Sexuary 2022 - Hotel Sex - Day 5

 Day 5  Sexuary 2022  started with an email like every other day:

I love your ass….. ok, I really do love your ass AND not only do I love looking at your ass, but I really love when you give me the privilege of fucking and cumming in your ass (and I totally understand why it’s not more often and am not complaining about that). 

 Please remember to send me a (or more) sexy pictures of you today….also that 1 day during the month you’ll let me know before we play that today will be an ass day (I’ll move thing around after that day and have an empty space to fill at the end). 

Today was one of those days that life really wanted to interupt and we made lemonade out of lemons.  Jackie had to go one way for a full day and last minute I wound up having to work 100 miles the other direction.  So what do you do?  You get a hotel room.  

You know I've thought about why I like hotel sex so much over the years.  First of all, if you're doing it right, your neighbors will know you're having sex and be jealous.  You KNOW they are hearing you and there is nothing they can do about it.  The voyeur in me likes that idea.  

Second is you know the sheets are clean that day...and clean sheet sex is top of the list for me. Something about knowing when I'm done these clean sheets will smell like Jackie and myself, and I pretty much know no one walking into the room can ignore that aroma for hours after we leave. 

Third is that while hotel sex isn't 'unlimited', in our rules it all counts as the same day until checkout time.  So, sometimes there is that fun romp when we check in....another that night....and then when morning comes if things are right before checkout, wellllll we might make the bed nice and creamy just one more time before we check out.  This morning was definitely one of those mornings. 

 And last, it's not home and not in our own bed. You know it's something different. It's like sex in the kitchen or sex outside, or you know, anywhere that's not 'normal' sex. 

When was the last time you did something different? For no reason get a hotel room and had sex? Well that's one to try to keep it moving in your sex life. 

Dane

Neked Weekend

So part of Sexuary is making time for your partner.  It's been a struggle for Jackie and I lately.  Oh don't get me wrong we've made time to be intimate and a some time to ourselves, but we haven't really had that extra time alone where we can communicate...catch up...share without disruption...just take a nap together.

So against all odds, with work piles a mile high, we made plans to get away for a weekend and hide from the world.  We have a little cottage we like to visit.  It's secluded, it's private, it has a jacuzzi on the enclosed back porch, and it's 1/2 a mile from a great little Texas town we love to visit.

Friday - Monday we lived in a little heaven on Earth.  Every day we'd get dressed for about 2 - 3 hours and go to town, eat a meal or two...went wine tasting picking up many bottles of wine we enjoy...picked up $100 worth of hand made specialty chocolates that Jackie loves....and that's it! Nothing more.  Ok, we did consider going to a play, but since it was sold out all weekend we didn't.

The rest of the weekend?  We were neked.  We read.  We ******.  We hopped in the jacuzzi.  We slept.  We ****** some more.. We hopped in the jacuzzi.  We ate.  We hopped in the jacuzzi.  We read some more.  We hopped in the jacuzzi.  We ****** some more.  We hopped in the jacuzzi.  We slept.  We woke up and started all over again. Neked the entire time except for the couple of hours we went to town.

It was exactly the kind of weekend we needed!!!  We had no kids.  No troubles.  No worries.  No stress.  No anything we didn't want.

We talked about anything and everything.

We caught up with each other.

We relaxed and caught up on physical rest we both needed badly.

We made time for each other.

Look, Sexuary is about getting with your partner in a finite period of the month and make extra special efforts to communicate with your partner, and hopefully the sexual aspect will improve accordingly.  But if you wait till 2/1/2014 to make the extra effort then your relationship is not going to grow and blossom.  Jackie and I hated that we waited as long as we did, but before we let it get to a point it would effect our marriage we made something happen.

You don't have to go to the extreme of a 4 day neked weekend, but do something, especially if it's been a while.  Figure out a day to head off by yourselves.  Take a walk in the woods.  Plan a picnic.  Go out to a lake for the day.  But do something that the 2 of you can do and you can get close and be together.  Ever booked a hotel room in your own town?  We have, just to get away for a night in someplace different for us.  Plan a day of events (shopping, movie, lunch and dinner, walk though the mall - together). Doesn't have to cost a fortune, does have to be personal where your partner is #1, not the TV, not the cell phone, not Facebook, not your email!

Make today another Sexuary day!

Dane