So on our calendar was Sensations for Jackie. This is an oldie but goodie that we don't bring out very often, yet Jackie really does like it. It takes some patience, and a little bit of planning, but the rewards can be outstanding.
So I prepared by getting different sensations together. We have a soft blanket we bought for this years ago, a rabbit fur we got from Tandy Leather for a few bucks, a bottle of oils, corn starch, some nipple claps, a paddle we have that has a smooth and rough side, a bucket of ice, a blindfold, and some Japanese rope secured to the headboard and some candles. I searched "romantic" on Pandora and hit play.
With the blindfold on I caressed Jackie with each of these items. With the nipple clamps on I used both ice and wax on her. I caressed every inch of her body with the rabbits pelt. The blanket was run over her several times, and when I was working up top, it was used to keep her warm below. The oils smell good and the corn starch makes your fingers feel soft as you run them over your partners body.
By the time we got to the sex, Jackie was very ready. Thinking about it I should of had something for her to eat too. I think I have in the past, but then I would of had all the senses (touch sight smell taste and sound). I've never played music while doing this before and it had some unexpected side effects. When you engage all the senses like that it can be a lot and hopefully can make your experience that much better.
All in all it was a great start to Sexuary....how about you? Anything? Any plans? Anything to make this month better with your partner than what's been happening? I just gave you a list of ideas that are easy to put together in any household. Improvise with your surroundings, but there is plenty around you that could be used to turn an ordinary night into an extraordinary night.