Sexuary 2022 - Final Day Of Sexuary - Day 28

Today is the last day of Sexuary, it really saddens me.  I love how close we come together during this month every year.  This year though, I wanted to remind you that you are the whole package.  You’re smart, you’re kind, you’re loving, you’re sexy, you’re a great mom and the best wife.  You’re the real deal, and for that I’m eternally grateful.  I love you, and hope you’ve enjoyed these daily messages. -143

I hate the 28th of February.  It's the last day of Sexuary and it really saddening.  But knowing that means I had big plans for the last night.I wanted to end it like we started it with the floggers and more, but up it a notch....ending with a bang of sorts. 

Jackie got all prepared and I led her to the bedroom blindfolded and put her on the St. Andrews Cross.  I ran my fingernails over her skin to bring the blood up to the surface, and ready for a good flogging.

I started to flog Jackie and was going well.  "Color?" ..."Geen to yellow"...so still good. I used the Dragons Tail, and then Thors Hammer and when I  asked the color again, things weren't right.  Jackie was crying but said things were ok....I gently swung the floggers a couple more times then I went and pulled her off the cross.  I didn't feel right about the situation, and my number 1 job is her safety, both physically and mentally.  

I don't know what has happened the last two times we've had impact play, but I know right now she's not in the frame of mind for it.  She's not sure why either when I talk to her.

So we snuggled in bed for a while and ended Sexuary with a poof instead of a bang.  It happens.  And if you are thinking of doing things outside of the norm, days like this are going to happen.  The best laid plans of mice and men as it were.  You have to be ok with those things happening.  I'm not saying happy about it, but ok.  It's no ones fault if someone hits a wall or is triggered, and you have to respect that.  You also have to allow for proper aftercare and reassurance that things are ok.  

So while Jackie and I have a couple of other things planned, this was our Sexuary 2022.  The good, the bad and the ugly of it.  It's the real us.  The experimenting, the trying new things.  The playing with things we like, but don't break out very often, most of the time because of the effort it takes to make them happen.  It refreshes our memory of what each other likes and doesn't like.  It teaches us the new taste we've acquired over the last year.  It makes us make each other a priority, in a world that wants to pull us in a thousand different directions.  That's what Sexuary is for us.  

We hope you've enjoyed our Sexuary 2022 blog.  I'm sure as we do exciting and new things throughout the year we'll post here and again, but for the most part Sexuary is when we do our most posting.  We'd love to hear your feedback, either in the comments or email us.  

Dane