriate than expected with Jackie being gone taking care of her mom.

But we have talked, and in our discussions Jackie wanted more 'touch' days.  Last year we did a scene where I blindfolded Jackie and then used her sense of touch to create a very erotic scene (read here).  It was a very good scene for us and one we've repeated with variations several times over the year.  That sense of touch is very powerful, especially when it's unexpected. 

So one of the things Jackie and I will be working on this month is touching.  Different places..... different textures...... different temperatures....... different positions while touching ...all working on the sensation that just allows you to feel. 

For the first day of Sexuary I happened to be up with her.  The kids were gone so I made the trip and got us a hotel room.  When coming out of the shower I noticed the bottle of lotion.  I snagged it and brought it to the bed without her noticing it.  So when we started playing I used it to give her a mini massage.  When I went to enter her I went a way I rarely go and it gave a different feeling for both of us.  By the spot in the bed and the muffled screams from Jackie I'd say it was a success. 

Oh I have plans for several other days of touching this month.  Pieces of soft material, ice, candles, clothes pins, maybe even a paddle or two.  All very different sensations, all very happy results when it comes to our bedroom.  But most take a few minutes of planning to pull them off.  I know Jackie deserves that from me, doesn't your partner deserve that from you?

Hope Sexuary is going well for you!  Do something different.  Do something out of your box.  Do something that will surprise the hell out of your partner and make a memory.

Dane

PS - for me, I've purchased a few toys that I can't wait for Jackie to use on me. Oh my shuddering just thinking about them.